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Does BF investing in his GF?

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"I think my boyfriend is just investing something in me," Said one of my friends in her social media "my day " thing. So what do you think? Our girls are the investment? is ladies are assets? Are you a property? let's find out.


Key Points:

  • Investment of other figures and forms.

  • Why do boys invest in girls?

  • Lossing at some point of investment.


Today let's talked about investment, not trading, crypto and even business but feelings, this happened in a way that some of us think is absurd and uncommon, but the reality is, boys are investing in girls. Leave it that answer believe it or not but it was really it is. Like a filtered idea that somehow people got it wrong.

It may sound bad to ladies out there but it could be a way of educating you too, on how does man expect things from you, how the male becomes an investor, why he gave me food, flower and chocolate? do you think it is just nothing but a gift? No, it's an investment and it has always been a protocol.

Come to think in the reality, another that misjudgement people is that Parent is investing to their children, some people find it wrong and unjust, so when they reach the aged of maturity they abandoned their family because they don't see their selves as investment by their parents, it ended nightmare to the parents where gives all credits to the child yet the child doesn't pay the dept of his parent investment.

Education and life, that what the parent invested so when they can move their bodies some will do that for them. Love, they invested loved to their child, some as boys in another way. Your father invested something in your mother and you are the profit of that scheme. That's a simple explanation for that.

Why do boys investing in girls?

We also say there is nothing free in this world, same as that now. People get what they want and need. On the other hand, boys had needs, physically and mentally. That's was given as opposite sex leads to something that is normal. You know what I meant right?.

On the other hand, we already witnessed things that are applicable to this. When Man gets what he wanted to the girl and he leaves you without any answer as to why? because investment is now done.

Besides girls also agreed to this contract. The moment he asked for courtship and you says YES you agreed to the term and conditions, the moment you received a flower and chocolate and you received it, you agreed to the contract.

So I really respect the girl who doesn't just agree and received things quickly. Because they know there is something in return. I don't say this for you not to receive things anymore from boys who wasn't yet your BF or Husband but to think carefully, why he is giving that? why he is making an effort? Because he is investing in you. In other regards, if the girl can not give the interest men deserved say it quicky, don't bankrupt the guy.

Lots of boys also lose their investment

Like any other investment of money, some of the portions will lose and it's expected to be hurtful. As a man, I also looking forward to this one LOL, what if the investment was contracted to the wrong one? The hardest thing is that money is much more different from feelings.

Money is just money, expected to become and go, but the feeling wasn't. It's hard and you will lose yourself. Lossing money is just a temporary problem, losing self might be permanent and at some point, others wanted just to lose the life too.

On the other hand, love alone is a very complex investment, need a lot of effort and planning not to be wasted those years of investment.

And for me, I am a businessman and I won't invest things in the portfolio that there is no guarantee of winning. That's an unfiltered motto of mine LOL

NOTES:

Again this article is random and not intended to attack anyone.

Yes, your boyfriend is investing things in you, it's either lifetime profit that is marriage (LOVE) or just a small term investment (LUST). So be mindful of whom you agreed with the investment contract.

Thanks for reading...

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Naalala ko tuloy Yung kakilala ko , pinag aralan pa daw nya Yung gurl tapos iniwan din sya after makagraduate.

Pero lahat naman nag iinvest Hindi lang sa money. Hindi lang din bf kundi pati gf.

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1 month ago

"When Man gets what he wanted to the girl and he leaves you without any answer as to why? because investment is now done."

Now I know why, kaya pala biglang nawala ex.

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1 month ago

Napaisip tuloy ako kung pang long term o short term lang yung investment ng bf ko saken. May investment nga ba? Hahaha charot. Medyo seryoso to sir ah

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1 month ago

It is so nice to hear a perspective from the opposite sex. Now, I will have to examine men who will come into my life in the future. If they want me as a long term investment or just for a short term.

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1 month ago

My investment is only effort but not money cause I have money to spare 😅😅, I invest my time and effort to a girl but sometimes those investment gone wrong and I'm the one lose, still I want some collateral, just kidding. Money is just a piece of paper, maybe lots of boys can invest huge amount of money for their ladies but there's no love at it, the true meaning of love is effort and time, to all girls out there, choose a man that can give you simple things that made by an effort not a material things bought by money specially those expensive ones.

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1 month ago

This is a nice perspective kasi it gives you the idea na everything works hand in hand. You cannot just expect something without giving anything in return. Kahit yung mga free items na pinapamigay usually ang kapalit is like or follow or etc.

I remember din tuloy yung mga nanliligaw sakin tas napapagod kasi alam ko naman habol nila tas di naman ako nagpapaloko HAHA

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1 month ago

Investments must also be fulfilled on both sides. Agreed on both sides. It should be in the first place agreed if it's a long term or a short term kind of investment so that no one will expect something more from it. HHahaha Di ko alam sinasabi ko, pasensya na haha

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1 month ago

Basta ako, wala akong paki kasi waka naman akong balak mag juwa. Ampalaya akk brad 🤕

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1 month ago

By choice or by no choice? Whahaha charrr.. wag na jowa skip that asawa na agad 🤣

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1 month ago

Both? Huehuehue

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1 month ago

When you invest, tomatic na yun na nag lolook forward ka talaga for profit hahaha. I know a lot men who gives up immediately pag hindi nila nakukuha gusto nila hahha

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1 month ago

I think boys are investing in girls as much as girls are investing in boys. It is not always the tangible items like chocolate and money that count. Time and efforts are an investment too.

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1 month ago

Indeed, that's more expensive than choco or flowers 🥰

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1 month ago

You invest because you want to gain profit. Same goes in relationships. You court, you invest time, money and effort and in return you want to receive 'her yes'. May it be for long term or short term, both parties should talk about it. Hindi lang naman lalaki ang namumuhunan sa isang relasyon.

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1 month ago

This was a weird one😁 but I agree once you take profit then whats the point of staying in the relationship?

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1 month ago

any relationships have investments. Investment may be coined normally as "gaining profit" in monetary form but in essence we live each day with investment in it - whether for yourself or for somebody else - and it is not entirely monetary only.

sa relasyon, the investment is convincing towards a partnership and agreement. both gains dapat.. "equally"? not sure hehe.. yes may mga budol gang din jan haha...

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1 month ago

How would you know if you're going to gain if you don't invest? :D Kahit sa love a yarn :D

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1 month ago

Yiee tama, to see if to believe hehe.

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1 month ago

It's fine to invest as long as it's time and effort. Those are things that can't be replaced with money or any possession on earth

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1 month ago

Tama sir, sana lahat no naappreciete yan hehe.

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1 month ago

Sana all ganyan ang utak ng mga Boyfriend invest para sa future. Maging business minded yan ang gusto ko 😊

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1 month ago

Whahaha turuan mo na jowa mo mag business, or kayu nalang dalawa 🥰

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1 month ago

My ex also told me that "Love is an investment" and when you invest you are expecting profit. So pag mag invest ng effort, dapat daw may same energy na nakukuha.

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