Life: you don't always get what you want

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A very beautiful afternoon from here, how was Sunday to you all yesterday? Did you go to church? How was the service being it the last Sunday of the month? I am sure it was amazing cos I see the smile on your face. Let me go directly to the topic of the day, let's begin;

I was going through statuses on my WhatsApp the other day and I came across a video and I was like, hmmm, very true. What was in the video? Did someone just ask me? Well, it was about the passengers on a flight, there is this man that sat beside the window while the person who sat next to him is the daughter of a woman, the woman was also beside her daughter. So, it was almost time for the plane to land, so the woman told the man that " her daughter liked sitting beside the window side whenever the plane is about to land cos she loves to see how the plane goes down, so he should please allow her daughter to sit beside the window while he moves to where her daughter is".

The man replied to the woman and said " the changing of sit isn't the problem for him, he said that's a minor thing to do but he will prefer that her daughter learn a simple lesson that you don't always get what you want".

So after saying this, the man turned his head to the other side and continued with what he is doing. The woman asked if he was being serious about his decision and he never answered again.

Did you grab what I am trying to say in the whole story? What the man said was true, I am not after him for being wicked for not allowing the little girl to sit beside the window but what I am after is that is what he said that we don't always get what we want. That's how life has been programmed and that's how it will be forever. It's not everything that we pray for or work for that we will get.

Life would have been bored if it was that we get everything we want, there won't be any point in putting extra effort into something because there will be an assurance that we will get what we want. But it isn't so, even after putting in extra effort, many times we don't get what we want.

Many want to be famous and rich but they haven't and even after trying several works and putting in extra effort, it's still the same and that's because we don't always get what we want. Many times we have sat alone at home wishing we have money to get some delicious food that we have eaten for a long time at the moment but NO, it didn't happen that way because there was no money at the moment, we don't always get what we want.

So many married men and women have wished to marry a handsome man or beautiful woman because they felt that's what they want but NO, it didn't happen. Some even prayed to give birth to twins because they love them whenever they see them outside but NO, it didn't happen and that's because we don't always get what we want.

So many students out there choose a particular course to study because they love the course but no, they didn't get it, they were given another course entirely and that's because we don't always get what we want.

If we have this mindset that we don't get things we want every time, we will have pleasant peace with our life becusse we won't expect too much from anything. Know this and know peace ✌️.

Thanks for reading and God bless you all.

Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.

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Hmm........... I fully agreed with you. Life is tricky and complicated. Most times we don't always get what we want but later ended up with another goal, only few people understand this about life.

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2 years ago

Wow. This is very insightful and didactic. @gafteklorginal

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2 years ago

If we get everything we want, we become very comfortable and we don't give chances for us to develop or experience growth since we get all we want with ease

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2 years ago

Hmm, wise saying. Truly, we won't have the mentality to grow at all

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2 years ago

Wow what the mad said was absolutely true that if every got what he/she wants always in life everyone else will be successful which will Makes the world a bores place. I learn from this.

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2 years ago

I am glad you learn from this, the world will be a boring place if we get all we want

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2 years ago

You're right, one don't always get what one wants, we just have to learn this... Even though it could really be hurting and painful at times. Take for instance, me: I want a bestfriend who I can rely on, who I can trust, who would love and cherish me as I do her. But unfortunately; ever since. I've never gotten that wish or cravings. Now this is painful but then again just like you said "we don't always get what we want."

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2 years ago

Eeyah, I love your cravings and it's painful you haven't got one, let me be 😉😉😉if you don't mind.

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2 years ago

Lol, someone like you would have a bestfriend already 🥺 maybe it's just my fate🥺🤦🏾‍♀️

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2 years ago

Let's talk in my dm

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2 years ago

It's true we won't always get what we want but most parents always fail to teaxh their kids this from the early stage cos they provide everything that the child asks for. This kind of upbringing will only cos problem for such a child later in life.

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2 years ago

This is true, most parents need to let their ward know this should in case of days that it won't be available

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