Experts says, nothing can beat to a relationship that has a better communication. A healthy communication, means a healthy relationship.

In marriage, in family and friendships, communication helps you both know each other. Helps you both understand each other. Having a good communication builds a strong trust, and misunderstanding can be avoided.

• A lot of reasons why we should have a good communication and I won't deny the facts that a poor communication may lead to a fail relationship.

• Anyway I am not going to act like an expert here, but as for me everything, perhaps in every issue, Good communication is the key. Good communication is important to build a strong relationships indeed.

So I came to this topic because of what happens to my not so legally mother-in-law's brother. She has a younger brother who has a great life before. I mean, he has a happy family, a home and a stable job with a good salary. However in just one blink, everything went vanish until he becomes homeless and hopeless person.

The issue is because he never tried to voice out, and also because the wife is inconsiderate. Poor communication lead's their family broken.

According to my mother-in-law, her brothers wife's became materialistic because her brother spoiled her a lot. He give everything to her. Money, jewelleries, and anything that she wanted, in just one request she can have them. However because the wife was spoiled she became irresponsible keeper of their home. She began to forgot about her responsibilities, of being a wife to her husband, and being a mother to their children's. She also become addicted to pastimes, like tong it's and casino. She prefers wasting their money than saving .

Meanwhile my mother-in-law's brother didn't say anything. According to my mother-in-law it didn't complain to his wife, about its behaviour, but he always complain to them. Although they are giving him an advice to talked to his wife, he never tried to talk to his wife and solve the issue.

• Then slowly, he started to dislikes everything about his wife character. But the problem is, he never tried to voice out. He never tried to fixed their relationship issues, until he totally gets tired, and give up with his relationship because he finally find another woman who gives him a full attention and care.

So without saying anything my mother-in-law's brother leaves their home. He abandoned his children's and his pregnant wife. The wife becomes frustrated, and she just realized her mistakes when her husband already left them. It's already too late for her to solve the issue, because her husband don't love her anymore.

She was left with regrets and frustration. She can no longer contact her husband anymore, and she even find out that it already resigned from his work. She don't know where to find him. She don't have work, she don't have money to sustain her children's needs and her pregnancy.

Luckily the sisters of my mother-in-law, who's near to them helps them until she delivered her baby. But because of shame after she fully recovered her strength, she decided to go back to her province, and started to have a new life there. She brings everything . Which means even the documents and other personal things of her husband she bring it to them. She didn't left anything.

My mother-in-law's brother on the other hand showed up after two months when his wife left their home. He was homeless and hopeless. His new girl also abandoned him when his pocket becomes empty. He loss everything. His job, his children's, his wife, his happy home and even his own future, as he becomes a drug addict.

Karma is a bitch, is what they says.

• My mother-in-law say's he got his Karma, because he can actually solve the issue of his wife behaviour if only he try to talk to her, but he didn't. Rather he looks for another woman and abandoned his children's without saying anything.

Closing thoughts;

Mistake can never be solved with another mistake, that's all I can say.

With my mother-in-law's brother story, I can't put the blame to one person because both of them has actually have mistake. If the wife was a good keeper and responsible, she won't lose her loving husband, and only if the husband tried to talk to his wife he would definitely won't lose everything. That is why communication is important. But the husband didn't tried to make a good communication to his wife and so now he was the one who's suffering. He wanted to start a new life but it's become hard for him because of his bad record.

Anyway that's all I can say, and I hope you learn something from his story too.

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