Questions and singles
August 2, 2021 Hi Lovely Readers! I must admit it's a tiring day today and how I wish I have that stock of ideas where I can just pull out a topic to share with you. Just like a library that is full of books but instead of books full of ideas that I can write about and share it all with you. I know there are so many topics out there that I can write and I thought I already have picked one this afternoon but as I sit here in front of my laptop I just don't know where to start. And just because I can't think of any topic let's just talk about being single since I'm one of those singles. Just don't ask why ok? Because I really can't answer that question. Speaking of questions let me check if there are questions out there that are intended for single persons. After consulting Dr. Google here is what I found, 40 questions that single people are tired of hearing. Let's pick 10 questions and I'll answer them for you, no I changed my mind let us just make it six questions. I'm a woman so yes, I'm entitled to change my mind every 10 seconds. LOL https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/04/40-questions-all-single-women-are-tired-of-hearing/ Let's start. **Do you think you’re being too picky?** Am I being picky? I think I am, especially now that I'm not young anymore, As you grow with age you just can't pick someone that will come to you without thinking of a lot of things unlike when we are young. Not that I'm saying that you can't be picky when you are young, but when you are young and pick the wrong person you have a reason because you are young and you didn't think so much about it. Having mistakes like that when you are young is still understandable, but when you make a mistake like that when you are a bit older you will hear words that you don't want to hear from the elders. So yes I'm being picky. LOL **When was the last time you went out on a date?** When? April of 2019 in Perth. Yep, that was a long time ago. Details? nope let's not talk about the details. LOL What happened in between that period up to the present? Who can date nowadays? Unless you are in a relationship but risking going out these days with someone you hardly knew is not practical. That is why I haven't gone out to date ever since then.
**What do you do on weekends?** It's pandemic you cannot go out on weekend and besides I'm busy with my store. Thank God it's pandemic I have a reason why I'm not going out on weekends hahaha. But before the pandemic, I usually went out, have coffee with friends, dinner, or movies with friends, and if time permits yes I'm going out of town with them, and was lucky that before the locked down started I was able to go out of town with a friend and went to Zambales, it was December of 2019. **Isn’t there someone you at least like?** Yep, I do have someone that I like. The one I dated last April 2019. But we are so far away from each other so I'm not sure if it still has a future. **So how long have you been single?** How long have I been single? I'm not sure, I think for about 3 years now. **Do you like the** ****single life******?** Do I like it? Seriously? I'm loving it actually. There's no pressure, there's no fight but of course, there are times that I miss having someone but it doesn't mean I can't enjoy being single. I have a lot of time to know myself more, to love myself more but it doesn't mean I'm not welcoming anyone, however, if there is someone out there who will make me fall in love with him why not. I still look forward to having someone I can share my life with but as for now, I'll enjoy being single and pamper myself with things that I want in life and things I want to do. That's it, those are the questions that most single women are tired of hearing especially from elders and from relatives. I know their intentions are good for asking those questions but I also think some people are not being sensitive enough to ask those kinds of questions. There are questions in life that are not easy to answer and there are questions that are better left unanswered. If you are single I challenge you to answer some of these questions too just for fun :)
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Covid 19 has change everything around here government have restricted going to parks and recreation centres so all fun activities are within the house
same here.... but i guess its better than to get sick
I saw your sponsorship last week but mistakenly rejected it can you do that for me again
sure .. wait
Tagal na pla last date mo sis.. Ako nga 2013 🤣🤣 Yes I like beging single too..no pressure..less sakit sa bangs 🤣
ahahahahaa may mas matagal pa pala sa akin LOL ang saya kaya maging single
2-3 years kang ako naging single 🤣, pero parang dikona kaya pumatol sa lalake after ng naranasan ko sa ex ko. Ngayon naman lesbian yung jowakels ko, alam kong labag pero payt payt 🤣. Nung single ako ang hilig ko magpafall tas biglang igoghost, medyo namiss ko pero bad HAHAHAAHAH
ahahaha kung san ka happy dun ka.. pero wag na uuliting ang magpafall tapos mang gghost masakit kaya yun LOL
Opo ate hindi na po. Bago po ako magkajowa ulit mga year bago ko makilala un nagstop nako kase grabe bagsak mg konsensya diko kaya 🤣
hahaha and remember what comes around goes around. :)
Yes ateee always ko syang aalahanin hehe
At dahil single din ako haha, I will choose one of those questions asked above. I chose this "Isn’t there someone you at least like? - I have this one person that I wish I could keep for rest of my life but it's just that... hindi pwede. But in another life, I would be your girl 😇😊
aw... gusto ko yung but in another life, i would be your girl parang may ganyan din ako hahaha
feel me? haha, pang another life lang talaga kami, painnnnnnn haha
hahahaha malay mo naman ay pero baka may kwento lol.. sige pang another life na lang hahaha
Hahaha in another life nalang uyyyy hahahaha
Enjoy lang,sis hehe. Walang pressure pag single!
