Hello there lovelies, it's already Easter Sunday in our place, how was your Easter so far? Have you got some eggs 😁? Anyway I wish you enjoy the rest of your weekend.

So basically today I was really busy with my laundry, but I still got a chance to open read cash and read some articles from my small circle of friends, while I am accompanying my son to sleep. I mean small circle was those users who normally leave their contribution (opinions) in my comment box. I honestly prioritize to read there articles as you all know I am such a busy person outside the internet. And so I wanted to apologize for the other users if I can't read your articles because you know my time is very limited.

We each of us has priorities and so I also understand if some of you can't or haven't visited my articles yet and so I am also expecting your understanding with my absences in your article too😁.

Anyway today I actually don't have any topic to write, but since I suddenly remember that last Thursday I made a little survey about this matter (Cheating). I asked some people I've known about their opinion if cheating was a mistake or was it a choice?

Disclaimer:

This blog isn't intended to discriminate nor to judge any one, this isn't also made to create a serious debate, as this is made for entertainment purposes only. All the information that I have mentioned from this blog was basically based on my own survey and at the same time with my own opinions and thoughts. I am not talking this in generally either. And if you have anything to disagree, I would love to her your voice in my comment box. No hate just love 😜.

So before I start, I just wanted to let you know that I came to this topic just to express my thoughts about this matter. Not related to my current relationship and not even related to my past relationships😅. But related to my sister's relationship, as she was being cheated by her ex-husband.

My quick survey came out so helpful to me, their opinions enlighten me and made me understand that at some point it can be a mistake choice. I mean it could be a choice and at the same time a mistake.

So the first person I asked was my partner and his opinion was cheating could be both, and unfortunately he didn't say any further explanation with his answer, but as for him it was a mistake choice.

The next person I asked was my best friend.

Her opinion say's, cheating was a choice. As for her, it was a person's choice why he/she do cheating. Because according to her the person might not happy anymore with the relationship, so he did cheating or maybe because he/she felt being neglected and so he/she looked for that shortcomings to another person. However as for her further explanation it could also be a mistake as maybe the person only did that by mistake because he/she was mad and the cheating part had happen when the person was drunk 😅.

Well she has a point. And base on my understanding with her explanation, it was in between or it could also be both.

The third person I asked was my partner's friend.

Her opinion say's, cheating is a choice. Because as for her, why would a person will continue to stay with the relationship if he/she isn't happy anymore? And so he chooses to cheat so the other person will be the one who will end up the relationship.

With her opinion I found it funny. As for me it's a cowardly act or a choice of a person. Because why would you choose to look bad, if you can do it in the right way, right? So a person would be willing to ruin her reputation just to give the other person a reason to give up? That's unbelievable 😂.

Well Anyway, it was her opinion and so I have to respect her.

However, base on the opinions that I got from my quick survey, I finally realized that cheating can be possibly be both. But since the choices has only two options, then I would say it was a mistake choice😂, I mean a choice.

Wow! This is so tricky honestly, I found this question so tough after reading the opinions and thoughts of others🤣.

But anyway, in the relationship of a couple, for me cheating is a choice.

Well I am not experts to this matter, so I would just try to express my own opinion based by my sister's experience.

Because why would you cheat if you really do love the person you're in a relationship with, right? I cannot say that you only did that mistake because you get tempted. Well it could also be possible. But is that how weak you are to easily get tempted? Could you think your still worthy to be trusted?

Lol, anyway it was just my opinion, sorry ✌️. I'm just being carried away by my emotion🤣😂.

However you possibly choose to cheat was because there's no more love in the relationship and respect had already fades between your relationship. You choose to cheat because your a coward and selfish. Because if you are brave enough to let go the other person before you get involved to a third party, then no one will become victim with cheating, right?

The best example for this was my sister's ex-live in partner. He really thought that my sister won't caught him as my sister was in overseas, but the truth can't be hidden for so long, and so my sister found it out. When my sister confronted him, he immediately beg for her forgiveness as he was afraid to lose my sister. He was afraid not because he loves my sister, but because if my sister broke up with him my sister will stop sending him money. They have children's and so my sister always send him money but sad to say he only cheated on my sister. He was a totally je** and selfish.

Anyway what am I trying to say here was in every action or decision we made in our relationship, it was our choice, weather it was done by mistake it was still our choice.

Remember, mistakes couldn't be corrected with another mistake. In any form of relationship, if you do cheating it was your choice. If you did a mistake it was your choice. Why? Because remember that in every steps we make we are responsible for it's outcome.

Anyway we all have differences. We all have different types of opinions and point of view about this matter. I just express mine and I am not talking this in generally. As a matter of fact I also believe that it can also be a mistake.

Closing thoughts

None of us deserves to be cheated and none of us wants to be cheated, and so be responsible and don't cheat.

How about you? Was it a choice or a mistake?

Thank you for reading.