Do you dare to approach people who behave badly?

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Today I read in my dear Talecharm's article about people who always compare themselves to others. That by doing so they only devastate their own life, their peace and their happiness. It reminded me of someone I met a while ago. Someone whose behavior was very strange to me. I want to talk about her with you and find out what you think about people who have such a personality.

Some time ago, my husband saw one of his old friends after awhile. He was a very polite, calm, steadfast and well-educated boy, and now he was really successful in his work, and he had been married for about 15 years, and now he had two twin daughters, about 6 years old, and his wife was in the last months of her pregnancy. My husband had arranged with his friend, that he and his wife and I would go out for dinner so that they could see each other better, and their wives get to know each other.

We saw each other in a restaurant. After the initial acquaintance, I became closer to his friend's wife named Jane. We were talking about our wedding ceremony. When Jane was talking about her wedding, she said that because her mother-in-law had insisted on taking her to a makeup artist for her wedding ceremony, and that makeup artist had made the girl ugly on her wedding day, from that day on, she has not had a good relationship with her mother-in-law for 15 years.

It was strange to me how, just because of a bridal makeup, one could blame someone for 15 years, and have a bad relationship with her all these years. And destroy the peace of herself and her husband and her life.

She used to say that when my brother-in-law wanted to get married to his wife, I was constantly comparing his wife to me, and I wanted to be more beautiful than their bride on their wedding day, because I was ugly on my wedding day.

She was constantly comparing herself to her brother-in-law's wife. When she finds out where the bride wants to go for her make-up, she decides to go to a better and more luxurious makeup artist. She secretly went to the dressing tailor who sewed the wedding dress to see what her sister-in-law's wedding dress looked like, and she made a dress similar to her wedding dress. She even went to the place where they wanted to celebrate their wedding, so that their wedding venue not be much better than her own.

And finally, on the wedding day of her brother-in-law, she made herself like the bride and went to the wedding ceremony. While everyone thought she was his bride. She said proudly: "I made the bride cry on her wedding day. The bride's mother has spoken ill of me, and since then my mother-in-law has become quite hostile to me.

When she said all this, I looked at her in disbelief, wondering how a person could be so rude, and then talk so brazenly about her ugly deeds to someone she had just met...

She said from time to time, I pick up my mother-in-law's cell phone, see her messages, and send all the messages she says badly about me to my husband, so that he will believe that I am right and that her mother is a bad woman.

I was still shocked to hear such words from her. She talked about his bad and ugly deeds as if she considered herself the protagonist of her life story, all people are bad, and are condemned to torment because of her existence.

I feel sorry for her husband, who is a simple, calm and educated boy, who has been the victim of his wife's ugly behaviors. What a torment the poor boy has endured all these years because of his wife's quarrels with her mother-in-law. The girl destroys the life of herself, her husband and her family with her ugly behaviors for years. And that she is now the mother of three children, and with such a personality, how she can raise her children.

Hearing all this from a girl I had just met for the first time, and even is 4 years younger than me, was very heavy and indigestible to me. After that, my husband and his friend wanted to plan, meet each other again, but I tried under various pretexts to avoid further contact with them. Because, in fact, hearing such things from his wife scared me from having more contact with that girl. I am always afraid to get close and keep in touch with such people, because I am not willing to endanger the peace and happiness of my life under any circumstances.

Now, what do you think about that girl's behaviors? Do you think her words and behaviors were normal? Does such a person have a trustworthy personality? And do you dare to approach such people?

Thanks my dear ones for reading, I love you...

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