What's not attractive as people thinks.
AUTHOR: OMOJUWA FREEDOM
DATE: THURSDAY FEBRUARY 17
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People have some pretty bad habits, attitudes, lifestyles and they don't think twice about displaying their actual self because they genuinely think they can get away with it, but they forgot about the law of karma and Newton's dictum that "every action has an equal and opposite reaction."
There are some behaviors or activities that people believe are appealing but are not, and I'd like to share a few of them with you:
1. Being mean to someone to impress other people.
I've noticed that when some gentlemen discover their crush is nearby, they consider putting on a new act by trash talking people in the area in order to convey or illustrate to their crush that they are superior, dominant and better in comparison, despite the fact that they are simply ignorant and shameful and the fun fact is that those thoughtless partner will eventually fall for such ploy and finally, when they get together, their partnership is usually toxic, and one of them is usually physically assaulted or verbally abused each day since their connection is established on one of them being superior, but a relationship should be formed on both partners collaborating.
The frustrating aspect is that they try to impress the person they admire by using their friends secrets and they do this when their so called friends are around. It might be fun to you but know that you're hurting someone else when trying to impress your crush by letting them know you're dominance, Don't use the idea of being mean to your friends.
2. Arrogance is never attractive.
Confidence is sometimes mistaken for arrogance, although the two are not the same. While confidence is about enthusiastically using your attributes and insights to assist others when they come over to help, arrogance is about knowing you're good and not being ready to help even when people come over to help. If you're arrogant, you're never in cooperation and coordination with anyone and never ingenious, and you always brag and disparage, belittle, criticize everyone, making yourself look like you know it all.
3. Plastic Surgery; fake butts and slim legs.
What most people don't realize is that proportionality, symmetry is more important or more reasonable than size; there's a justification you're in the shape you are today; to be honest, some plastic surgery is OK, but attempting to make your butts appear larger while having skinny legs doesn't make logical sense.
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4. Hurting someone feelings.
Some people enter into relationships because they are lonely, and the person with whom they have a connection will believe they have a partner while you are simply whiling away time with them, which can be upsetting when they later learn.
Don't gamble with other people ’s emotions merely because you're looking for Mr./Mrs. Right before you settle down, and in the transition phase, many individuals will develop feelings for you, only to be told later that you're only evaluating them.
It's crucial that the other partner is aware of the relationship you're forming from the first day you guys are getting closer and let them know your intentions rather than waiting until one of you develops affections and then having to admit you've never been willing to take part or never been interested.
5. Cheating while in a relationship.
If you know you can't commit to one companion, don't attempt to access a relationship. It's gruesome, unpleasant, horrendous to find out your spouse is cheating, and sometimes the reason for the adultery can be really traumatizing and psychologically damaging because it's usually worthless. After years of being in a relationship, you still learn that adultery, dishonesty remains the leading cause of divorce, which is very unfathomable.
There are Some attitudes that should be reconsidered before they occur since they can horrify an individual. Before drawing any conclusion, try to link it to yourself in such a way that if it happens to you, would embrace it and if not then don't make another person experience it.
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Some people can't just do it, they will always trash talk people to impress their crush or an opposite sex. This is so wrong. I see people do this on a daily basis