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Does First Impression Last?

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Written by   935
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When it comes to first impressions, I always have this negative first impression of people, especially in my real world. People usually give their impression based on your physical appearance and how you mingle with other people.

I got inspired to write this article from miss @ellimacandreaher article “First Impression Suplada/Maldita”, I can relate because I always have this impression from the people around me, not just that there are worst impressions given which I will tell you in this article.


I posted a short post at the noise. cash, asking what are the user's first impressions to me and I laughed all with the reply 😂

I laughed because, what I mean is I'll accept negative impressions whether they'll say for example “I thought you are strict and bully” which negative first impression and positive for example “You are so kind, and yes as I get to know you, you are kind” that's a positive impression.

But users answers are starting with:

Positive- your advised me when my former read cash account got flagged as spam - @HappyBoy

Positive haha. You know that 😂 -@Yen

I asked her what's positive but she never replied anymore, is it positive in covid? Lol kidding.

Positive of course 😊 why would I have a negative impression of someone that didn't do any bad thing to me - @Esthery

🙃🙃🙃 A little nosey - @edip

I know I had a little nose 👃 Hahaha! Is that even an impression? 😂

And many more, comments which I will not attach anymore if you'd like to read you can read it here, noise. cash post.

Mostly I've got a negative impression in my real world

People love to give the first impression upon n first encounter with a person, and usually, I always had a bad impression lol.

Suplada/ Maldita (Snobbish)

Just like miss Andi I always have this maldita or suplada impression and yes I admit I am like that especially when a person is dodgy in the first encounter. I also don't like much a person who is “feeling close” in our first encounter, like really? Close at first encounter, you seem suspicious to me if you are like that in the real world but virtually I don't mind because that's what social media should be, to help us socialize with other people.

Flirt or Slut

I always have this first impression with my classmates before, because I am a silent type of girl but when it comes to boys classmates I can get along with them easier than with my girl's classmates. Especially if the boys I get to talk with are their crushes, I can get along easily with boys because they don't have this overacting attitude, they are not “maarte” and they don't have a lot of issues.

So people usually misunderstood me that I am a flirt or a slut because I can easily get along with boys classmates lol. They just don't know, if I have the chance to choose a gender I'll choose to be a male lol.

I am not easy to get along with

People have this first impression to me that I am hard to get along with, that I am strict and not friendly at all.

Well, I am not so friendly but once I get to be friends with you then you must be good and interesting because I am a kind of a “reserve person” than the usual “every one best friend” but it doesn't mean that I am that hard to get along, I can easily get along with anyone as much as I want but it has limitations as I am not easy to fool person, I mean I don't get impressed right away it's like you, you have to earn my trust first before you can impress me.

I am weird

Well, some people especially when I was in college think I am weird, and yes must admit I am weird.

I always stand out in the crowd because I am different from them, if some people love's to chat, I am the opposite. I don't speak much, I just stay in a corner and enjoy my world.

If my classmates wear formal shirts and clothes going to school, I just wear sleeveless. I don't follow the exact dress code of the school. Find me in the photo above lol 😆

Closing Thoughts

So what do you think? Does first impression last?

For me, it's yes and it's not. It always depends on a person's behavior whether the first impression is correct then it will last but if it's wrong then it won't last.

If you'd ask me, do I give the first impression to a person? My answer is NO.

I don't give a first impression to a person because I am usually an observant person, I prefer to observe their behavior than giving an impression.

I observe a person's behavior in case we will have an encounter I know what would be my actions towards them. I always calculate things in mind, and that includes engaging with other people so I can't be fooled by anyone again. But usually, these are only applicable in the real world as there are a lot of anonymous users in the virtual world.

How about you? Did you have a first impression experience?

Thank you for reading!

Date Published: July 25, 2021

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There are maybe impressions that are true but most of the times are not. Mostly people had the impression of me of being suplado and aloof. Sometimes I am though :D

One of my best friends today have always been misunderstood by people which happens a lot to others too. If we get to know people better and not let our impressions rule us, then we will learn to understand and accept them for who they are.

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2 months ago

Exactly that is why I don't give impression to people, so I will not misunderstood them because I know how it feels being misunderstood.

Yeah some impression are true same with me like I am really weird lol.

