Winning the argument: Does really husband always be the head?

Another fallacy we had to break is being the head of the family, sometimes people mostly husbands don’t realize that they were being a toxic head, they became something that leads to their children and wives' discomfort. Being the head of the family is not an easy job I understand that, but somehow I noticed that some heads of the family are toxic, and that’s not good actually. Does really the husband will always be the head or someone who could replace him?.

[Winning the argument: Does really wives always be right?]

The last two days' blog is all about the wives who think they were always right, I am not biased and regarded defined that I just write about certain diverting thoughts. Now I will balance the equations, there was a lot of toxicity but let's get be specific in the sense of times. Sometimes it was the tangle knowing that some husbands because they think they were the providers, must be the ones who are always right, agreed? Did you also glimpse this attitude toward certain people? Or in your experience alone?.

“You were just my child!” I heard it once sometimes, I am not sure where and where I listened to it. Not for me but for other men. Well, it might be sound normal to hear that to a child but hearing that with a boy or girl who had now morals and independent thinking sounds unreasonable right?. Or the word “You are just my wife” if you will be the wife what could you react when your husband tells you that words in front of you?. Well, a wife who suffers this kind was a person who was afraid of their husband.

The same beneficiaries if the divorce will be legalized here in the Philippines, but I think that will be another article haha.

What will do if your husband thinks he will be the one that is always right for he was feeding you?.

Some father or husband thinks they are all the authorities in the family.

This was really happening and we were all not innocent about it. This happened when the husband thinks that the food they gave will be the only thing they need. Also, like the previous article where they don’t understand the mental status of their wives, they think that it's all fine. She never complained or anything, but deeply she cants resist anymore the burden of being something just a wife.

It's not only in their wife but also in their children, they think they much control the child. They must be the ones who will dictate what person he will be, or what professions he had.

I remember my grandfather those days past, he had real control over everything in the house. He must tell them everything they need to know, even used some hands if what he wants won't be the thing that happened from his expectations. 

When they think that it's all about the head of the family, they could be made in an appointment where they were the only right and decision was made upon them.

This is also the thing that is happening, the abusive husband thinks that when they are drunk they could do whatever they wanted. Do you know that even he was your husband if he forces you and you don’t really want to have contact, the court could also consider it rape, and when he did some aggressive action even he was your husband you could fill him a case?.

Well, just the literate person only could know, some wives especially because they think they are below their husbands never think of it. They just let it pass. That somehow also results in some mental broke-down, anxiety, and many more.

There is also a red flag to be seen if your man will be that kind of husband.

You could prevent this thing in your life if you were still unmarried. Look closely at your boyfriend's behavior when he was angry or in the hot seat. Well, some girls really wanted to see their boyfriend drunk to their limits, they said that men's behavior could be seen when he was drunk. Why not also try lol. Opp sorry boys, I just wanted to save the ladies haha.

If you were a man who thinks that same as you knew you were the head and you could do all the things you wanted, think carefully for it becomes somehow toxicity within your people. If you think that you will become a real man by that scene it won't be like that.

Winning the argument does really the husband always be the head? For me, NO never be. Considering the fact that now wives are also looking for jobs, especially when she was professional or not. The real head of the family is the one that takes care not to give toxicity inside the house. Thanks for reading…

The next chapter article is titled "Winning the argument: Why do teenagers seem more advanced than parents"?. Hmmm, Thanks for reading...