My sister is going to UAE!

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2 years ago

I'm not gonna lie to you. I will miss you while you are not here because you have been with me since we're young. I will miss your laugh and the way you tease me to girls. You never asked me to do better because you know how I work wise for me to get to where I am.

With the ongoing financial crisis to our family, my older cousin sister decided to go to UAE with her mother. Yes, nanay Venus is also working in Dubai for about 8 years now. She wasn't able to come back to the Philippines because of the threat of covid-19 before. It was truly heartbreaking for us to bid goodbye again to one of our family members to go abroad for work. It will never be good, but it will be for the sake of family.

Last night event

Since my sister's flight was later this afternoon, we have planned to make a simple celebration before she left. This celebration was intended to make her smile and laugh so that she had a good last memories. I am very glad that we arranged this little celebration of ours.

We bought some fries, popcorn and pizzas. Also, we are permitted to drink alcoholic beverage since its just occasional. Soju and wine are the two beverages we bought at the local supermarket around the next street. In fact, I was the one who cooked them. Gosh, there's some boiling oil sprinkled from my hands last night. It burns my skin, but it is just minimal. If you are wondering if I drink last night, no. I drink only one shot then I stop. I really don't like to drink alcoholic beverages.

We picked a particularly movie in Netflix. As you expected, 90% browse, 10% watch. We preferred to watch horror-comedy movie just perfect for everybody's choice. At first, we make sure we will not scresm because we might wake up our neighbours. It will be bad for us. We don't use our phones last night to make sure that everyone is focus on the simple celebration we had. Thankfully, my cousins are just too cooperative.

Overseas Filipino workers statistics

If we think about it, most of Filipino households have an overseas Filipino worker (OFW). It might be your mother, father, husband, wife, sister or brother. There are various reasons why we they go abroad to work. But one thing is certain, the lack of minimum wage rate in our country. Based on the 2019 survey of Philippine Statistics Office (PSA), there are about 2.2 million OFWs. Thus, the current exact number of OFWs today haven't been confirmed due to wide spread of the pandemic.

Are you wondering who has higher percentage of Filipino workers? Is it female or male ones? In fact, based on PSA's data from 2019, there are proportion of 56% female higher than male which only have 46%. This is evident since most of these female OFWs are mothers and working as domestic helper (DH). Surprisingly, most of these OFWs are from CALABARZON region with a total percentage of 20.7%. It is followed by Central Luzon, National Capital Regiom and Western Visayas with 13.3%, 9.7%, 9% respectively.

Still, Saudi Arabia has the highest country with OFWs 22.4% (492,800) and I think Saudi is popular since then. It is followed by United Arab Emirates with 13.2% (290,400), Hongkong 7.5% (165,000), and Taiwan 6.7% (147,400). These data is still based on PSA as per survey on 2019.

As of the moment

I am amazed to the data I had researched awhile ago. I amazed to how these OFWs make it and survive abroad. Most especially when I knew that women are very dominant than men in number. Salute to your mother if you have mother working abroad.

Today, as I was writing this blog we're about to leave our home to deliver my sister to the airport. I am very sad right now, I really am. But on the other hand, I'm excited to what the future has for my sister. She is a strong, independent woman who can carry herself in every situation she was in. That is the reason why we trust her in this journey. Although my grandma is quite mad because she was the one who raised my sister and leave like that. But we know my grandma understand the whole situation.

The new heroes

Overseas Filipino worker are the new heroes of our country. Starting their journey to unfamiliar country with unfamiliar culture, language, writings, currency and beliefs. However, despite of the big difference, this doesn't stop them to work and strive in a foreign region. I believe that these OFWs are the new heroes of the country. Without their understanding and unending support to their family, I do not know how much the difference of life they have now.

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Naging fun naman Despedida niyo for her. Hehe. Ilang years sila don?

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2 years ago

I wish your sister a safe trip and good luck on her new adventure. Congrats

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2 years ago

I wish the best for your sister, Denn! It's gonna be okay. Tibay ng loob lang talaga if you're going to go work overseas. Been there.

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2 years ago

To start up a life in another man's land is not easy at all. It'll take time for adaptation. I wish your sister well

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2 years ago

Thanks so much bro. She may not used to it at first, but she will later on.

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2 years ago

I wish her the best in the UAE, I know it must not be easy for her to leave her family and go to work abroad

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2 years ago

Yep. There's a crying moments a while ago before she left the van and house. It's very sad but on the same time, excited for her. She told me that she's felt nervous because it's her first time riding in plane.

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2 years ago

Best regard to you and your sister.

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2 years ago

Oh, thanks so much bro.

