Sometimes I don’t understand the word of being normal and un. Don’t judge me but people act like natural just to be accepted by everyone, but what are the criteria of being normal people? Or being strange? Sometimes it’s fine to be not normal in this world, instead be Unrestricted.
As I walk to our destination near the public market, I saw one woman and one child holding each other. They are walking in front of me and I just followed them because they blocking the way. Later the child commenced to cry, and he sits on the floor.
Everyone watching including me, it’s a free cinema LOL. I don’t know why the child began to sob but maybe because his mother tells something that annoys him. I see the red face of the mother like she just wanted to leave but the child is acting weird.
She began to hold the child's hands and force him to stand on the dirty floor; still, the child opened to cry aloud that makes the mother more embarrass. I didn’t see the whole scene, I was also bothered when people see me waiting for the whole story ha-ha.
Inside of me, I am giggling, because I see myself when I was young. My mother didn’t want me to be with her when going to a market, because she knew I will the same as the small boy if I don’t get what I want. And she knew she will also shame.
The thing that I admired for the mother I just saw is that she doesn’t give force to hurt the child and she makes the point that she remain calm and gentle to his son. Some people think that is the reason why he shows that weird habit, she spoiling the child. But NO, hurting your child in the public wasn’t a discipline at all.
Abnormality is unique not to be panic.
Well, our eyes are the sinner, he is the first one to judge. What we see display fast as the sound to our head to think of the negative thing when we see a child who has an incomplete part of the body, some people make had fun to them, few always show they are too in need for mercy.
But do we not know that a person who tried to be normal by what he has doesn’t see the mercy as help, they see it also as discouragement. When we see a person with a unique personality we must make sure that we don’t see them as different from us, because some of them trying very hard to make themselves belong to our worlds as a normal beings.
Are you familiar with the song “Bulag, Pipi at Bingi/ Blind and Deaf “ sang by Freddie Aguilar?. That’s the best example of abnormality as being unique. The blind people didn’t see how cruel the world, the deaf didn’t hear those bad words.
Abnormal Dream Is Just Normal
We had an abnormal dream when some of us are growing and Television becomes the culprit of that. For a boy when he sees Superman he rises to think he was, he likes to fly and save the lives of many people. Some girls wanted to be sailor moon she began to tell her parent to have a dress like that or a tail of mermaid or gown like Barbie doll.
More abnormal dreams of the young child's mind. It's free though, some parents allow their child to do that but not all.
Do you still remember the viral video of the father who gave a Christmas gift to his son?. This had shocked the world and becomes a viral music sensation the “Ay Barbie Sabi Ko Na” or translated as “Wow Barbie Doll I Knew It”. A father granted this toy doll to his son.
How come a father gave a gift like that to his son? Some father neglects their sons the minute they knew they are different, some they just ignored them as like a thin air when they see them. Of course, they had their reason for that matter.
A child's dream is quite different and abnormal. But when they get old they realized the fantasy over reality, some make the fantasy real. The famous Ellon Musk turns the vision of many young boys and girls into reality. Who doesn’t want to dream of reaching the moon or Mars?
If you got a child and had a bizarre dream why not let them and tells them the reality but don’t discourage them.
It’s Normal to Be Abnormal Sometimes.
If you just wanted and just to be one normal people, you lose the chance to be happy. A teenager who spends their life on serious matters later then understood why he does didn’t try to be not normal?
When we are in our compatriots, we are another person. When we are drunk that’s the time we act like weren’t normal people that we just are ourselves and that’s the best thing.
Ab-normal? I don’t know and sometimes we just don’t care about being one. We let the free bird come out from inside of us. Let society makes things what they want and let the world see the abnormal things inside.
Back to the little boy in the public market, he acts normal as the child but the elders think he didn’t. Another the second story where those who have impaired we think they not capable of being normal just like us, the third story is about the son who’s his father gave him a toy that wasn’t normal at his gender.
If we connect the 3 featured story we could come out with the idea that the society is one who holds the standard of being a normal one and points who will not.
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