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Moving on can be a distraction; don’t move. Moving forward is always a great choice and great realization to life, it’s like we are living under the hurt chapter toward the ending of happily ever after. There some time the value of moving forward is somehow just, and for some, it’s precious as a gold bar.
https://unsplash.com/photos/luEpl6HcfHI I have been watching “Superman and Lois” not realizing I had to create my article too so at least my day becomes somehow productive with a cost. Then I was paused in the scene where Superman argued with his mother, it’s all about helping others with his powers. Then comes the story where his dad died, when young Superman with his father he doesn’t want that he uses his ability, he wanted to be a normal teenager. But the loss of his loved one he realized something that he has the reason why he was sent to earth. ****Moving on can be just a distraction; sometimes to heal you must sit with the feeling****. That was the line of his Mother when young superman argued that he must fulfil his father last line, and that is to help those in need. Then something pomp in my mind, that result in writing here. Somehow we say that moving on is the healing, but are this real? Is really the moving up is the reason why we healed? Or there is something more? That’s come to my mind. Looking for an answer that at least justifies Superman Mother, not me, because I believed in moving on was healing-on. MOVING ON CAN BE JUST A DISTRACTION, Somehow it's real, some people are too much distracted with moving on that they wanted to just stay in their room for the entire day, some are forgotten that they had works to attends, kids to feed, activities, chores and life. They have been attached drowning from deep feelings. ****Distraction To Work.**** You were heartbroken and becomes the reason for losing your jobs because somehow you think that you can’t manage. Imagine the opportunities that await you or the promotion of your work that was cancelled because you were unattained to do the task for the company, it becomes your distractions. ****Distraction To School****. I was a student before so I know how people are intensely looking for the cancellation of their future because they were moving on from their relationship. Some student is really emotional that they can’t perform the reviewing nights for they think they were distracted, some say their boyfriend and girlfriends were their inspiration for school and now becomes their expiration when broke, it becomes a distraction and some ended up losing the diploma. ****Distraction To Family****. Well in the reality, moving on from the hurtful break-up could break some hearts too, Imagine you were moving on and it becomes the reason to ignored your child if you were a parent because you think you were hurt you will stay in bed the whole day, not realizing some small child are waiting for their foods, laundry and more. You forget that you were healing yet some or two child is being punished with that. Some parent also abandoning their child because they say they really need to move on, it’s absurd. ****Distraction To Healthy Living****. Some people forget to eat or stay with something in their stomach. Or just the alcohol and beer become the life support of men who were really broke, they forget to heal their body while thinking of healing their hearts. This is somehow funny to think or just imagination to some but it really happened in reality. ****Distraction To Life****. This covers all the mentioned thing, people are forgettable that to heal their heart they must live happily, have some fresh air not blaming yourself in the four-sided room, travel if you can, met some friends and be with them not with alcohol but to reminisce the moment before, how happy life was. SOMETIMES TO HEAL YOU MUST SIT WITH THE FEELING This is what we forgot and for me the main source of healing with the cost. Imagine someone dumps you and you can’t focus on work ended up losing the job, or being fired instead of telling yourself to stays on the corner to just move-on why not use your time and attention to work so you will forget the hurtful sound. Then the healing and success come two in once, maybe that’s the point for superman mother when she says those things to him. Instead of being down, why not just focused on the child and make him or her the reason for you to healing because, in the end, the child will love you eternal even your partner didn’t get the idea. Rather than losing your partner, ignoring your child might result in losing another one you loved then comes next to your own. This is the main net, moving on is just a distraction, play with it, endure the pain but don’t let the pain just stays in you, be active in something worth than before, then we will find the real essence and the great idea of moving on, moving forward with no distracting things in our life. ***NOTE: My article will only focus on my personal thought, I don’t say you will follow or believed the same thought I had, we are all rational and had own beliefs and thinking when it comes to moving on, thank you for reading.***
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Pain demands to be felt. So maybe it is better to endure the pain until it hurts no more.
Tumpak, the more you hurt the more you get strong hahaha.
