My thoughts on Valentine's

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2 years ago

February 13, 2022

It's the day before Valentine's.

There are two ways to read the first line. For those who are in a relationship that line will be read with an exclamation point. You will feel the excitement in their voice and you will see the sparkle in their eyes as they read it out loud. And for the ones who are not in a relationship you will hear them read it just like any sentence with the normal voice. No excitement, no sparkle in their eyes just a normal sentence that doesn't need to have emotions.

I wonder how you will read it and if you are wondering how will I read it I'll still read it like the ones who are in a relationship. Not that I'm in a relationship right now but if you have a business and you can earn something because of the season, you'll get excited too because it means that you'll have extra earnings because of the occasion.

I think most of the occasions are invented by the business owners. Why? So they can always sell something, they can always produce something new that people will buy. Just like during Valentine there are a lot of items that you can buy nowadays to give to your love. Aside from the chocolate boxes and flowers, there is a lot of new stuff that you can find in the market.

There are bouquets of roses made of chocolate, there are bouquets of flowers made of paper bills (i prefer this one over a bouquet of chocolates or roses LOL). There are cakes that are filled with money inside. There are hearts balloon in different colors. And there is a lot more merchandise that you'll find out there. You can even treat your loved one to a staycation or on an out-of-town trip.

See, there are so many things to do and there are so many things that you can buy for this occasion. And who is benefiting on this occasion? The business owners!

Life was simpler back then, a box of chocolate or a bouquet of roses is enough all ready to make your girl smile the whole day unlike nowadays that you have to treat her to a nice restaurant or treat her to a nice staycation. People became so idealistic nowadays that roses or chocolates are not enough anymore.

And that is the product of social media.

We want something that we can post at the end of the day and not just something, We want something that can make other people say WOW! We want something that people will envy us for having experienced such as a grand staycation or having a romantic dinner at a cozy restaurant not thinking if they are spending too much or not as long as they can brag about it on their social media account.

Think about it. Do we really have to spend so much on this occasion? Do we really have to go big just to show our loved ones how much we love them?

For me? In a relationship or not I still appreciate things that cannot be bought. I still prefer to celebrate valentine's every day and not just for one day. I still prefer to be greeted first thing in the morning with a simple I love you. I still prefer to enjoy mornings with coffee while talking to the person I love. I still prefer receiving written love letters.

Expressing your love for someone every day in your own simple way is a lot better than spending too much during valentines day. Making your loved one feel extra special every time you've got a chance is sweeter than going grand in just one day.

You don't need to spend too much just to make your loved one feel special just because it's valentines day.

Express your love every day and make each day a valentines day.

What do you think? Isn't it better than going big in just one day?


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There's only one thing I care about, and that is self love. Valentine isn't for me.

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2 years ago

Well, most of us who experienced the season where love letters where most popular than having expensive gift and dinner dates, this generation became much more on a trophy side, where they can flex everything and just wanting more and more...

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2 years ago

Lol You are right Most girls are clamoring to be spoilt with gifts like expensive hairs, clothes and other materialistic things…days are gone when we used to feel loved when given flowers and chocolates. I still love to be gifted flowers and romantic cards with cake that has money in it🤪

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2 years ago

hahaha I think ... its just the trend now

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2 years ago

Haha grabe binasa ko ng monotone hahah no sparkle sparkle talaga haha, anyways legit to ewan ko ba sa ibang tao at di masaya na makasama lang nila or even in a simple dinner or kaya makausap at makabonding lang mahal sa buhay is hindi pa enough sa valentines, because we set the social media to our standards.

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2 years ago

yep... that;s true. a lot of people are following the trend not thinking that they are spending too much just because they want to be in

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2 years ago

In my parts of the world. Alot of young ladies would have already started anticipating valentines day from the last days of January. And their boyfiriends are always in a dillemma to impress them weeks before the day. One would begin to wonder where's the love

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2 years ago

yep... the same sentiments I have...

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2 years ago

Walang ka sparkle sparkle talagaaaa haha. And if I were to ask as a girl kung ano gusto ko sa Valentine's day, makasama lang yung mahal ko , okay na okay na ko. 💗

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2 years ago

ahahahahaha wala ba?

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2 years ago

Agree sis. Everyday is a chance to show our partners or treat them special in a simple way. It's better than celebrating in just one day. Everyday is a love day and it's depend of a person how he/she treat their partners. A simple way, talking, laughing, watching movies are indeed memorable.

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2 years ago

yep :) and not just with your partner but with all the people that you love

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2 years ago

Yes sis to all the people we love.❤️

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2 years ago

Valentine's Day is an annual festival to celebrate romantic love, friendship and admiration. it's not all about romantic love but include friendship but most of us are not aware of it

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2 years ago

yep.. but still for me.. it should be celebrated everyday not just for a day :)

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2 years ago

Present over presence talaga sis :) Okay na sa akin na walang gift basta thoughtful yung partner ko and he is faithful and loyal. Happy Valentine's sa inyo!

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2 years ago

yep.. yun naman ang important hehe.. happy hearts day sis

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2 years ago

Happy Heart's Day sis :D

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2 years ago

Quality time is much more important than material things. Make everyday a valentines day :)

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2 years ago

true ka dyan sis

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2 years ago

For me, love is too grand to just celebrate in just a day. I prefer small gestures everyday 😍

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2 years ago

yep. its sweeter :)

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2 years ago

Agreed with you. I prefer simple gift. That would be time saver and money saver too.

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2 years ago

you don't have to be grand to show someone that you love her.. and btw, congrats again!!! i'm happy for the two of you

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2 years ago

Ako ate simpleng bati lang masaya nako, like no gifts or anything. Marinig ko lamg voice nya o ano super contented nako 💓

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2 years ago

yep.. ganun naman pag mahal mo eh

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2 years ago

For me I don't like Valentine's day but I have some plans to make my Valentine's day special will tell you about this tomorrow through article 😁

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2 years ago

ok will wait for it :)

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2 years ago

I also think the way you think. Love for everyday life not for a specific day. When we have love between two hearts, everyday is special and worth to celebrate.

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2 years ago

that's true! everyday becomes special when you have someone special

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2 years ago