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2 years ago

Days are difficult especially when we are not together with our love ones. Godbless to the journey of your ate bro, stay strong and focus on your goals. Do things that will make your ate proud!❤

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2 years ago

Thanks much bro. I'm so excited for her journey abroad. I know she will perform and work better. Susunod na rin ako sa kanya few years from now. Hihi.

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2 years ago

The are really a superhero of every family's home. They are hard working for them to sustain the needs of every member of the family. They were very considerate and selfless .

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2 years ago

Indeed. There's nothing more than better for our family who chose to sacrifice their own happiness for the sake of their family. Tara abroad ate. Hahaha. Jk!

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2 years ago

Praying for the safety of your ate and to all ofw's out there.. I'm sure may day off siya para makausap niya kayo dito sa pinas..

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2 years ago

Thanks so much kuys. Oo naman, magiging safe ang flight and landing nya don. Sana nga maganda ang working hours nya para may time rin to do videocalls.

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2 years ago

Goodluck sa ate mo DennMarc. I wish her well. Don't worry mabilis lang ang araw just keep on praying for her for God's guidance.

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2 years ago

Oo nga po ate. Naalala ko pa noon parang college lang sya then now flying to UAE na. Haha. Mabilis lang lumipas ang panahon, di mo malayan pauwi na rin sya. Thanks much ate Yhanne.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga eh tsaka open country naman ang UAE at madaming Pinoy dun. I am sure di mahihirapan ate mo.

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2 years ago

Pagpray niyo nalang lagi na safe ang sister and nanay venus niyo doon sa UAE. I hope makahanap siya ng magandang opportunity doon.

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2 years ago

Of course ate. Ang daminh opportunities abroad lalo na sa UAE kaya don nya rin napiling puntahan. Hoping din na maayos at suitable job ang maging work nya don.

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2 years ago

Since you have a relative in UAE, baka madali na lang sayo maka punta dun. If there's a job that suits you. Grab it. Makapag ipon ka pa. Makapag travel ka na. With your previous article, sabi mo nga ang super low ng minimum wage sa Pinas.

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2 years ago

Yes po. Dalawa na sa father side ko po ang nasa UAE so madali na lang din po mag hanap ng work don. Oo nga po ate, plan ko din naman mag work abroad fter graduation. Mag work muna ko sa Pinas for experience then larga na sa abroad. Haha

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2 years ago

That's a good plan

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2 years ago

That good friend. Ingat sa iyong sister sa UAE.

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2 years ago

Thanks much po ate Jen. Nakakasad kanina haha. Nag iyakan pa ngapo

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2 years ago

Ipagpray mo palagi yung sister mo Marc, lalo na kasi nga malayo sa sa pamilya niyo. anyways, sa pagkakaalam ko marami talaga yung mga nag-OFW sa Saudi, gaya nalang nang mga kapatid ng bf ko.

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2 years ago

Opo ate. Ganun na nga po ang mangyayari nyan. Pray nalang po talaga sya na sana'y maging maayos ang trabaho at buhya nya doon.

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2 years ago

Oo. Kasi kahit sabihin pa natin na kaya sila pumupunta sa ibang bansa to earn huge amount of money, di din basta-basta yung sakripisyo nila dun. Lalo na yung mapalayo sa pamilya.

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2 years ago

Ang lungkot pa naman pupunta ng abroad Marc nuh yung mawalay ka sa family tas ang layo pa. Okay lang sa older cousin sister mo Marc kasi andun mom niya. Grabe ang dami pala sa Saudi Arabia na mga OFW's.

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2 years ago

Oo nga po ate. Pero syempre tiis tiis muna para sa family. Ang baba kasi talaga ng sweldo dito sa Pinas, di talaga sapat yung kita buwan buwan.

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2 years ago

Akala ko ba dipa sila okay i mean tumatanggap ng workers pa abroad? Anyways,

I believe that these OFWs are the new heroes of the country

You are right. Kasi OFW din ang mama ko and mahirap talaga ang mag work doon.

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2 years ago

Wala pa namang syang work sa UAE ate. Pero meron na syang maapplyan mismo don. Wala pang job offers dito sa Pinas from UAE eh pero kung nasa UAE kana tas mag aapply, meron.

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2 years ago

Weh? Open na sila ngayon sa OFW? Kaibigan ko di natuloy kasi di padaw sila natanggap, ewan ko ngayon if matutuloy zua.

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2 years ago

I don't know kung totally open pero pinayagan ng immigration si ate. Kaya ngayon, tuloy na tuloy yung pagpunta nya sa UAE. Hihi.

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2 years ago

Brother sister relationship is always beautiful, we fight with each other but can't live without each other. Many many best wishes for your sister hope so your sister will get the God Job in UAE

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2 years ago

Thanks so much. Yes, brother sister relationship will always be strongly beautiful. I believe she will have a good and decent job in UAE.

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