I may haven't tried being broken that results to lock up myself alone in my darkroom but I understand those who are in the process of moving on. It may distract them and also the people around but they will heal in time. 💗
Indeed I also understand those individuals I won't argue when they say they can not hehe. kaya nilagyan ko din ng Note disclaimer eh LOL
Hehe napakahirap talaga sguro mag move on
Hindi naman ako nahirapan noon charr, basta oo mahirap na ewan hahaha
Hindi naman masyado? Hehe okay lang yan. Natural sguro yan. Masasabi ko sigurong mahirap talaga pag naranasan ko na
Irrespective of what I go through, I don't allow my emotions to interfere with my everyday life. It's not easy but especially my academics I take them seriously even when it's not convenient. I see no reason why a person will lose motivation to study or go on with schooling because of a breakup. Claiming that a boyfriend or girlfriend is the motivation for schooling is just pure excuse for failure. I don't think a logical person should think that way. What I think is we should learn to separate our emotions from things that are really important in our lives. Our emotions shouldn't distract us from being a better person. Disclaimer: just my opinion though. 🤣
Hahaha, I liked it, man. Me too I don't let the feeling affect those things especially my future life LOL. I was heart broken when I was college still get up and do reads my notes ahahha
Endurance is the key po serrr no? Kelangan masanay tayo. Kung hindi, talo tayo.
Haha wag naman sa masanay Teacher masakit din kaya pwedi siguro once lang mag move on charrr
I mean masanay sa pain hanggang normal nalang satin yung pain charot
haha yun pala kala ko yung mag move on hehe kapag ako nagka tatlo quota na yun hahaha ayaw ko na kapag charrr
Hahaha waggg dapat unli
Indeed it is. Tama Yung mother ni superman. To let go and move on you need to sit with the feelings para din Hindi mo na siya dalhin San ka magpunta. Just sit Kasi isang upuan Lang wag Naman live with it, off course you can't let go if you live with it Naman. Tamang contemplate and acceptance that it happens wag man Sana umabot Ng forever. Ganun dapat ginagawa natin, and I agree of what you have said.
Yiee I liked that, sit para tumayo na after hehe. Like resting a bit then move and do things next...
Endure the pain until you will no longer feel it. That's how it supposed to work lol. Talo ka kapag magpapadala ka sa emosyon mo :)
Tumpak the pain will go if we let our selves let go the emotions we don't need much...
This was solid motivation here, most times the situation where we find ourselves or the struggles can be really challenging but letting it affect your life is very wrong. Endure just for a while and everything will go just the way you planned it.
You were really a KING, yeah that's well said. Let you sit the pain but sitting never be forever it just take short time and we should stand up to face another chapter.
Ay truth, ate ko nung nanganak parang kinamuhian nya pa anak nya kase ung tatay nila nawala biglaan nung manganganak nasiya. Pero wala e, gangan talaga buhay. Ngayon ung anak nya naeon ung nagiging reason bat nagpapatuloy sya
For real? wow mabuti naman at narealized niya how precious the child is in her life... Huge clap to her
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ----Bruce Lee 😍
Indeed, easy life has never been easy for LOL. Your a fan of Bruce Lee too? wow me too.
I agree with that.... sometimes, God answers our prayers mysteriously...
Moving on can be just a distraction; sometimes to heal you must sit with the feeling. I agree with this. Minsan kasi, all we need to do lang pala is to face the problem and deal with it in one sitting. Para wala ka ng dadalhin sa mga susunod ng journey mo. Don't try to surpress it. Mas lalala lang.
Tama just enjoy whole enduring the pain nalang hehe, in the end of the day only our selves will be the one whos standing...
It's easy said than done, kung sana ganon lang talaga kadali ang lahat yong pag sumakit sng tiyan mo itatae mo lang, chorrr ahaha. But seriously, they are too focus kasi no. Why not think about it, magpadala ka sa malalalim na pag iisip easses ang lahat. Mag nilay nilay at etry ng etry na maka usad. Yang isang hakbang na yan kahit maliit na step magandang start na yan para maka usad. Ituloy tuloy lang ba.
Move on. Isang salitang madaling sabihin pero napakahirap gawin hays. Buhay nga naman hahah. Life is too short, kaya go langs. 😊❤
Hala pare na intriga ako sa title mo ah. Pero yeah that's right. Let's sit and endure/feel the momeny before moving on. Only then, through realization, we can find ways to move on.
That's true... including the comments here..., But for me I rather use "Moving Forward"... for we cannot just forget what happened and go on with life.., problems/ obstacles/ difficulties in life are the best ways to make us stronger.., sit, think of it, solve it (if there's still a chance) and learn from it. That lesson will guide you on tour next steps in life to move forward .. Cheers to moving forward..