Close your eyes and your helper is gone

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1 year ago

It's okay for many to run from their helper in the name of the world is wicked, it's no longer safe to talk to strangers, blah blah. Yes, I accept that but how long will you continue to do that?

The Yorubas will say " if we decide to close our eyes for the evil ones to pass, we won't know when the good ones will pass too". We can't continue to look at everyone with bad eyes or assume that everyone is evil. We aren't the same at all, our brought up and orientation is different so don't classify everyone as one.

The person who is meant to help you won't stress you, it will come easy to you. I understand that everywhere is no longer safe but be wise when you are avoiding people. It's not everyone that you can avoid, you can't avoid your helper else you will remain stagnant for life.

How do you then recognise your helper? I know that will be the questions you will ask me but it's a simple thing and that's why I said earlier that you should be wise about it. Helpers don't write it on their forehead and they don't have a tag on their clothes, they are human-like you and I so you have to stay vigilant at any time.

It's good you are on the watch for everyone's movement because the world has made it like that but do it wisely. Don't do it harshly even though some people deserve that but as I said earlier, your helper will not come to stress you, it will come easily but your negligence won't allow you to know that cos you have that mentality that everyone is wicked and cruel.

Ever since some people have been hurt by their so-called lover or partner, they feel there's no one better outside and for this, they begin to treat everyone equally and badly cos of what they have pass-through. If anyone or even their helper tries to talk to them just randomly, their impatience won't allow them to hear them out, okay, why not just walk out gently even though it still doesn't make any sense but some will even add insults and curses to it which is very bad and wrong. That's why many are where they are till today with no one to ask them out, that's just an example though but it's still the same thing.

So many people have been scammed of their money or properties and for this, they have this trust issue with people. It's fine that you are now very careful about your dealings with people but be wise with it, your helper might come in their midst so don't miss out.

So many people are now very aggressive with their dealings with people based on past experience and for this, they have lost a very huge opportunity in their life. This shouldn't happen cos aggressiveness isn't good at all, we should be always nice and approachable with our dealings with people every time cos we never can know who will help us.

The world is not safe is not an excuse to be aggressive with everyone, we should be approachable at all times but be wise with it.

Don't close your eyes while your helper is passing bye, be vigilant at all times.

Thanks for reading, I really appreciate your time in doing that.

Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.

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Very true. We should try not to let fear overcome us 'cause every man is a victim of what he fears

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1 year ago

Yes, fear enslaves us when we allow it

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1 year ago

Good one! These things happen always, we here about such preaching but somehow we are still victims. Have met people till now, that said they'd break any heart that comes their way because of the suffered in their last relationship. With this, the Godsent will come and and they wouldn't know

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I swear, so many opportunities that many have missed and it's bad

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1 year ago

So true. We should be cautious and vigilant yes, but not aggressive to the people we meet in the name of playing safe.

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1 year ago

Yes, cos we never can say when the right person is near

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Some people who hada bad experience tend to release it to other person. I mean they shouldn't do that especially when such person didn't di anything that could harm him/her. Instead of being aggressive any not be calm and just enjoy things

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A lot of people don't know this

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Don't let previous experience define a new one. Most of the people I am very close to came to my life in messy situations. Let's not be too quick to judge

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Yes, we shouldn't just judge people anyhow.

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That's just it, the experience can make us see everyone as the same while some might be genuine, we won't even give them a chance.

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Yes, I get and that's why I said that we need to be wise about it cos not everyone means harm to us.

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1 year ago

From the stables of the original nice one bro I love it .. good lesson for everyone stay vigilant.

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1 year ago

You are welcome boss. We need to stay vigilant cos no one knows when our helper will come to us.

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