UYABation

Partners for life are found from partners for a little while. Young people nowadays are very fond of having girlfriends and boyfriends, simultaneously. It's very tricky, the life of "young couples." How they find partners, their situation as partners, and splitting with partners have been trending.

It all starts with a boy being attracted to a girl, and vice versa. Let's expound on the sense of this particular attraction. A boy, as always, naturally, uses his eyes for hunting. And these eyes have particular standards. Lovely face, adorable smile, googly eyes, and most importantly, the perfect curves, are sought characteristics of in a girl that can be boasted with their friends. Make their friends envy and leave them in awe. And not to mention, a girl can insatiate the guy's deep intimate desires, if you know what I mean. And from the girls' perspective, they say that they seek that guy who can make them feel safe, feel comfortable with, who can understand them, and knows their worth. But, in actuality, they are much like guys. They always fall for that guy: tall, handsome, cute, varsity player, all muscles, and no brain. Personality and attitude come later for some girls. Yeah, most of them can afford to choose among many. The right choice is always the one with who they can stroll within public, and can hold hands. And much to their denial, girls actually prefer guys who are good to look at while kissing. The wrong partner means social degradation.

Yes, that's right; and yes, it's a fact. Cool guys end up with hot girls, while average guys go with choiceless girls. These relationships may differ with people involved, but they are all relationships, nonetheless. All would have the same predicaments and circumstances. Even those substandard relationships gain normality over time. Courting is, in essence, a useless thing because when a guy asks a girl if he could court her, and she answers yes, that would already be a crystal clear answer for "Will you be my girlfriend?" And it's off to nightlife. Dates, outings, food trips, dates in the dark, and other social gatherings. Going to parties together, and showing off to friends and acquaintances.

To have this kind of beautiful affair isn't just about all the good things it brings even if they are all you only desire. No matter how perfect think your commitment is, and how compatible you feel with each other, it's still impossible to avoid problems and conflicts. And as pretentious young adults, everyone tries to settle things maturely. But the lifestyle problems we tend to adapt cannot be resolved normally, especially when everybody tries the new trends. Time demands of each party, physical needs, and secret forbidden affairs are now the new fashion.

And when they think they have the best relationship in town, pakk! And just like that, it crumbles down to nothing. Surely, a few cries here and there for formality and respect's sake, but still feelings of freedom and freshness can overcome the said sadness. And another search begins. Nothing feels better than to have someone caring for you always. No matter who the someone is, as long as it's always.

A chapter in the life of having an "uyab." The main foundation of where a marriage begins, this is what UYABation is all about.

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