Note: The topic was controversial and I won't say I am always correct, please be mindful of others, thank you.
We misjudge people, we degrade and sometimes we kill them by telling things that could be the danger of reasons. We think we are too clean and we are too complete educated about what will happen next to them. We predict the future and all the time we are wrong…
We're just human. How many times have you heard the word “tao lang ako!” or stated as I was only a human. Some people will tell you yeah, you are just a living person like us and embrace your flows yet some will disagree and tell you that humans could use their brains. Where I get those? I am not a innocent, I am observant and I had clear hearing. I heard those in the real life.
Let's get to the point. Teenage pregnancy wasn’t a sin. I am not pro or influencing anyone to be a teenage mother or father, but I am saving the life of the child. Teenage pregnancy has never been a curse or sin but premarital sex was. Don’t blame the result for the mistake, the child won't and never be the hiers of the mistake they made.
It's so clear sometimes telling others that teenage pregnancy was bad, that resulted to the teenager to take abortion or to stop itself. Because of lack of understanding and being future lookout we think that being a teen aged parent could destroy their lives, but the real thing is we are the ones that destroyed the life of the mother and the child. Agreed or not?
Imagine a teenager who was carrying the child, getting out to buy or go somewhere. How many eyes do you think will looked at her? Pitty eyes and some was district and even pranking telling that what they did was unjust.
I am not a child under the teenage pregnancy, I am not a teenaged dad. But I know how to be in shoe of others. I had feelings that could be the same as they are. Walking and trying to fit but the people will talk in your back, then tell the youngers that don’t be like that it’s a sin.
Are we realy that blind headed that will tell that being pregnant was a sin? Carrying a child was a misfuretune of the mother for she must focus more in her future? Is the future ended when they becomes a mother? Is the end when could hold their youngs in the public displays? That’s what I kept hiding questioned to the person who always called them a misfortune.
Instead of giving what they need, the right education how to handle it makes them soberer and some were weaked and ended killing the child and her own. Do you get the idea.
I am not innocent as I said, I met several people confessing about this kind. College wasn’t that cool as the movie and drama. Getting in the colloge could cause some great and unfortune trouma.
We also can't just say that being pregnant because of an abusive stranger (Filter the word please) makes her a sinner for carrying the child. Becase we taught to young generations that this was the sin they refer to be silent, don’t talk about it and just make the things inside them. Could you imagine a teenager who cant slept at night thinking of the what happened? Deciding if she will continue the carrying or not? Thinking what will society will going to stub her face? What will be the marked within its name? Its bursting as I imagine.
The world is changing and we cannot change the new generation of people. Younger people will access the internet and that causes them to discover those things even they weren’t yet in approaches age to enter.
The curiosity will abide and the could makes the sin.
In the other column of the naugty side, their was a reality laying and waiting to uncover. I saw those teenage parents that were strong and they becomes more and more powerful as the day count. Seeing the child grown better depite of their aged. Working for the future of the young. They settle and seen the right side of reality.
So this write was also an open letter to both parties, we could save the lives of others by showing them respect. Being pregnant wasn’t a sin, berring a child is too much younger age wasn’t a misfortune. The life of the child matters, who knows who will be that child? The new genius? President? Nurse or Doctors? Or the first man who will be reach things others cant?. We don’t know yet for we don’t know the future.
Stop the discriminations and mislabbled for teeanaged parents. Thanks for reading…
We need a better understanding of the most effective ways of delivering sex education especially to young people.