Disclaimer: All written inside the article is only based from my observations and experiences. Thus this is all coming from my point of view, I also believe not all men are the same, so I used “some” to tag those who are doing this.

Asian countries is a bit conservative when it comes to sexual topic than other countries. It's probably because of the cultural beliefs and values we have. We don't casually talk sexual things especially with our opposite sex.

Due to this, some men here have their body languages to express their desire for sexual activities to woman they like without telling the girl directly. For us, it's kinda insult if a guy tells us straight in our face “Hey, I wanna sex with you!” it will scare us to death, except for those liberated ones who are already exposed in other countries culture.

Body languages of a man who has dark desire to a woman

Due to the fact that men here cannot approach women directly if they want to have sexual connection, they'll show some signs through body language.

If you are a single woman and very innocent, who doesn't know how to read mens body language if they want you then just read this.

This is based on observation and experiences. If you are my reader, you probably know I encountered different men, I played and I know how they behave when they want something from me. I'll tell you here so you can avoid especially young ladies who are here.

He winks a lot

Usually men who winks a lot are playful, serious men does not wink for no reason. Winking to a stranger is weird especially men to woman. It is even biblical that when a stranger wink at you, it has some bad intentions. If some random guy winks and looks at you with an aura of desire, please be careful that guy is a nuts.

But this doesn't mean those who winks are bad guys, if you know them personally then maybe it was just their way of teasing you or just being playful. You should know the situation as well before judging.

Very touchy

If you met a guy just recently and already touching you here and there “chansing” please be aware of that action, a man who respect a woman does not touch her a lot especially if they just met recently.

If he is already your boyfriend, you should also observe how she touched you and what parts of your body. There are guys who touch you abruptly even in public places, that's a big sign of disrespect. If your boyfriend cares for your well being he won't touch the sensitive part of your body in public so you won't be in shame.

Protective boyfriend is different from touchy ones, protective boyfriend will only hold your hands or your shoulders in public. If it holds your waist, it's a form of PDA. Some men just hold their woman's waist sometimes as a sign of being territorial, a body language that tells “Hey dude, back off. This is my girlfriend” if some random guys pecking at their girlfriends.

Rubbing your palm out of the blue

This rubbing of palm is sometimes unknown to the innocent ones, our palm if being rubbed slowly and playfully it will give us tingling sensation.

Okay, just try it. Let your fingers rubbed your palm slowly in the middle, rubbed it back and forth or in counterclockwise. You will feel that it tickles a lot.

I've encountered several men like that, as I have a lot of flings and they usually do this after casually holding my hands. It tickles especially to women who are sexually active. It's just that those guys encountered a rock like me, hahaha! Their tricks does not work with me.

It actually tickles me, but my control is stronger than my tickles lol.

I remember when I worked at Manila we talked with my male manager regarding this topic, he was amused that I know this some men's tricks. This young manager is a playboy so he probably do it before. He asked me,

“It doesn't affect you?”

“No! It doesn't haha” even though it does, I just control myself.

“For real?” he is not convinced. People usually see me as sexually active, the way I talk and behave so he doesn't believe me.

“Yes! Come and try it” I let him touch and rubbed my palm.

“Fvck! Are you a human?!” he asked me after he played with my hands and I did all the control not to show any signs that it affects me haha!

This tricks usually men does to turn you on because of the tingling sensation you'll feel. The guy observe your reaction, if you enjoy it or not. If they'll see it's working they'll level up, like kissing you, start touching your body and etc then boom! Let the battle begin! 😂

I encountered it a lot, that's why I tried to avoid them.

The way he looks at you

It is said that our eyes is the window of our soul, if you know how to read people how they look at you, you will know if you are in danger or not.

He looks at you with lust, for some innocent girls it's hard to determine this because sometimes we tend to misunderstood the admiration and lust in the eyes of men.

To determine this, just try to observe if he looks at your eyes or your specific body parts.

If a guy looks at you directly in your eyes and the way you look at them has a light aura, then it must be an admiration.

If a guy looks at you hotly, keeps glancing at your body parts or the way you dress up then it must be lust.

Beware of it, some guys who cannot control their lust will have this dark aura and probably they already played with you in their imaginations.

Closing Thoughts

That's why I end up meeting different guys, because most of them behaves like what I've mentioned above. The only exception is the man I chose to be with right now. I am just wiser enough to avoid all of their intentions, this wisdom has lead me to the right guy who respect me a lot. It also help me to avoid those kind of men and ensure my safety.

I am an observant person, the way people behave and talk then that's where I base my reactions whether to avoid them, to trust them or just simply an acquaintance.

I hope all young ladies reading this will learn something! Kbye.

Thank you for reading!

Date Published: August 27, 2021