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P.O.V: Teenage Pregnancy wasn’t a Sin; read my side.

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Note: The topic was controversial and I won't say I am always correct, please be mindful of others, thank you.

We misjudge people, we degrade and sometimes we kill them by telling things that could be the danger of reasons. We think we are too clean and we are too complete educated about what will happen next to them. We predict the future and all the time we are wrong…

We're just human. How many times have you heard the word “tao lang ako!” or stated as I was only a human. Some people will tell you yeah, you are just a living person like us and embrace your flows yet some will disagree and tell you that humans could use their brains. Where I get those? I am not a innocent, I am observant and I had clear hearing. I heard those in the real life.

Let's get to the point. Teenage pregnancy wasn’t a sin. I am not pro or influencing anyone to be a teenage mother or father, but I am saving the life of the child. Teenage pregnancy has never been a curse or sin but premarital sex was. Don’t blame the result for the mistake, the child won't and never be the hiers of the mistake they made.

It's so clear sometimes telling others that teenage pregnancy was bad, that resulted to the teenager to take abortion or to stop itself. Because of lack of understanding and being future lookout we think that being a teen aged parent could destroy their lives, but the real thing is we are the ones that destroyed the life of the mother and the child. Agreed or not?

Imagine a teenager who was carrying the child, getting out to buy or go somewhere. How many eyes do you think will looked at her? Pitty eyes and some was district and even pranking telling that what they did was unjust.

I am not a child under the teenage pregnancy, I am not a teenaged dad. But I know how to be in shoe of others. I had feelings that could be the same as they are. Walking and trying to fit but the people will talk in your back, then tell the youngers that don’t be like that it’s a sin.

Are we realy that blind headed that will tell that being pregnant was a sin? Carrying a child was a misfuretune of the mother for she must focus more in her future? Is the future ended when they becomes a mother? Is the end when could hold their youngs in the public displays? That’s what I kept hiding questioned to the person who always called them a misfortune.

Instead of giving what they need, the right education how to handle it makes them soberer and some were weaked and ended killing the child and her own. Do you get the idea.

I am not innocent as I said, I met several people confessing about this kind. College wasn’t that cool as the movie and drama. Getting in the colloge could cause some great and unfortune trouma.

We also can't just say that being pregnant because of an abusive stranger (Filter the word please) makes her a sinner for carrying the child. Becase we taught to young generations that this was the sin they refer to be silent, don’t talk about it and just make the things inside them. Could you imagine a teenager who cant slept at night thinking of the what happened? Deciding if she will continue the carrying or not? Thinking what will society will going to stub her face? What will be the marked within its name? Its bursting as I imagine.

The world is changing and we cannot change the new generation of people. Younger people will access the internet and that causes them to discover those things even they weren’t yet in approaches age to enter.

The curiosity will abide and the could makes the sin.

In the other column of the naugty side, their was a reality laying and waiting to uncover. I saw those teenage parents that were strong and they becomes more and more powerful as the day count. Seeing the child grown better depite of their aged. Working for the future of the young. They settle and seen the right side of reality.

So this write was also an open letter to both parties, we could save the lives of others by showing them respect. Being pregnant wasn’t a sin, berring a child is too much younger age wasn’t a misfortune. The life of the child matters, who knows who will be that child? The new genius? President? Nurse or Doctors? Or the first man who will be reach things others cant?. We don’t know yet for we don’t know the future.

Stop the discriminations and mislabbled for teeanaged parents. Thanks for reading…

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We need a better understanding of the most effective ways of delivering sex education especially to young people.

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1 month ago

Most definitely agreed of what @Jeaneth said too. Teenagers pregnancy isn't a sin, it's asukal. lol,I'm just kidding..

In Philippines, I believed that they haven't provide a proper sex educations for teenagers, which I guess, it lead them get curious about it. Teenagers should take responsibilities for their actions too. They should've think about it more or could use condoms as protections. Surely when they got pregnant, they get all the discriminations from all the marites who doesn't learn to keep their mouth shuts.

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1 month ago

It isn't a sin... But people are just too judgemental. Especially jan sa pinas. We've seen how those kids have been bullied because of being a product of premarital sex.. This should really be tackled in school too and educate people about this matter.

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1 month ago

May mga teens padin naman na kahit nagkamali sa una bumabawi naman sa huli. 🙂 Naka graduate padin sila ng college kahit na nagkaanak silang maaga. Tsaka may mga teens padin na nagwowork at rumaraket para lang maitaguyod ang family and or makatulong sa magulang nila.

Hindi naman kamalian ang mag buntis nabuntis lang naman pero hindi ibig sabihin hadlang yon sa kinabukasan ang mali eh yung mga taong nanghuhusga agad sakanila. Kaya padin naman nilang ipagpatuloy ang pangarap nila basta kaya nilang magsumikap.

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1 month ago

To be honest, mas okay ako sa mga teenage parents na pinanindigan naman yung pagkakamali nila, kaysa naman mga nagpaabort masabi lang na dalaga/binata pa. 🤦

Depende pa din naman sa tao yan eh. Maaga kang nagbuntis? Nadapa ka, bumangon ka. May mga kakilala ako na nakayanan naman nila. Ang mali lang ay aanak anak, tapos di magiging responsable.

