@GarrethGrey07
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"My means of happiness: Peace of Mind" Hello reader's and writer's how are you? As usual, I wish that you are having a great life and stay safe. Health is our total wealth. Sometimes there are some unexpected circumstances that may happened and it can possibly affect our focus and self motivations, that is why I didn't write anything nor read more articles yesterday as I really feel demotivated.
From what had happen, I realized that it's really hard to maintain our positivity if you are stress, disappointed and at the same time exhausted, it's really hard to pretend that your okay. I ended up bursting with tear's until I fall asleep last night and I really hate myself for being so soft. I really hate, that whenever I am mad, my tears are uncontrollable. It fall as it's really willing to drown me. I hate it, as I look like a child who failed to get the toy that I want, the way I cry so hard. I can't control my tears, but it can freely control my emotions. I keep on trying to freeze that tears but they are stubborn as they don't wanna stop😅. Anyway, I'm good now. I wanted to create a good time today so I will try to change my mood into more on positivity. Life is quite unfair, but definitely my tears won't define the real me, but my attitude towards my disappointments will.
Furthermore it's okay, to be not okay and it's definitely okay to cry, and yet it's not okay to relay your happiness to others. As what adults say's, disappointments is always part of our lives to make us brave. Despite the fact that you cannot please people to support you, never stop and move on. Continue to create a good legacy, continue to dream, continue to inspire, continue to motivate but stop impressing others just to get a little amount of happiness. Honestly when I was a child, I thought that having a dollar in my pocket will makes me happy and prosperous, well actually it is. But I thought I can live peacefully and contented with it. Now that I am already adult, I realized that the real means of happiness for me, is "**peace of mind"**. Yes, money can buy what we want, can sustain what we need but we forgot that our soul needs nothing but peace and that's the real meaning of life.
The real prosperity is peace and healthy mind as it means healthy body ( healthy mind + healthy body=happiness). In order for us to live with peace we should always appreciate ourselves. Appreciate our moments, appreciate our time, appreciate our small wins, appreciate what we have, as we cannot guarantee that others will appreciate the way that we wanted to be appreciated. Appreciate every little good deeds that you did and expect nothing but contentment. Closing thoughts: Our happiness can be measured by how we accept our selves, by how we appreciate every little things that surrounds us, not by how we impress others and how they compliments us. Start living toxic free lives.Remove negativity and stop overthinking. Accept your flaws, accept your imperfections, accept the whole you and be happy! Message: ***Hello my dear readers, upvoters, commentators, likers, sponsors, and to our favourite green baby @TheRandomRewarder thank you so much for always motivating and inspiring me, I keep holding on to my track because you are all here believing in me.*** This is all for today guy's and thank you from the very bottom of my heart 💓. All photos from this blog including the lead image source came from Unsplash.com January 22,2022 Blog#128 no.18
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Contented and Happy Life will come only you will accept who you are. That's the lesson I learned in your article for today Ate Grace.
Thank you as you learn something from my blog ☺️
Yes sis. We shouldn't live surrounded by toxicity. It's not good for us. It's always give us distractions. We should always choose to have a peaceful living. It will give us peace of mind. It will give us concentrations. It will bring us always positivity.
Exactly sis, thank you for reading
I feel you friend. I felt so tired and demotivated yesterday too, but since I want really to push my article to be posted, I continue writing it. How are you now?
I can tell you are strong as you can still manage to continue being positive.
Being positive is a choice and I choose to become positive even it seems like my world is quite falling apart.
That's true. That's the inner peace we all need.
Thank you mate.
Peace of mind is the greatest happiness in the world. If you are happy mentally, you can never claim to be happy. I believe it.
Indeed mate, you say it well.
Just like a song in my country " am looking for some peace of mind ......... Peace of mind is the real happiness . I just need the random rewarder motivations 😖😖😖
Don't worry he will come back to you/us. He haven't visited me yet and I'm hoping he would still recognise me☺️
Indeed, we should not depends our happiness on others especially if they are too toxic for us. Now, I still aiming for a peace of mind ate.
I hope you get peace of mind too
I'm glad that you're okay now. Sometimes it's totally to cry, to take some breaks so we should not be worried about other people's judgmental opinions. You're true Sis, maybe money can buy everything but often it fail to buy our inner peace of mind. Having a healthy body and peaceful mind is the the greatest gift one can have.
Thank you mate..stay healthy too
It is always part of our daily lives being disappointed sometimes is just a key to makes us stronger. Making ourselves better version. Our happiness doesn't depends to other people but also with our own self.
Exactly mate, thank you for reading my blog.
As my response your welcome , Yes I always reading interesting stuff in this platform.
We do not control things that happen around us. The world has a completely different mind of its own. We just have to learn to be happy regardless of whatever happens.
Truth, we have to move on and be happy
Okay lng yung pagiging softhearted ng tao kasi in that way mas gagaan yumg nararamdamn natin, kung iyakin yung tao o madali lng tumulo yung luha madali lng din yng mapasaya, keysa sa mga taong nag iipon ng sama ng luob, di natin sila makikita na umiiyak peru deep inside napakasakit na pala.
Oo nga, mabilis lng din nmn mawala sama ng loob ko
We can find happiness too if we have contentment sis. Its because no matter what we have if we are not contented we will not be happy
Yes sis, it's true, we should always consider it.
Minsan kasi ang iba halos nasa kanila na lahat not contented pa din. Kaya hindi masaya sa buhay sis
As adult we are bound to Experience heart break or disappointment from time to time, it can't be stopped it can only be controlled especially when we don't give in to people too much.
You are right mate, thank you
Peace of Mind is so Very Important because that will be the key to Happiness.
Dear Garreth, I totally understand you, I'm totally like you, every time I get angry, my throat tightens, and my tears flow. I can never defend myself. That's why I'm always weak and fragile in front of others. I could never find a solution to this problem...
Accepting who we are is where we find the true peace. We don't need to mind what people say about us. We are what we are.
The key to happiness is contentment, and realising that nothing and nobody can make us happy except we choose to be happy.
There cannot be everyday a good day, some need to be bad also haha, don't worry take care
Life is full of uncertainties and it's not always sunshine and rainbows sometimes we must face rainy days and storms. We just need to keep strong and ready to move forward.
Life is full of ups and downs. The only certain thing is we are guaranteed that if we keep trying then, one day everything will start clicking.
be happy Garreth, be Strong... You deserve all the happiness amd love you can get.
I think almost all of us are after something or the other. Finding happiness in materialistic things, though we know it is only short lived. Peace of mind is a great thing but this we get only qhen we are happy.