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2 months ago

Nakakatuwa naman may na inspire ako sa article ko. ☺️☺️☺️☺️

May mga tao tlg minsan na judgmental na kala nila sa first impression yun na yun. Pero sa bandang huli, okay naman pla.. Ako din mas close ako sa mga boys kasi nga boyish tlg ako kaya may iba tingin din sakin malandi.. hahaha. Pero bahala na sila. Wala nmn ako ginagawa masama. Hahaha

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2 months ago

Hahaha naka relate lang kasi ako sa article mo yung malandi talaga eh yan yung natatawa ako porket may kaibigan tayong lalaki malandi na 🤣

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2 months ago

Hindi po lahat ng first impression tama. Kadalasang impression ng mga tao sa'kin is maldita dahil sa kilay ko.😅 Lagi nilang sinasabi na "akala ko talaga nung una maldita ka." O di kaya slut din. Karamihan kasi sa mga barkada ko mga lalaki. Pero mga cousin ko lang naman.😁

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2 months ago

Hahaha yung slut talaga eh noh bakit ba ganyan ang mga tao pag friends natin mga lalaki slut na agad 🤦 same tayo sa kilay din daw haha

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2 months ago

Masyadong judgemental kasi ng mga tao.😅

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2 months ago

In some cases where you heard a little about the personality he approach you with the impression that people have give about him that is how you handle him forever but for sometimes some people due there mood create an impression that doesn't last forever

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2 months ago

Nagpost ako neto sa FB tapos syempre Alam ko naman mga sagot nila hahahaha

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User's avatar Yen
2 months ago

Hahaha ano ba sagot nila sayo? 🤣

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2 months ago

Mukang maldita , suplada , may bayad ngiti , mahirap kausapin hahahaha.

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User's avatar Yen
2 months ago

Hahaha same pala tayo 🤣🥴

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2 months ago

Dikopa nagagawa Yung ganyan ko pano e bkit puro Ganon comment hahaha.

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User's avatar Yen
2 months ago

Hahaha yan na isulat mo eh sa ganon talaga tingin nila sayo 🤣🤣

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2 months ago

Maldita madam. 🤣🤣 taray kc ng profile pic mo dati tapus angas mo rin magreply.
Pro as we get along, ayun a tapang a babae.. Positive naman pla.. Kahit ilang beses na tayo nagbangayan dun ako mas humanga syo 🤣🤣

Kaht skn dami nagsabi na suplada daw ako first impression nla sakn. I guess si @bmjc98 at @laurenceuuu nagsabi nun sakn. 🤣

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2 months ago

Hahahaha. Oo, feeling ko talaga kakainin mo ko ng buhay nun. Hahaha. To think sa p0x na article mo yun. Hehehe. Pero yun nga mabait ka naman pala. Sobra. Hehe.

Si eyb din yung pic niya dati ang taray. Pero nung nakita ko bago niyang pic, feel ko di ko na kilala yung dati at ngayon kasi mejo magkaiba. @Eybyoung post mo nga yung old profile pic mo. Hehe. Parang magkaiba pic mo sa ngayon. Mas suplada yung dati. Tas ngayon, super cute. Hehe

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2 months ago

Haha.. Grabe yung kakainin ng buhay ako kya nagpapansin syo dati dhl dun sa BF,
Kya nga pic ni eyb dati suplada . ang cute pla.

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2 months ago

Yuan nga e. Sayang di na niya maalala. Hehe.

And yeah, buti na lang talaga di ako mahilig mag blocked ng tao kung hindi ko malalaman na mababait pala kayo. Hehe

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2 months ago

Hahahaha yung drawing ni Jiro? Suplada hahaha.

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2 months ago

Hindi. Yung pinaka una mong profile pic mo sa read. Hehe

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2 months ago

Ahh yung naka filter hahaha

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2 months ago

Before pa nun. Yung isa pa. Haha. Di ko na maalala.

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2 months ago

Ay haha di ko na rin maalala 🤣🤣

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2 months ago

Hahahhahahaa sabi nga nila maldita ako 🤣 kahit mga tropa nang jowa ko natakot sakin hahahaa.

Haha di nga maiwasan yang Suplada na impression noh.

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2 months ago

I'm glad to know more about you po hehe.. Since I'm new here I can't say what is my forst impression to you po.. but just looking at the comment section ..Very friendky kapo.😊at mabait.

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2 months ago

Hehe welcome to read.cash I hope you have a good time here and enjoy.

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2 months ago

Hahaha sakin po, kalog talaga first impression nila sakin. Maingay saka palatawa kasi ako sa personal. So most of them, tama talaga first impression HAHAHA.

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2 months ago

Haha buti ka pa light lang ang mga impression sayo 🤣

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2 months ago

PosiNega pwede ba un Madam? HAHA

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