How to apologize properly so you don't mess it up even more

Some people can't even say a simple "I'm sorry", while others say that instead of apologizing, they make things worse. I would rather not say anything. If the person you want to apologize to is dear to your heart, you should apologize properly. It doesn't take much effort. All you have to do is..:
- An open admission of wrongdoing. This is understandably embarrassing, difficult and uncomfortable. But admitting guilt and sincere repentance is half the battle. To be honest, many people are simply repelled by the admission of guilt. This technique works well with anyone, whether it's a boss, a stranger, or a loved one.
- Take responsibility. In some cases, this needs to be done even if the guilt itself is not present. This is especially true in relationships between lovers. Very useful for maintaining the relationship

- Don't just talk about yourself and your feelings. If anyone is really hurt, it is the one who is hurt. You need to talk about their feelings and concerns. You can praise yourself,
- Don't turn everything to your advantage. Sometimes this leads to the offended person themselves starting to apologize to the offender. But if he apologizes the moment he does, the next moment he is overcome with anger and even more resentment because he doesn't understand how this happened. If your relationship with the person is important, you cannot do this, don't run away from problems and don't expect things to work themselves out. It may, but there is no telling who will benefit. And running away doesn't last forever. Sooner or later you will have to account for your words and actions. This is a case where it's best to do it early.
- Don't cover up conflicts with gifts. Those who have been hurt may think they have been redeemed. And after being compensated, the perpetrator may not be fully aware of their guilt. It is best to associate gifts with good events

- Don't try to look for positives where there are none. Yes, it's great to see the positive side of things, but no one has ever been able to read another person's mind and understand the power of their experience. And in some cases, this behavior is not appropriate at all,
- Stop blackmailing and setting conditions. All those "what ifs" are humiliating, not excuses. This is not an opportunity. Setting conditions and demanding something in return is not. 
Not apologizing is one thing. But if forgiveness is important, it's better to bow your head and apologize. Even if it's not sincere. Make it difficult. But sometimes a simple "sorry" can change the world.
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05.10.2022