Hey beautiful people!
What's up ?I hope you are all doing great today despite of what happend to the world now ,keep safe wherever you are now.
This afternoon I and my husband went to the market and a grocery store to buy our needs.While I was waiting at the line to pays the items I want to buy,there are three persons before me a one old woman and two young ladies.This old woman bought many items in the store I think she had a mini store in their own ,while we are waiting the two young ladies are talking about her brother ,nagiging marites ako bigla mga besh ,so this is their conversation.
Girl 1:Hey! I heard you brother had already a girlfriend and he already meet your family.
Girl2:Yes girl ,you heard it right and you know what ,that girl had already a kids ,not only one huh but two (sigh).
Girl1:What?So ,youre brother will be the one who will feed her kids?Woah!how lucky she is.
Girl2:I don't know what's in his head ,a lot of girls out here but he choose a girl with two kids ,can you imagine that?his like he can't find another girl ,he is just looking for a problem.But kuya said that she had a job ,but I even though we don't like her for kuya.
Girl1: I see ,that's good that she had a work to feed her kids.Maybe she really needs a man to be a father of her kids (laughing)
Then their conversation was cut because its already their turn to payed their groceries.
I really felt bad when I heard their conversation ,they are talking a sensitive issue with many people heard ,they talked loud and they did'nt even felt maybe someone was there is also a single mom and for sure it felt hurt when heard them.
I felt hurt honestly ,I had a sister which is a single mom and raised her son with her own but my family did'nt left her alone ,especially my parents they takecare of her son for her to find a job and work for her son after her boyfriend left them.
My two sister in law are both a single mom but they able to raised and give all the needs of their kids .They able to finished them their studies ,they work hard ,a lot of sacrifices just to give their kids a bright future without the help of the father of the kids who supposed to be the responsible for it.
I really wanted to asked and joined their conversation but I keep quite coz I don't want naman na tawagin nila akong pakialamira din and the question I want to asked them just remain in my mind.I just wanted to tell them this question ,are the single mom don't have the right to love and to be love?You don't know their stories ,hindi niyo alam ang pinagdadaanan nila ,ako nga na may asawa pero nahihirapan minsan ,pano pa kaya sila?
We don't have the right to judge them if they did mistakes for sure they will learned from it.Hindi natin alam kung bakit ,paano naging ganun ang nangyari sa kanila.We must be proud of them on how brave they are to face kung ano man ang pinagdaanan nila.A big respect for them to have the courage do it alone ,their strenght for not giving up no matter how hard it is for them.They are a true heroes and I call them a Superwoman.
Salute to all the single mom/single parent out there ,a Big respect for you ,May our Lord God give you the strenght you need and shower you more blessings.
And that's all for today ,hindi pa ako nakaka move on kanina ,muntik na akong mag strong mga dzae ,alam nyo yung feeling na nang gigil ka na tapos pinipigilan mo dahil nasa public place kayo .Hayst grabe talaga ,bakit kaya may taong ganun no?
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Stay Safe and Good night everyone.
GOD bless !
As a single mom for 14 years, all I can say is Yes we are Superwoman. I am proud that I raised my daughter alone and I can see that I raised her well without his father. there is nothing wrong with being a single mom.What is wrong is the people who tend to judge Single moms as losser or not deserving to be love.Hey mga marites.I am proud that even if my asawa na ako,ako young bumubuhay sa asawa at dalawang anak ko ngayon.So ano kayo sa mga single mom.Kami ata and Nanay na madiskarte sa life .