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Why people are hesitant in pursuing what they desire?

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6 months ago

A crazy world often offered us crazy opportunities and it was planted in our hearts. And this sometimes lead to becoming a desire to pursue. Each of us have desires, and these desires are physical desire, intellectual desire, sexual desire, and economic desire. But amongst the mentioned types of desire, what is the most hardest to pursue?

Have you ever unfold yourself because you are afraid and hesitant to pursue what you desire? Think of it very deeply because sometimes it leads us to be unhappy for a very long time. When our desired don't meet and didn't happen, it leaves a broken and longing space in our hearts. If this happen, it would be shaken extremely.

I listed three reasons why people are very hesitant in pursuing and making their desires satisfied. These lists are based on my knowledge and experience. The experience of a 17 year old student. So, this maybe a little be shallow and not deep for adults. But let me try to give at least a justice.

Fear of getting lost and failed

This is common why we don't pursue our desire because we are afraid of the consequences it has. The following consequences are the reason why it becomes heavy in our hearts to become hesitant. We have this portion in our heads that if we do this, others may hate me or no one will support me afterwards.

Lack of belief

When you are hesitant, it means you don't believe yourself much to win and become successful in that desire. Lack of belief produces more fear and hesitation because you cannot trust yourself, the people around you and the Lord itself. There are reason why we lack beliefs. It may cause from the past rejections, failures and people don't show support.

Do not know where and when to start

I think this is also the reason why we are hesitant. Although it was clear in our heads what the desire is, but we cannot make a concrete plan on how we will execute it. The main problem for people encountering this problem is their resources, time and support that is available. I hope when you manage to process and plan everything, you have the ability to make it as reality.

If you noticed yesterday, I am not active because we have just a little family bonding. We went to kuya @DennMarc house, and just eat a boodle fight within the family. It was a good time for me because this is the only time we can spend time like this. Everyone's busy at work and some of them are still studying and will take their final exams. It was me the pointed with yellow mark. It was taken from kuya's phone.

This is the photo of what we eat yesterday. It was just a simple boodle fight and we forgot to get the Nilagang Baka at the back of our house. What's funny is we just remember when we almost finish the food so there's a lot of Nilagang Baka left. It was a memorable memory for me because I haven't experienced this with them for so long.

Family bonding and spending time with the family is always worth it and not a single time is wasted. I wish we can be neighbors with all of my family soon so that we have to see each other everyday. I am glad that our family has no conflicts to each other and we really avoid it. I have so much fun yesterday. Full details about yesterday's happening will be published by kuya @DennMarc . He told me not to talk much about it. Hehe.

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Ako to lahat ee. Pero kasiiii, lalo na at sanay na ako at kampante na sa loob lang ng bahay paranh ayaw ko ng ngang umalis para mag try ng bago. Pero kasiiii, kakailanganin ko din talaga to soon ee. So pano naaaa huehue.

Anyways, saya nyo namannn 🤤

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6 months ago

kapag nasanay na po kayo hindi lumabas, natatakot po kayong makihabilo sa ibang tao? pero need mo po ang makipag kilala at mag explore outside . hehe.

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6 months ago

We have a lot of dreams, but sometimes failing is what others fear the most plus that lack of self-esteem makes it worst.

It seems like you have a great day with your relatives! The Boodle fight makes it more special!

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6 months ago

yes, when we fear something and our lack of confidence emerged at the same time. it is impossible for us to do what we have to do because we cannot do anything good.

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6 months ago

Siguro for me, it's the fear of failing.

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6 months ago

isang malaking factor po iyon ate, pero kung malalaabanan naman po. magiging maaayos at successful.

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6 months ago

Isa din sa hesitations para i-pursue yung dreams natin ay kung financially capable ba yung family natin para masuportahan tayo. If not, working student. Kung di talaga kaya, work na lang.

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6 months ago

tama po. kapag hindi na kaya suportahan ang mga pag-aaral, no choice kung hindi mag working student. mahirap naman po iyon pero kakayanin.

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6 months ago

Minsan kaya hesitant din yung iba na ipursue yung gusto nila, especially sa college course, naiisip nila yung practicality or kung mabubuhay ba sila ng ng trabahong yon.

Sana magkakalapit lang din kami ng pinsan ko hahaha. Siguro laging may handaan samin 😂

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6 months ago

ganyan po kasi ang mentality ng mga pinoy. kapag hindi ka kikita masyado sa course mo, hindi na sya ang pipiliin mo kahit na iyon ang gusto mo.

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6 months ago

I'm hesitant to pursue what I really want right now which is to study and to find work because I lack of something, not just one but there's a lot missing with me for me to be able to pursue it nonstop.

We just had a boodle fight awhile ago.. My cousin's graduation.

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6 months ago

diba po kapag may lackings tayo sa resources natin parang hindi na natin gusto ituloy . congrats sa pinsan mo po. high school graduation po?

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6 months ago

Minsan naman people are hesitant to try what they want kasi they playsafe. Yung iba ayaw mapahiya sa family, yung iba naman pamilya ang nagbblame when they fail. Hindi naiintindihan ng iba na for a person to succeed on what they like, support is a big help lalo na if it comes to your family.

Namiss ko yung mga pinsan ko na magouting huheuehue

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6 months ago

parang hindi po sila naalis sa sarili nilang comfort zone dahil natatakot na magkamali at mapahiya sa pamilya. pero ganon naman po talaga diba po? try lang ng try.

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6 months ago

Naks! Nakapag sulat na agad. Haha. Mamaya pa ko eh, feeling ko talaga nahihilo pa ko. Naparami ata inom ko shems.

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6 months ago

syempre kuya. mas maganda ang nakakapagsulat na agad.wala naman akong gagawin ngayon, monday eh

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6 months ago

We never tried to have a boodle fight in our family ever since.

Most people do afraid to reach what they desire because they do have fears to try, due to lack of educational attainment, and lack of opportunities too. But for me, it's up to us naman if magsisikap tayo, madami PA ring paraan kahit paano.

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6 months ago

really ate? masaya po ang boodle fight. bawal po sainyo ang boodle fight or wala lang pong time?

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6 months ago

Hmmm, ang daming issues sa family issues ang mga kapatid ng papa ko, Kaya hindi nagkaka meet as family, Yong ganyan ba na sama sama, Kaya Sana ol na Lang sa inyo. 😅

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6 months ago

Everyone holds dreams and desires but for their completion a few are capable of making 100% try. Happy to know that you have time with your family, this time is the happiest time in the world. I wish my family also have a bonding day or time sometimes but let's see...

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6 months ago

yes, only few people reach that goal because only few have the guts to try it. sometimes before we do it, we thought of fears

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6 months ago

and when we thought of fear we totally become stressed and start thinking about losing .

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6 months ago

A person should do what he want he should remember that he can do and he will do with all his strength

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6 months ago

that is right. as long as we believe in ourselves then we can do it. we can achieve and reach that desire.

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