I knew this topic will attract you to open it, it's not a clickbait but what I experience yesterday night. Well, as a good guy that has been working from Monday to Thursday with school assignments and projects, I thought I should flex myself with using the school wifi to watch funny skits and every other information that I might need.

All these were because I wake up as early as 6 am to get water for my bath, if I don't wake up early, I will have to join a long queue in the morning so to avoid that, I have to wake up early. My classes start as early as 8 am too so, I have to be punctual too, my classes end at 6 pm from Monday to Thursday with just an hour to two hours break. I also have a project I have to work on every blessed day, all this makes my day very busy and tight, with no time to flex or enjoy myself.

So it happened that last night, I went to a place called LOVE GARDEN in my school, it's a very quiet place for students to sit, gist and also makes do with the school wifi but it's mostly used by the student by bringing their boyfriends and girlfriends to the place every night just to have fun and have a lovely time together.

I was there peacefully yesterday enjoying the wifi to watch my favourite comedian BrainJotter when a man ( an official in the school ) came to meet a guy and started asking him some questions and it goes thus;

• Why are you sitting down here lonely when your mates are here with their girlfriend?

• Why don't you go to the female hostel and ask a babe out?

• Why did you choose to remain single?

He asked him different types of questions which he couldn't answer to justify that he was violating the name of the place (love garden). The man came to ask me the same question too and I told him I am showing love to myself 😂😂😂. He called me a boy, he said I am not a man at all cos I couldn't walk up to a lady and ask her out. He said a lot of things and I was just laughing and at the same time thinking about it. For the whole of the years, I have used in the school, I don't have a particular lady that I can call my babe or lover, is it bad? Is it not good like that? Is it my fault? Well, I don't really care even though those thoughts do come once in a while.

The particular reason why I don't have a babe is that I don't want a relationship that wouldn't have a better ending, I don't want to date because my friends are dating or because I felt I am alone but I want to date because the person will be the one I want to be serious with or get married with. I don't want to play around with ladies feelings at all cos I know how fragile their heart is and all. I always want to be serious with any lady that I have in mind to date but, unfortunately, I haven't been lucky with anyone yet so I will just continue taking my chill pills and focus on other things.

I didn't spend up to 5 minutes after the man left my side because I was ashamed of myself, other guys were with their lovers and it looks like it was only me that was there alone. This is all that happened at love garden yesterday night, I felt the need to share it with you guys, thank you all for reading it and God bless you all.

Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.

15th January 2022.