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Everyone needs someone

Hello, readers, how did your day go, mine was okay thanks for asking, oh did I say okay? Yesterday which was Wednesday, in the article I posted, I also wrote about how my charger and power bank got damaged,  I used the power bank the night before the morning and the changer I used that morning before going to work, I still have to thank God that it wasn't my phone that got damaged, lol, like what would I have done? That same Wednesday evening, when I got back from work, I decided to turn on the laptop, the charging port was shaking before, the next thing I saw is that the port just pulled off and it was inside the laptop, a lot of things just ran through my mind like is this Wednesday black for me? Why me, who's trying to frustrate me today, but I didn't panic though, because I have an extra laptop charger that got damaged by electricity a few months back, so I just cut off the port that connects to the laptop port and that's it, lol. The laptop is charging fine and I have got a new charger for my phone, the market is red and I don't think I will be able to sell my BCH again, though I really need the power bank badly, I will just rely on power supply company now. 

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Sorry to disturb you about my troubles. Lol, let's just get right to the topic without wasting much time. 

Just this evening, as I was engaging today, I came across @Gaftekloriginal article and he talked about how important it is to have someone you can call, he said a word that touched me “forget those people that said, we don't need nobody to survive, we came to this world alone and we can live it alone” in as much as I wanted to disagree with him, I had a second thought about it and look at it from a different perspective, that reminded me of a story that someone told me years back (I can't remember who told me the story though) before I tell you the story, I want to state the reason I wanted to disagree with him, I have heard some stories of some celebrities that always say they did it alone, they did it tired and they still did it anyway, that was a great motivation for me, but the truth is that they never did it alone, what they met is that they didn't get mentored by someone who was already at the top, they did it with few support from family and friends, so that doesn't fully count. 

The story I want to tell you is about a young lady that didn't have friends, she had friends though but she didn't roll with them because most of them are in distant places and when some come to check on her in her place she usually ignores them, she will go to work, do her job well, come back home turn on the tv and dose off, that was her daily routine and she continued it for years, friends and family gave up on her because she wasn't responding to their calls, she doesn't even know her neighbors, not to talk about communicating with them, her rent, light bills and every other bill were being paid directly from her insurance or bank I guess, so that made her be indoors always aside from going to work, there was a time she stopped going to work, her TV was on all night and day, no one had heard from her for more than 2 years or so, one of her friends was in the neighborhood and decided to check on her since it has been two years and no one has heard from her, the friend knocked a knocked and knocked for over an hour, no one was responding, but her tv was still on, the friend asked the neighbors about her and all they could say is that the tv is always on, the friend and the neighbors decided to break the door in, when they got in they discovered the lady skeleton was seating on the chair facing the tv while the remote was still in her hand, she has been dead for over two years but due to her always being indoor and don't communicate with friends and family, nobody knew she was dead, her bills were still being paid that was why her power never went off and her tv was still on for more than two years.

I might not know the reason she decided to shut everyone away for her life but I'm guessing she believes she can survive without anyone, she never knew she was making things hard for herself, I'm not saying you should start gossiping with your neighbors in other for them to be checking on you, just be in good terms with everyone and mind your business always, sometimes just talk with them and don't get too comfortable around them to be talking about your life issues. 

My engagements in noise are really and I have started to get demotivated and I'm considering giving up on noise, I actually don't want to, so I'm using this opportunity to plead with you to make a shoutout to me on noise by tagging me on noise and telling your subscribers to subscribe to my noise account. Thanks in advance. 

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No man can live in an island of himself. You'll need someone at some points in your life.

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Even Oliver queen has to leave the island to survive..

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No matter what, we still need others to survive. If one is saying he doesn't need friends, it's okay but let him get connected to just few. When I was in school, I was had a neighbor that doesn't come out of his house, always indoor. One day I called him and told him he should at least try to adapt to associating with people around because if something happens to him inside...🥱🥱🥱

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Yeah true. Being friendly to neighbors even if you won't gist with them.

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2 years ago

That BCH market just still dey pain me, I think I will end up trading some of my BCH 😢 sapa wan kill me for school.

The truth is that nobody have all the skills they need to survive, that's why we need other people who have the skillset we lack so we can help each other

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I thought it's only me o. I still dey try to hold my ground now because of the light at the end of the tunnel 😅😂

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As the famous quote states "No Man Is An Island". No matter how hard we try saying that we can be all alone, we still need someone and longing for someone's presence

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Yeah. We are just making it difficult for ourselves when we choose to ignore the world.

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We really need someone tho. Someone we can trust, especially our personal issues that we've chose to share with that someone. After all, I believe in the saying, "No man is an Island."

Good day!😊

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😅no man is indeed an Island. Good day to you too..

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Man is a naturally social animal and as such when we refuse to socialise, a part of us is not been cared for. But while it's true to say we always need someone, it's important to know you don't need the lot.

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Yeah true. We don't need people, we just need someone true to us.

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2 years ago

Thanks for the mention, a beautiful story to back up what we both said, we all need to talk to when we are down or sad, we can't do it all alone.

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You are welcome boss.

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As far as I know, this story you told is true. All his bills were paid automatically, so no one noticed. One day, the money in the automatic payment account ran out and the landlord could not receive the rent. Then he came home and saw that his tenant had died. This news was also reflected in the world media at that time. Loneliness is quite difficult in such situations.

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That's the real story. I couldn't remember what really occur that's why I just add mine

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