My husband's bad habits
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How was everyone here?We are almost in the half of a month and honestly my brain feels empty and can't think a good topic to write .As one of my goals in this month to write 1 article per day it gives me pressure coz my brain did'nt cooperate me.Since I can't think any topic to write I keep reading some articles here,leaving some comments and I came to an article of @JonicaBradley she had a new writing prompt and I thank to her writing prompt coz it gives me an idea what to write and this is my entry of her writing prompt in a topic of Bad habits.And for those who wanted to join ,heres what you gonna do:
I will share whats my husbands bad habits ,although I was trying him to stop from this but I can't coz according to him ,it helps him if he gets bored but I can't see a reasons how it gave helps to him .
The habit of can't live without cigarettes
When I was pregnant of our first son ,I always told him to stop smoking coz it has a bad effects on him and not only for him but also for us ,who around him the second smoke they said ,it has a bad effects for me and the baby and is its added his expenses but he said he can't live without cigarettes.So what he did is he make sure to make distance with me when he smoke .He was addicted on cigarettes since he did'nt stop tho he is trying to smoke moderately and when I was pregnant he only used to smoke 2 sticks a day but if he has a nightshift duty he can smoke more 2sticks and when I gave birth to our eldest son he makes sure he washed his hands before he carried and cradle our baby .So I supported him for that bad habits he had coz it will end us fighting because of it.
When I was in my second pregnancy,we are saving money for my delivery and the price of cigarettes was increasing ,I box of it cost $2 and it only good for 3days,but if he had a night shift he can smoke more and that 1 box is good for 1 day only ,I thought he will stop smoking coz I notice and I did'nt saw a box of cigarettes in his bag but he was find an alternative way to replace the cigarettes ,it was called "lomboy" lomboy is a kind of a tree and they used the dry leaves as a cigarettes which is inserted a small piece of tabacco.It is the source of income in our neighbor hood now most of the people here are making lomboy and sell it coz many are using it now .Before my husband used the lomboy ,he spent $4 -$6 a week for cigarettes and it was big enough for me ,I always told him that if we save the money ,we can save big amount but it ends that we argue coz for him ,he can't live without cigarettes and for now since he was using lomboy for smoke,he spent $2 a week which is cheaper that the cigarettes but still I am not agree on it but I can't do anything for him to stop from this bad habit so I better support him .
Raising a fighting cock
According to him ,he was addicted on "sabong" or cockfighting before we had our relationship ,but he was able to stopped it because he lost $140 in one blink of his eyes ,so he decided to stop from being addicted on it.And it back after we stop raising pigs.We raised pigs as for our extra income ,it was last year at first we failed but we did'nt stop we still raised and until we found it successfully but the last time we raised 1pig and it was sick we almost lost our $160 investment from it ,we decided to stop but then my husband found an interest to raised a fighting cock because of his brother .His brother are raising some fighting cock and my husband for him not to get bored if he was in house he asked his brother that he will take care of it and I am not agree on it coz it adds our expenses much better to raised a chicken and make it our viand if we dont have viand but he said he gets money from his allowance to feed that cock .
Because of it ,I decided to raised pig again coz I know that fighting cock will not help us but he was not agreed on my plan ,so now he still raising a fighting cock and last time he won $40 from his cock but it never convince me to continue him to raised it but for him not to get bored I'll give him a support but we had an agreement that he will never used our savings for it .
I'm hoping and praying that one of this days he realized and stop for this bad habits he had .I am glad that he is not a man who had a habit of drinking liquor.I am still blessed to have him as my husband despite of having this bad habits ,he never failed to give us our needs especially his uncondional love fo us.He still a best father to our kids and a good/best husband of mine.
And thats all for today ,thank you for spending your time ,stay safe and God bless.
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My dad-in-law is a chain smoker so I am annoyed whenever he smokes because there are kids inside the house inhaling the second-hand smoke.