Sunday's random thoughts

Taking revenge is bad

As a parents we had differents ways of raising our kids,it might not good for the others opinion but as a parents we know and we do whats the best for our children.

I came up to this write up because of my son ,while he was playing his left foot suddenly hit the chair but he did'nt cries instead he stand up and kicked the chair with force ,so I told him to never do that again,he is just only hurting himself .

Well,my son did this coz everytime some one fought him ,or hitted with something his lola will hit the objects or spank for those who fought him and said "okay thats enough stop crying ,we already did a revenge".

I honestly does'nt like how she teach my son ,for me shes like teaching a kid to take revenge everytime someone or something hurting him .It just only my opinion ,I don't know if others can get my point,as a mother I don't want my child feel that emotions ,I don't want him to feel okay after taking revenge,I don't want him to think that way ,as much as posible ,I keep reminding him that taking revenge is bad .If someone hurt you accidentally or incidentally ,just let it be and never think to do a revenge.

I remember one of my workmate before ,were going to church that time and while walking going go the church ,she did'nt notice a stone in road and she almost stumble and guess what she did,she turned back and kicked the stone with all her force and got mad and some people was looking at her so I asked her why she did it and she said it makes her comfortable and the pain was gone after she did it and we all laughed but honestly in my mind ,a little bit confused how it helps her getting comfortable ?,she is just doing that to get hurt again .

As what I said to my son ,never think any revenge in the first place it is bad and second for those things who hurted him which a non living things ,it can't feel anything after you kick or punched it ,it just only make your self to feel more hurt.

Letting the kids enjoy their childhood days.

Today is sunday and it is a rainy day ,we did'nt able to go to church because of heavy rains,the rain poured started at night till this early in the morning and until now its raining in our place

After we take our breakfast ,I let the kids watching tv ,they are watching kids videos then suddenly the internet connection was gone .Because of the sounds of the rain from the roof,my son notice that it was raining outside so he asked me if he can play outside with the rain ,so I let him play outside and enjoy himself playing.He was so happy when he go out side ,that feeling that finally he can play with the rain coz the last time he asked me I did'nt let him because my parents told us before that we get sick from the first rain after the hot season ,and since evening was already rained so I let him play outside now and having fun under the rain .

His priceless smile melts my heart ,he was like a bird that finally able to get out from a cage ,he keeps running and dancing under rain . I let him did this coz I wanted him to enjoy being as a kid .Coz oneday he will became a big boy and for sure that in that time he will not wanted to get wet from the rain .

As a mother ,I am happy watching my child with his priceless smile ,minsan lang maging bata ika nga ,kaya let him enjoy as long as its good for them and ofcourse there should be a limitations .

Being not contented for what they have.

After we finished our lunch ,we stay at my mother in law's ministore coz there's still no internet connection and we are having a chitchat because of our marites neighbor,we became also a marites lol!

She told us what happend to our neighbor which is a teacher and she found an evidence that her husband was having an affair of our neighbor but some of the neighbor know this for a long time ,maybe she's just waiting for a strong evidence and when she saw that girl ,she was'nt able to stop her emotions and get hurt the mistress ,they are fighting but sad to say that the mistress is stronger than her and according to our nieghbor the teacher said to the mistress of her husband"you ruined my family ,why you did'nt find a single man?why you keep flirting my husband even if you know that it has a family already and you had also a husband,just left a little shame on your family" then the mistress answered"don't tell me that ,you should tell it to your husband ,its all because of you ,coz you are forcing your husband to marry you".See? Nagiging marites ako bigla hahah.

Why do there are people like that?They are just only thinking their own happiness .Why they are not contented with what they had?In the first place ,they both have a a family and why they choose that situation? For me ha,its not love anymore they feel for each other but a lust .I know I don't have the right to say this to this kind of person ,but I can keep my self not to get annoyed because of what they did.Hopefuly they can fix whatever the problem they've done.

And thats all for my sunday ,finally the internet connection is back and I get a chance to write this and read some of your works .

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