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1 month ago

I pray for this sis and I hope our teenagers these days will be aware din sa mga ginagawa nila. Dami way para maging aware sila. good thing our government hinay hinay na sa pag brought up about sex kaso crab mentatily nating Pinoy is nakakalaswa daw pakinggan. hays

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1 month ago

I would agree with what ate @Jeaneth have said. Teenage pregnancy can be lessen if they were just properly educated in this aspect. The baby has nothing to do with what their parents have done. They don't deserve to b ehated , aborted or judge. On the other hand, we are all well aware that premarital sex will bring no good to the teenagers. But what can we do? We can't control anybody. The only thing we can do is to prevent the from being pregnant through sex education.

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1 month ago

I agree with you. Sex Education must be elevated. Not just to young people but also to adults. Because some adults or parents here in the Philippines are not that open minded when it comes to sex. Educate the adult first before the young ones because some of them are really harsh about this. Hope everyone of us are open minded to this topic.

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1 month ago

Ou par, walang mali sa pagiging batang magulang, ang mali don ay pinalaglag o di kaya nag buntis peru di pinahalagahan o inako ang responsibilidad bilang isang batang magulang noon paman ay may mga bata ng nabuntis, Kahit nga si mama Mary 16 taong gulang nag buntis ngunit lalang lang ng espirito santo ang kay mama Mary. Kaya naiintindihan ko ang sarili mong opinyun patungkol dito pare. Well, said.

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1 month ago

Teenage pregnancy can be prevented if only the society is open for Sex education. The topic is usually a taboo here in our country and so teenagers who are at their peak of curiosity, explore and deliver the goods.

Meanwhile, pregnancy isn't a sin if it's a result of rape or such cases as abuse. It all boils down to lack of orientation. With this generation, porn sites are transparent so most likely these teenagers are influenced to do it. You can't control how teenagers think but you can teach them how to prevent pregnancy.

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1 month ago

Teenage pregnancy has never been a curse or sin but premarital sex was. Don’t blame the result for the mistake, the child won't and never be the hiers of the mistake they made.

  • I got pregnant before we got married and when we found out that I am pregnant we went to the pastor for counseling and he told me that yeah what we did was a sin but the baby on my womb is a blessing.
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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

I believe public awareness will do too. Most times people are put in the condition of sex for money and so on. I don’t think judging people after a mistake Is the solution to their problem. I believe we can do well in the society.

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1 month ago

That negative and toxic mindset of peopel when you get pregnant, they will say thay you'll end up nothing or you wont achieve your dreams, its like that they predicted already your future because you got pregnant. Ive been there some people judged me for being pregnant but im not teenager tho. Every child is a blessing.

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1 month ago

Actually, it's not a sin if we think of it on the other side. it's just that there are lots of irresponsible people out there who only think for themselves. The problem is that most teenage people are so sensitive when it comes to sex education, just by hearing the private parts being mentioned, they will automatically laugh at it. That is why sex ed needs to be taught in class to help those students what are the right and proper things to do, and for them to be guided and oriented to that matter.

the number of teenage pregnancy in today's generation are increasing and so as the poverty.

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1 month ago

It is not a sin but could be dangerous to young teens scientifically and also could cause deaths.. Sex education and educatio about pregnancy is very important to teens

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1 month ago

The problem goes beyond discrimination. A teenage girl with a child will have fewer opportunities to face her world than a teenage girl without a child. They should be encouraged to become aware of their actions before they become pregnant. People who criticize because they think they are the best in the world have always existed and will continue to exist. they carry a lot of resentment inside. May God have mercy.

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1 month ago

Ewan ko ba sa fb world ngayon. Kawawa yung mga batang ina ngayon. Kahit na alam na nila yung pagkakamali nila, there have some people na tatawanan pa rin sila specifically doing an identity theft where they are spitting nonsense thoughts then making a page with funny stuff which is being pagiging batang ina na normal lang. Nakakainis lang kaya di ako nagshashare ng mga memes nananinira ng puri ng ibang tao haha. Hayst haha, por que panget, ginagawan na ng katatawanan na walang consent sa owner. Pero kasalanan naman na nila kung bakit sila magpabuntis but it doesn't pertain that they should degrade them haha. May ibang paraan haha

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1 month ago

Being a parent is a big responsibility, even at a normal age, and it is even more difficult to be exposed to such a situation at a young age. Here, rather than being a sin, it should be considered that this responsibility can be met and prevented without the need for abortion. In this, there is an obligation to have sufficient sexual education at the necessary ages. Such undesirable results will increase if people try to ignore something they do all the time and try to fit it into taboos such as sin and shame. The only usual solution is education.

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1 month ago

Alot of dreams has been lost due to mockery and discrimination of a teen pregnancy.

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1 month ago

Ya esto se ha eliminado un poco aunque todavía hay discriminación lo mismo a la joven que a sus padres por no educarlos bien, con disciplina y mucha confianza. Linda tarde

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1 month ago

For me sex education is the only key. Di ko alam kung may sex education diyan pero alam ko noon sa nakakatanda meron. Ngayon di ko alam. Kailangan eh para mas maging aware sila about sa bagay nayan lalo na at iba na ngayon

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1 month ago

The solution isn't abortion in any case. And there shouldn't be discrimination for this or considered a sin. But it should be educated in the youth around this and taught how to avoid an unwanted pregnancy.

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1 month ago

When I get pregnant at an early age I thought to myself that I'm not ready for this. I'm not ready to be a mother but I realized sooner that it is not a sin though I'm not yet getting married to my boyfriend. Having a baby is a blessing from Above.

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