"Finding Mr(s) Right"
Hello there lovelies it's me again, how's your day so far? I wish you all had a great Friday so you'll have a great start for your weekend.
Anyway today allow me talk to you about this discussion that I got from Pinterest. Honestly everytime that I had no topic to write just like today, I always run to Pinterest to look for something interesting to read. Lol. Luckily a lot of prompts to be found inside and so I can always have a choices. Pinterest and prompts is now my tasks saver. 😂.
Furthermore, without any further ado I'll start sharing my thoughts in each question, so let's go!
Where can people find a (life) partner? Make a list of likely places to meet someone.
Hahahahhaha, I'm sorry but please allow me to laugh first, before I proceed🤣.
Honestly speaking I am not expert about this matter, so I will only share with you those places where I meet my flings. I mean fling relationship as most of my past relationships (before I meet my partner today) only last for month's, like two to five months then we will split. So there's no any deeper relationship with them, and so I don't think I meet them in the right place 😂.
Work places
Schools
Streets
Mall's
Restaurants
Church
Bus terminals
Airport's
Hospital
Do you have a partner? If so, where did you him?
Yes I have a partner and I only meet him online, in Facebook to be specific 🤣. But I meet him personally inside the airport. 🙈
How did your parents and grandparents meet each other? Was it any different from now?
Well I only know how my parents meet, but I don't know how my grandparents meet each other as I failes to meet them, I mean I didn't meet both of my parents, parents. 😅
So according to my father, my mom and him, meet inside the hospital. My father was sick that time, and my mom's father was sick as well and they are room mates. Back to their first meet, my mom was just 15 year's old and my father is already 25 as they have ten years gap (but age doesn't matter, char). That's how they meet and my father courted my mom when my mom turn's 25 years old. My father was very loyal and respectful to my mom and so he waited for the right time to win my mom's heart as he really loves my mom. Sana all nalang talaga, hahahahhaha.
The difference between my parents time, and with the new generation is the ways of courting. Back in my parents time, courting is very sacred. They have this tradition and beliefs, that woman must be courted inside the house to keep her pride, her dignity and reputation. While men, must be willing to do anything just to prove that his intention was good and pure. He must have to serve the woman's family before he can court the woman. Respect is a must, specially to the whole family. Holding hands and kisses are prohibited as this thing is also very sacred before. Kisses are only for married couples. Both (man and woman) should always consider respect, and if they do holding hands or just simple kiss, they must be married right away.
Today the new generation is quite far from my parents time and I can say that my parents time is more valuable than today.
I don't wanna say more about the new generation as I don't wanna offend myself, lol 🤣😂🙈.
Once you have found Mr(s) Right, what would you do next?
Of course I wanna marry him, hahahahhaha. If his the perfect one for me, then why not? I don't wanna let Go my perfect match. I wanna stay with him as for sure I can feel security.
What do you look for in a potential partner? Make a list of qualities and put them in order of importance.
Kind
Understanding
Respectful
Trustworthy
Supportive
Responsible
If a person has a kind heart, then surely he/she was also understanding. And in each decisions and choices you make, he/she would always respect you. A respectful person can be trustworthy as well, as for sure he/she would also loves to be respected. He would trust you and in each dream's you made he would support you. A supportive person for me is also responsible so he wouldn't break your heart and definitely you are already at the right person 😉.
Anyway, am I at the right person 🤔. Hahahaha
How can you increase your chances of finding a partner?
....as a woman/man?
Well I already have a partner and so I don't need to find. However when I was still in searching, I do flirt. Hahhahaha. Just kidding.
Honestly I was just being friendly, supportive friend and sweet, charr. So maybe that's the reason why I catch his attention.🤣😂
Anyway it's getting late and so this is all for now. I love to continue answering the remaining questions tomorrow.
Lead image source: en.islcollective.com
For my first love and eventually become committed to each other we meet in the beach. Its a long story how I fall in love with him. But sadly we separate ways maybe where not meant to be, who knows we are still single up to this day.