Winning the argument: Does really wives always be right?

Come across in an argument where his wife is always right, even man was right he just kept muted. Is that really what it looks like? Does this idea of parenting was sound ideal to both parties?. How was it to win a statement? And why do people shall be silent if they are right and others were wrong?. Let's break the chain and hear the thought where no one could really have an attempt to show off.

In the past year, there will always be a debate about whether the man is more supreme than the woman. In terms of career standardization and even society leveled thresholds. In the early traditions, the wife will stay at home and the husband will come out to work. Well honestly, at those time technology wasn’t yet that implemented especially in the Philippines. That’s why they don’t want the woman to work, for the Philippines that time has emerged only in agriculture and laborious jobs.

Husbands don’t want their missis to work in a hot space that was included with suns shade.

That’s what I think others misinterpret. Just that the time of technology was seen the power, when machines were invented and the old way of harder jobs was replaced by machines to operate, that’s the time where women are on the jobs.

That’s what was inside me when they questioned the history, of why women or wives will be left at home to take care of the children. Because they don’t want that their wives suffer from laborious jobs.

Then comes the new era of the millennium, where they said that wives will always be right, this was closely related to the idea of business where they said “Customer is always right.” Does that really happen? Where customers are always on the right side? And even they were wrong they need to be seen as the right ones?. That’s somehow the old idea of slavering people, where all your deeds must be seen correct.

That is one of the ideas where some people think all they need and want must be given to them because they will pay. Somehow it was before again, where people cant really had no choice, but right now the world is changing and the past traditions seem like weren’t being looked at this moment.

Here is something I observed from some wives that thought they were always the right one.

• They don’t regard their husband's emotions.

This really happened when they never asked how was their day went?. Because they had children yet to be fed, what they thinking is that he must work and work. Emotion in a man is something that really must never be miscalculated. That’s somehow the time when the husband could feel like he has nothing but the drinks he harbors because that was what their wives told them about.

• They don’t consider the environment their husband needs.

This is one of the crucial things, imagine your husband just went home and the environment he could absorb while tired and addled is the shut gun mouth of their wife. That’s will result in some issues especially metals, that rest they need was nothing but another tiring argument.

Considered that house chores were tiring at least, but are that valid reasons?

Well, we were all knew about mental health and how gradually affects people predominantly men who were fond of secret indulgence. They just wanted to keep that thing inside so some are no choice to agree with the idea that wives were right and they were wrong.

What do you think is the main grounds why wives and husband separated?.

Do you feel like more and more married are getting to the separations? That’s what I feel today, that’s what I see as this new normal. Where husbands and wives choose to separate.

I asked two separated women on our trip when they could feel like their husbands will break up with them?. Well, it's been years of separation and it's fine to ask,. The answer of both was related. When their husband becomes cold, never look at them anymore. They never cheated, that’s it. It is just that there is something for sure. The other one is that he has just gone for some mind refreshers.

Whom shall I besides with? The husband or wives?

Because I also knew their husband and how they treated them I secretly sided with the men. Because that is what I actually do also if I could feel that there was no growth in a relationship, where day and every day there is hatred and arguments.

Winning the arguments with wives is never easy, that’s what I could see from others. So sometimes men had no choice but to let go. That’s the kind of winning men thinks, to just be gone a little bit. Seen that when men are pissed off they will just go somehow because that’s what they need. Then comes another story.

I won't be biased in these two-part articles, the next article will be “ Winning the argument: Does really husband always be the head?”