Published June 20, 2021 It’s natural for a man to get jealous, that’s given since we were born. People can’t ignore the fact that some are upper heads and others still downstairs. People who had jealousy of other is normal but showing every time that you’re jealous that is not anymore.
There are happening downvoting events repeated these days, and the culprit was already seen and the suspected alibi is jealousy.
Individuals are made born not perfect, we do mistakes, we did some error and sins, we performed jealousy. If you are a fan of biblical origin, people started to get that weird habit when Adam and Eve consumed the fruit of life. While even the angel is jealous of the God that they challenged him, his name is Lucifer. At that matter, people associated all the bad doings to the said angel.
In a real-life scenario, lots of news of people had been ended up homeless, imprisoned, and even died because someone is jealous of them so they make it moved to get rid of that people. Also, there is a situation that the jealous person is the one dropped in Karma.
In all movies, drama, and series we watched. The main problem of the story is jealousy. That’s why it becomes normal for people to see others and some people just ignored that jealous person, while others find their way to handle their inside jealously.
We Think We're Jealous Because We Want and They Had.
Money buys everything, that’s why we were jealous of those who had a large amount of money or received a huge amount of bills. We think normalized the word “Sana all” that is translated to “I wish everyone”. I also condemned for normalizing this kind of expression, but this simple word is the motive of all jalousie.
If you were active in Noise-cash you will encounter this kind of expression exposed by the many Filipinos when you uploaded something optics and a catchy lot of users including me will comment on the word “Sana all”.
People want to have to want they notice, Rich people don’t mind, because they could buy what they want while some who had nothing but always want to the trend will eventually get jealous.
I remember the radio podcast I heard last December, during the celebration of the Christmas season. The topic of the podcast is the child receiving a gift from Santa Claus. They say if you are a parent don’t tell your child that expensive gifts like high-tech gadgets came from Santa because he will also tell that to his friends. And his friend who has parent can’t provide the thing eventually says Santa has favoritism and that’s a huge impact on innocent mind, and he will get easily jealous.
Instead, tell them the truth and it came from you so the other child will not expect Santa had a kind of favoritism.
We Think We're Jealous Because We had and they weren’t
Jealousy wasn’t just for people who have nothing but also for those who already had it.
We always think that we need the get that thing because he or she already had but behind the closet their also somebody who wishes that what he had right now requests he doesn’t have it so he will be free.
When we were young we get jealous because some kid always had everything they want, while you had nothing just to watched them play and hope they will share the toy.
Also considered those people lying in the bed the whole day, taking different drugs and pills to have a simple comfort for the pain they had. They have been jealous of us because we could walk freely, we can go whenever we want, we can eat that craves our mind, we can do something and they can’t.
Those are the people who are simply insecure because they had something and we didn’t. We think that we must have the same thing others had, but no. it’s not necessarily that other who are luckily had everything wasn’t dreamed of being just a simple. Some wish to get rid of everything so they could have what they really desired and they deserved.
Why do We think We're Jealous Even Were Not?
Because we are convincing our self to have the thing we desire even we really don’t need. We just want to be in the trend so we make scenes.
We think we're jealous because of these reasons.
You always want to be on top. Dreaming on top wasn’t that bad, but staying on top is something that is already unhealthy. We always think of the competition and that makes us more grief.
We are too competitive. The competition wasn’t a real competition. There is what we called sportsmanship, where we need to accept the loss and the winner. When the competition has done we are all friends.
Some people lived in a jealousy environment. Parent has a great impact on the child mind, what you show reflects on the mind of the child, they will carry to generation to generation.
Were just hungry. When we were hungry we e crave something so eat before scrolling.
On the other side, there is a positive part of jealousy. People who can handle jealousy are those who could be more successful in the future, instead of dealing with the inside urge of having this kind of thing, they do some legit things to make them have this. Some people make jealousy as their inspiration to work hard and achieved the same thing.
Imagine when we all convert jealousy to aspiration. There will be world peace.
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I agree here. Though I can't say I am a jealous kid, I always have the feeling to always be on the top,or not, basta wag lang sa dulo. About my writing journey here, I personally get inspired knowing my fellow authors here are getting good upvotes, not jealous because I get lesser amounts. It just makes me more excited. "What if I get those amounts soon?" Those thoughts make me so excited to always write. Jealousy is normal, I guess. But too much, is insecurity.