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1 week ago

July 22, 2o21

Hi Readers!

I was scanning twitter when I saw this post from ABS-CBN News. And I thought why don't I write about before starting a relationship. I know I'm not in a relationship right now but I don't think it will be a hindrance to write this one. Been in and out of a relationship already so I guess I already have that much experience to share with you.

Let's start with what Piolo Pascual says. I agree with everything that is written there and I also agree that he is still yummy up to now. LOL I'm getting distracted with his looks luckily the picture doesn't look like he is also looking at you.

It feels great to be in a relationship but before diving into that commitment know the person well. I mean really know the person very well. I'm also guilty of that don't fall too soon and I learned my lesson that's why I am agreeing to that line right now. Know every details of the person before trusting them, before giving your heart to that person.

Remember you only have one heart and you shouldn't allow anyone to break it apart. - My Amanda; Netflix.

Know yourself first

Before knowing anyone else, you have to know yourself first. You have to know what you like to do, what you like to eat, what makes you happy and especially what makes you sad. This are all important things before going in to a relationship to build a better foundation. It's not just about getting to know another person, because knowing another person without knowing yourself first will only lead you nowhere

Be who you are

Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to please another person. Be who you really are. This is why it is important to know yourself first. Life is far too short to pretend to be someone you’re not, and you’ll only regret the time wasted trying to pretend you were someone else. Being yourself from the beginning of a relationship will help you avoid wasting your time with the wrong person. If they aren’t totally into who you are at your core, there’s no point in continuing what you started.

Time management

Be sure to balance your time well. Before entering a relationship make sure that you will have time for your partner as well as for yourself and for the realities of life. Of course, we always want to be with the person that we care about, but don't forget that you also need to have your me time, you also have to prioritize your work and your family. That is why time management is important because you cannot give all your time to your significant other. Of course, you have to convey to your partner what things you need to get done for him to understand that you also have your priorities. Spending quality time with your partner is important but don't push your responsibilities to the side.

Communication

"Say what you mean and mean what you say, be direct and considerate, choose battles wisely, treat your partner well, and avoid destructive things like yelling, insulting, and judging," - Dr. Campbell

Always have an open communication line. Lack of communication leads to misunderstanding. That is why you have to be open to your partner. Tell him what you want and tell him what you need to do. Your partner is not a mind reader for him to know what's in that crazy mind of yours that is why you have to tell him, in this your partner will know what to do and what to expect from you.

Final thoughts

Start of a relationship is a lot of fun, a lot of discovering with each other, a lot of sleepless nights talking on the phone. But while you are getting to know each other more make sure not to forget to be who you really, don't pretend to be someone just to please your partner and always be open with each other. If you think something is wrong tell it to your partnert and don't let them guess what is happening with you because you will only be dissappointed because your partner will never guess it. And don't forget that having a quality time is important in every relationship.

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Before you take that person off the shelf, make sure you have done your research. The ingredients, the packaging, the nutritional value, the best before date. LOL. Caveat Emptor - make sure you know what you're buying. It could be a lifelong purchase.

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1 week ago

What you said make sense... And it is true.... We always forgot to do the research

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1 week ago

Matanda na di papa P..pro wafu parn 🤭 And I agree, pro alam mo yung iba early nag aasawa pra sabay sla mag grow.. Sabay sla madiscover mga sarili nla.. At in case hndi magwork, there is still more room for divorce and you can start another relationship.. 😅 May article ako bout dto 🤣 pro saka ko na ipost after ng travel blogs ko

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1 week ago

Oo nga eh nung pinapanood ko sya sa my amanda ... Andun pa din yung appeal nya.. kakilig pa din sya.. wait ko yung article mo.... And yes agree din ako dun sa early mag asawa para kasabay nila mag grow yung kids pero sana di na kailangan yung divorce lol

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1 week ago

Haha.. May bago pla sya teleserye?

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1 week ago

Sa Netflix sis my amanda ang title

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1 week ago

Noted ate! haha This is the hard part i think : Always have an open communication line. Lack of communication leads to misunderstanding.

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1 week ago

Yep... Para walang masisilip na kulang pero minsan kahit anong open ng line mo pag ayaw wala talaga pero si papa p willing aki mag wait lol

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Communication is very important in a relationship. A relationship that lacks Communication is headed for destruction.

