Greetings, how are you my dear friends and family? I hope you are well, and the days of the week so far have been full of blessings and good happens for you.
I want to thank my dear supporters for their constant support. Thank you for always believing in me, so that I can be by your side on my read cash journey so far. Your presence is a great blessing to me, and I always thank God for that.
Today I wanted to talk about some moments and properties in our lives, that may have become normal for us to repeat it and use it daily, but even a one-minute experience it may be a wish for someone else.
I want to talk a little about my husband's cousin her name is Linda. She is now a girl of about 40 years old, and has been married and divorced three times. To me and my husband and her family, she is a very kind, simple, and pure-minded girl, but in all her three marriages she has been somehow driven away by her husband, and they have ended up divorced.
All I know about her last marriage that I was in my husband's family was that her husband was a boy almost his own age, living in England. This boy's sister was Linda's friend, and she makes the two get married.
Linda's husband bought her a house with full furniture in our town, and for now she was supposed to be close to her mother-in-law and father-in-law. Linda had a good relationship with her husband's family in the beginning, but I don't know what happened, as her relationship with her husband's family got worse and worse.
Until, almost two years after their marriage, her mother-in-law called her son, who was still in England, and asked him to divorce Linda, and the boy divorced Linda remotely without any resistance because of his mother's words.
Linda without taking any part of her life with her husband, was forced to leave this life again and go to her mother and father's house. Even Linda had taken care of a puppy during these two years, but in order to go to her mother's house, she even had to separate from the dog that was very dependent on it.
We were all very sad about what happened to her in her marriage. After a period of depression, Linda resurfaced, and resuming her sewing career. She is a very skilled tailor, to the extent that the clothes she sews are equal to those of foreign brands, and no one notices that they are sewn by a simple tailor.
I remember a month ago when I ordered a dress to her to sew for me, and to determine the model of this dress, I told her to let me consult with my husband. She told me to "appreciate your husband, that even the way you dress is important to him. And even comments on the model of your dress." While it seems to me that asking my husband how I dress is always a daily routine and a habit, but it was a dream for her to have a husband who would comment on the way she dress.
Last week, when my husband's family was our guests, Linda was at our party. When she came to the kitchen after dinner to help me, I asked her to leave. And in response I told her, I will tidy the kitchen with my husband after the party is over. She repeated the same thing, "appreciating that you have a husband who is always by your side". I was very impressed with her words. At the same time, I am very sad for her, who, after experiencing three failed marriages, regrets such simple things in life.
Now I know that I must appreciate my husband and my married life, and even more, I must appreciate all I have. Because today my simplest asset can be a great regret for many other people...
Oh Im sad for Linda but I'm also gappy knowing that she moved on and focused on her skills or talent which is sewing.
Yes you're right, we have different advantages in life, we have different gifts. We are wishing to have something like in someone but also someone is wishing to have something what we have. So let's be thankful for what we have.