"I think my boyfriend is just investing something in me," Said one of my friends in her social media "my day " thing. So what do you think? Our girls are the investment? is ladies are assets? Are you a property? let's find out.
Key Points:
Investment of other figures and forms.
Why do boys invest in girls?
Lossing at some point of investment.
Today let's talked about investment, not trading, crypto and even business but feelings, this happened in a way that some of us think is absurd and uncommon, but the reality is, boys are investing in girls. Leave it that answer believe it or not but it was really it is. Like a filtered idea that somehow people got it wrong.
It may sound bad to ladies out there but it could be a way of educating you too, on how does man expect things from you, how the male becomes an investor, why he gave me food, flower and chocolate? do you think it is just nothing but a gift? No, it's an investment and it has always been a protocol.
Come to think in the reality, another that misjudgement people is that Parent is investing to their children, some people find it wrong and unjust, so when they reach the aged of maturity they abandoned their family because they don't see their selves as investment by their parents, it ended nightmare to the parents where gives all credits to the child yet the child doesn't pay the dept of his parent investment.
Education and life, that what the parent invested so when they can move their bodies some will do that for them. Love, they invested loved to their child, some as boys in another way. Your father invested something in your mother and you are the profit of that scheme. That's a simple explanation for that.
Why do boys investing in girls?
We also say there is nothing free in this world, same as that now. People get what they want and need. On the other hand, boys had needs, physically and mentally. That's was given as opposite sex leads to something that is normal. You know what I meant right?.
On the other hand, we already witnessed things that are applicable to this. When Man gets what he wanted to the girl and he leaves you without any answer as to why? because investment is now done.
Besides girls also agreed to this contract. The moment he asked for courtship and you says YES you agreed to the term and conditions, the moment you received a flower and chocolate and you received it, you agreed to the contract.
So I really respect the girl who doesn't just agree and received things quickly. Because they know there is something in return. I don't say this for you not to receive things anymore from boys who wasn't yet your BF or Husband but to think carefully, why he is giving that? why he is making an effort? Because he is investing in you. In other regards, if the girl can not give the interest men deserved say it quicky, don't bankrupt the guy.
Lots of boys also lose their investment
Like any other investment of money, some of the portions will lose and it's expected to be hurtful. As a man, I also looking forward to this one LOL, what if the investment was contracted to the wrong one? The hardest thing is that money is much more different from feelings.
Money is just money, expected to become and go, but the feeling wasn't. It's hard and you will lose yourself. Lossing money is just a temporary problem, losing self might be permanent and at some point, others wanted just to lose the life too.
On the other hand, love alone is a very complex investment, need a lot of effort and planning not to be wasted those years of investment.
And for me, I am a businessman and I won't invest things in the portfolio that there is no guarantee of winning. That's an unfiltered motto of mine LOL
NOTES:
Again this article is random and not intended to attack anyone.
Yes, your boyfriend is investing things in you, it's either lifetime profit that is marriage (LOVE) or just a small term investment (LUST). So be mindful of whom you agreed with the investment contract.
Thanks for reading...
Naalala ko tuloy Yung kakilala ko , pinag aralan pa daw nya Yung gurl tapos iniwan din sya after makagraduate.
Pero lahat naman nag iinvest Hindi lang sa money. Hindi lang din bf kundi pati gf.