You are getting sick of your life because there's nothing new to do. It means your sense of adventure and curiosity is dying.

I have experienced and noticed in previous month that what I did yesterday is the same today. Thus it happened everyday, until it becomes month. It became tiring to wake up early in the morning because you have nothing to look up for the whole day. You have no plans, no goals, no appointments and just nothing.

How can I improve my day?

The answer is depends on what and how you see yourself. You have a lot things to do even you are at home. Yes, your house might be small but do not see a thing in its size. Improving your day means improving the quality of your life. Changing your perspectives is quite difficult at first because that's how you used to. However, without these changes your day and life will not change too.

Just by looking at the mirror while you are combing your hair, fixing your clothes, brushing your teeth and quick peek at the mirror. How can you describe yourself? Ask yourself "Am I improving?", "Am I not willing to do something to change this situation of mine?". I tell you what, move now.

You are becoming paralyzed gradually and it eats your creativity. The hidden artist within you is disappearing.

A single push to work and get up from your humble bed is what I request to you. Look around you! What do you see? Are you contented having all that and telling yourself I'm okay with this. I have my family, my friends, my relatives, and my pets around me. No, don't think that way. Then how about you? What's filling you to be great when you wake up in the morning?

I love to see you grow. I love to see you create unusual things that you haven't made in your entire life. Focus and start to be curious again like a child. Ask yourself "what are these things and how I can make one myself?". Start wondering again like you are running out of time. Can't you miss the old time when you are so passionate to work on something? That when you finished your work and so proud to tell others. I would love to see it again, and this time it's you!

I'm still afraid to try new things. What would I do?

It's okay to become afraid and nervous for things you will do in first time. I tell you what. The moment you break your own chain and feel the satisfying feelings inside you. It's gonna be awesome! Look around you and try something else. Try the sports you didn't play before because you are afraid of getting hit. Try the foods you didn't eat because you are afraid what will be taste like.

Friend, you have only one, only one life to live. Don't waste your time in the side of darkness.

Don't you miss the fun and laughter that makes your stomach hurts? Don't you miss the feeling of getting hype because you loved what you are doing? I want you to feel that again. Make your own unusual and unordinary day which is worth remembering. Your friends are waiting. Your kids are wating. Your husband or wife is waiting. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is waiting. Make something fun today.

How can I start doing this unusual and unordinary day?

Like what I've said awhile ago, it depends on how you view things. Changing your perspective first is the first step on creating your unordinary day. I know some of you cannot go outside today because of health restrictions. I know you cannot go to park to enjoy the view and have picnics. But you don't have to go outside just to create you own unordinary day.

Take a sit and observe everyone in your home. Jot down their names and observe them one by one. Look at them closely and write what you see in your children, husband, wife, mother, father, cousins and whomever it is. At the end of the day, read what you write and analyze it. You will be surprised on how your family acts and does that day. You might discover something new and work on that.

Perhaps in the past few days or weeks that you had an argument with them. Thinking why my family is so selfish to me. Why my family treating me this way? Why my family seems doesn't give attention to me anymore? Observe them and look closely how they intercept and make a conversation with you. They might be treating you that way because they have a great trust to you because you are responsible and grown man or woman now. You are not a kid anymore who used to lay down and watch television all day. Adulting has a sense of responsibility and that is totally normal. You are undergo in transitioning today.

Question: Would you rather risk for unusual or settle for ordinary?

I am curious on what your answer will be. I would love to read your response in the comment box below.

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Blog #8
2/3/22