true!!! sana lang hindi ako mag enjoy ng husto na makalimutan ko yun noh hahaha
Super loving the single life! Pero yes praying for your lifetime partner ate anjan lang yun.....
hahaha thanks pich! pero magtravel tayo ha... puntahan natin si wicked lol
yas that we will do.. mean while ingat mode muna tayo hahaha. kaloka ang kubid kubid
Single? No problem. Heheh para sa akin, mas masaya at malaya kapag single. Nagagawa mo lahat ng gusto mo. Walang makikialam sayo. Kaya ikaw sis, enjoy being single. Party2x na yan! Heheh😊 Newbie here!🙌 God bless you po.🙏
welcome to read universe!!! and yes enjoy lang talaga hehe
Salamat po.. 😊 Sana'y matagpuan mo rin balang araw si mr.right mo. Hehe😊
ahahaha thanks
Welcome😊
will definitely do kasi single mom is meeeeeee hihihihihihi
weeeee go! hahaha
heheheheeh tag kita kasi ikaw source ko mwehehehehe
Sureness 😍
Hello my beautiful friend, it often happens to be in that situation of not knowing what to talk about, even though there are many topics. However, I loved the questions, because always in the family or friends are usually uncomfortable with such illogical things, why are you still single? However I like your way of seeing singleness, and to see life from your perspective, when we are growing, burning stages, and maturing, we have to become more demanding when choosing a partner, because we can not take that decision lightly, I have always seen singleness as a stage of growth and knowledge, because we begin to grow personally and mentally, being alone, It makes us understand many things, and we can deduce where we have failed or where we have failed and why, besides we begin to know ourselves, to evaluate ourselves, to see what our virtues and weaknesses are, singleness is a stage that has to be valued and enjoyed because that is when you know if you are really ready to live with someone, to take those next steps or you are just a free soul, a bird without a fixed nest. I hope you sleep delicious and I wish you have a great day, take care of yourself.
yep, i'm enjoying being single knowing myself more. as they say.. wht ever will be will be. Good night my friend... you do take care of yourself too.
single? well it’s your choice and masaya pg single ka cuz my freedom ka to decide on everything,, kaya wag mapressure and never mind s mga tao ngtatanong cuz there is a ryt time for evrything,, God bless po
Yep.... That's why I'm loving it 😍 thanks Sierho
I think it would be best to remain single rather than have someone who will put you down and make you question your worth. We can be sad from time to time and needed someone, I agree. But it shouldn't be the reason for having a partner. Take your time, the right one will come when you least expect him.
Hahaha I'm being single 😂
My friend you are right when one gets older he or she gets to be picky most especially when someone close to you is acting weird around you and that can easily take you off balance
Yep.... And all of us has the privilege to be picky 🤭 thanks Rafd
I love the single life. I do enjoy being single and I enjoy me as my company. I don't want to be controlled or maybe I don't want to be committed.
Yep! Same here! That's one if the reason why I'm enjoying being single too.. no one controls you
I'm single and I really love the life I live. This gives me complete freedom. Will I marry? of course not :D at least not for now. (I made it a little softer hahaha)
Hahahaha being single is so much and I'm really loving it 😍
Hmm. Challenge accepted po, Ate! Haha. Like you, I'm loving the single life, no arguments, no worries, I got more time for myself but most of the time I want someone but still, I enjoy being single. And dahil bata pa ako, tamang landi lang muna. 🤣
Hahaha yep... That's true! Enjoy lang muna for you. Pero masaya naman talaga maging single lol
Yes, ang saya saya. Hahaha
I am picky too. Why not, di ba? We should choose carefully the people who can come into our lives. And I think it's proper and normal way to do to guard ourselves too.
yep.. that is true! you cannot just dive into a relationship with any person
Yeah. So it's fine to be picky. ☺️
These are the questions most will go through in life. Sometimes with unnecessary pressure from family members, whether verbalized or perceived. Another one is whether to have children or not. I"m sure there are many other such questions we go through in life. The best thing to do is to do the best thing for oneself. Never be under any pressure and guard the heart with all diligence.
Hindi ako masyado nakarelatw atw eylz 😅 hindi po kasi ako single hihi pero ang ganda po 🥰
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