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1 week ago

Yep that's true that's why open communication line is a must

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1 week ago

Well said. Sobrang hirap mag dive in sa relationship na hindi ka ready, kasi masasaktan ka na makakasakit ka pa. And di din naman din siya race, so better wait for the right time nalang din. Enjoy the singleness. 🤣🤣

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1 week ago

Yep enjoy the singleness but be aware if your time din hahaha

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1 week ago

Hahahahahahahhaa hintay lang ako. Nandyan lang sa tabi tabi. 🤣

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1 week ago

Oo sis baka tulog pa hahaa

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1 week ago

Wiiee, Papa P! 🤤😂 yung time management talaga at communication pinaka important e. And of course, knowing yourself and be it.

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1 week ago

Ang yummy pa din nya talaga di ba? Hahaha sa kanya lang na focus yung attention ko eh

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1 week ago

Ewan lang din ha, meron kasing kahit sobrang kilala mo na, sobrang tagal nyo ma pero sa huli mang iiwan pa rin. Marami din namang successful na whirlwind romance ang nangyari m, so depende talaga ata sa destiny mo yarn. Chorrr ahaha, basta ako landers lang. Ayaw ko masaktan kaya dun ako sa safe! Charing hahaha. I think I'm inlove with myself only. Ahahaha

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Ahahaha yup hindi din namam talaga basehan yung tagal ng pagkakakilala nyo para masabi na walang mang iiwan sa inyo cguro nga meron talaga mga ganun... Hahaha pero dapat love talaga natin self natin para maiwan man tayo kaya pa din magsimula ulit

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1 week ago

Yesuuu ako dun sa last part 💙, we're strong basta mahal natin ang sarili natin.

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1 week ago

True yan

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1 week ago

Ahaha the yummy part.

All you said are true, especially the mind reader thing. Guys have no idea what's in your head. They could never guess because they see things as is. When you say nothing is wrong with you, they would consider it as nothing is really wrong with you 😂😂😂

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1 week ago

True and then you go sulking without your partner knowing it 😂😂😂

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1 week ago

And he would wonder why you ghost him out of the blue 😂

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1 week ago

😂😂😂 true katawa lang di ba?

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1 week ago

Yeah, hahaha. Karamihan talaga ganito ang nangyayari.

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1 week ago

Time Management talaga at communication ang pinaka importante sa isang relationship eh...haayyyy ang gwapo ni Papa P!!

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1 week ago

Yep totoo yan ang gwapo pa din ni papa p ahahaha yun lang ang nag sink in sa akin sa mga sinabi mo lol

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1 week ago

Be yourself, keep communicating, always have time for each other😊

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Yep... That's needed in a relationship

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1 week ago

Exactly mutual understanding is necessary and also respect eachother thinking. Yeah need to choose partner very carefully. Because we have to spend whole life with him/her.

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1 week ago

I sometimes have a hard time being completely myself cause I'm afraid people will judge me. Maybe that's why I'm still not ready for relationship yet. Haha.

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1 week ago

Why do you have to think of what other people will say? Enjoy your life and do what you want to do.. you don't have to be good in their eyes... Besides its your life not theirs 😉

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Yes, before we enter in a relationship make sure you are ready or else in the end it will be complicated and leads you to heartbreak. We need to be real, yes we should know who we are.. We must know and learn the things in part of a relationship and that's the importance..

God bless you Eylz...🙏❤️

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Correct I agree to this.. the been in and out of a relationship ... Ok all single people there before you enter in a relationship read and understand coz by the end of this its really up to you on how you will handle a relationship .. and also before commiting you should have acceptance and understanding in a relationship just to add up 😉

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Thanks for dropping by and for contributing your knowledge or experience in this matter 😊

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The pleasure is mine... actually you gave me an idea of an article to write might be connected to this ... hahaha i might tag/mention you for the credit Idea

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1 week ago

Tama. Sabi nga nila ang nagmamadali nagkakabali bali.

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Hahaha d natin gusto yun di ba? Lol

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When you want to choose partner then bacme very careful because you want to love whole life with that person And also communication is necessary is every relationship because due to this you know your partner easily

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1 week ago

Alam mo, sis ito sana topic na isusulat ko kanina pero I changed my mind 😁

Communication, trust and a little bit of fun and humor are very vital in a relationship.

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Ahahaha si jane sis meron din daw sya naka line up na ganitong topic haha pati utak natin sis nagkocomnect na lol

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Humor 💪

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1 week ago

para di boring hehe. pag puro cheesiness at sweetness, mejo nakakaumay din 😁

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No doubt dear right 🙌

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