Should parent be involve when a guy is proposing?

Many proposal of marriage have been flying around the world lately, well I'm not here to talk about if its right to turn down a guy or a girl, i want to talk about, before we get to that stage.

Many people in relationship this days fail to consider the opinion of their parent before going fully into the relationship. Sometimes you will wonder, a guy and a girl that have been together for 4 years, a day would come and the girl or the guy parent won't be in support of the relationship. Most time when this happens, the guy or the girl mostly feel depressed and things end in heartbreak, suicide, hatred and many more. This is why it is good to carry ones parent along in a relationship.

The kinds of parent

There are two kinds of parent which I would like to classify as the Relatable parent and unrelatable parent.

The Relatable parent: these are the parent that comes friends with their kids when growing up, they ask question, help their kids grow in the best possible way, when the notice a likeness in the opposite sex of their kids, they dont Castile's too much, but correct with love, joke with them, ask question and advise them, even when the kid grows up and he or she is ready for a relationship, such kid won't be able to hide such relationship from their parent which is good.

Unrelatable parent: These kind of parents are most strict with their kids, they are the kind of parent that would advise their kid like this "if a boy touches you, you would get pregnant" or they would beat up their kids when they see them with an opposite sex friend. These kind of kids do turn out to keep this from their parent, especially their personal life, if they have a partner, the only time the parent would know is when they already talk about marriage because they fear the rejection of their parent when things goes south.

Now the topic for the day

Should parent be involve in marriage proposal. ( YES OR NO)

Before someone will say he wants to propose to a girl, that means, he is ready to let everything go for that lady, so I believe such decision shouldn't be taken lightly, this decision wouldn't affect just you, it would affect your parent and siblings too, but before we jump to conclusion, this kind of decision can be affected by the both kind of parent we have. For the relatable parent, it is necessary to tell them, in fact, they need to know, and most time, since they already know the girl you want to marry, you can just let them know the range date you might be proposing and when you do, you can just get home and let them know she said Yes or No, also to be in good terms with your parent, one need to let them know.

For the other kind of parent, most time, the kids dont like to get their parent involve, they can just come home and let their parent know they have seen the person they want to marry and they are ready to talk about the marriage plans. Things happen like this too..

Personally, even with the both kind of parent, I believe it is right to let ones parent know before proposing to a lady, or letting them know before hand that your guy might be proposing soon, and when he does, you would be saying a yes.

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