"Early Christmas Gift".(feeling blessed)
Hello everyone, how are you today? I hope you are all doing fine.
It was a busy day yesterday that is why I was not be able to publish an article and I am so sorry for that.
In that morning, I went to the nearest ticketing office in our town,it was just a few steps away from the apartment the we currently renting. I need to make some transaction from my partner G-cash account, because I need to buy medicine for my little boy. Then after that I went directly to market to buy fresh fish and fruits. And after I buy everything that is needed I go home immediately because I feel worry about my son,and the only person who take care and watch for him is my little brother,since my partner is not around that time because he go to his parents house to fix his motorcycle so we can have something to use everytime we are going to visit my in-laws.
Then it was exactly 6 in the evening, so I prepared something for our dinner, I fried some fish and make some soup for my son. And while I'm feeding my baby boy,someones knocked at the door,and when I open it, it was my partner, I really thought that he will gonna sleep at his parents house,but I also thankful at the same time that he came home, so we have a companion in whole night.
I was just wondered when he entered, that he is carrying two big bags, so I ask him why?, but he just told me to open it and see it by myself, and out of my curiosity I opened it right away, and I was surprise on what's inside the bag. The bag was full of clothes for liam which is my son.
All the clothes are from my partner older sister who is now living in America,a plenty of jacket, sweatshirts, long sleeve polo, pants and t-shirts. There are also 4 pair of shoes but the three of it was pre-loved or used, but still its in a very good condition and the other one is brand new. I was so happy that time and for me it was an early Christmas gift from Ate Lex( my partner older sister)
I am so thankful to Ate Lex foe her kindness. I was supposed to go to thrift store to buy some jacket for my baby and order some pair of clothes in Shopee,but now I dont need to do so, because Ate lex already provide what I need . All the clothes are soo cute and fit for my son, and its all perfect for this coming December,specially for the nine-days series Masses leading to Christmas eve. I cant explain how happy I am because of the gift that we received, and I Thank God of course for all the blessings.
That is all for today. Merry Christmas in advance to all of you guys☺️. And keep safe always.
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"I Forgive and I moved on"
Hello everyone, how are you today? I hope you are all doing fine.
Before I start I just want to share this quotes to you, it is according to **Jonathan Lochwood Huie.** ***" Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace"***
*When I was in college I have this 2 best friends, which is younger than me. They both called me "Ate". They are Mira and Zia ( not their real name). Mira is a shy type of girl, while Zia is a straight forward person.*
*Everytime there is a groupings in class, we make sure that the three of us were together, aside from that,we ate our lunch together,laugh together,and in times of needs we help and support each other. In short we always have each others back,and I can say that they really a true friend to me.*
*I'll never forget one time, there is a culmination program in our class, which is our Major subject. So our Professor want to have a small party that is exclusive only for our section. Since we are taking TLE Major,we are the one who prepare for the foods and do some table clothing.*
*After we prepare everything, I ask my Prof. if it is fine with her that my boyfriend can come along with us,since he is already there in school to pick me up, and because our Professor is so kind she allowed my boyfriend to join the party, because she also know thay the party will take a little longer before we finish everything. (It was raining as well that time.) After the party I introduce my boyfriend to my best friends. We have some little chit chats then after that we say goodbye to them then we go home.*
**FAST FORWARD**
*I wasn't able to finish my study, due to financial problem that is why I need to stop and find a job. So I went to cebu and ask some help from my boyfriend who is already working there. Luckily I found one. We live together in a tiny boarding house in Cebu and share to all expenses.*
*One day my boyfriend decided to have a short vacation in our province because he misses so much his parents, and that time also I already pregnant for 2 months. I really want to come with him, but my employer didn't allow me because I was just a newbie that time, as much as I would love to but there is nothing I can do, but to keep on working so I can earn enough money for our future baby and for the hospital bills.*
*After few days, I got some messages from Zia,actually its a bad news for me because she said that my boyfriend is flirting with Mira, I try not to believe Zia because I know Mira cant do such thing since we are best friend and I trust her, but I was wrong. I can feel that Zia is telling the truth, and she dont want to hide anything from me. I just cant imagine that my best friend Mira can betray me. How dare? I trust them so much.*
*So when my boyfriend came back in Cebu, I confronted him and ask him a question if he really did flirting with Mira, and he admitted everything. That time I could not stop myself and I slapped him so hard, to the point that his teeth got some blood. Well I think he deserve it.*
*And because of what had happened, I choose to end our relationship, but he wont let me, he ask for a forgiveness, he say sorry for everything, for giving me so much pain knowing that I am pregnant that time. So I did try to give him a another chance, I set aside my pride for the sake of our future baby, yes I still choose to forgive him if its really hard for myself to do so, because I dont want my child to grow without a father. But I will never ever forget the pain, and the thing he did to me. I also forgive my best friend but I cut the line between us. I just thanks Zia for being true to me, and tell her how lucky I am to have her, thay she didn't even tolerate Mira from her wrong doings.*
*Its been 3 years and now I am totally moved-on from my past experience. And I believe from the saying as well,that you cant start the next chapter in life of you keep on re reading the last one. Anyway my boyfriend really change a lot and I am so happy for his changes. He just prove to me that he dont want to loose me and our son. I also thank God for making me strong and brave despite of everything.*
*And before I end this story of mine I would like to leave you with this quotes from* **Charlie L. Moroga."** ***Dont let your Past steal your Present"***
That's it for now.Thank you so much for your time .
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"Gwapa na Manghud"
*Nov.19 Friday*
*Hello everyone,how are you today? I hope you are all doing fine.*
*Do you have a sister? How was your relationship with them? Well maybe you just wondering about my title, and because of that I want to share to you what's my title all about.*
***"GWAPA"*** *is a Bisaya word,that simply means "Beautiful", and also the word* ***"Manghud"*** *which means "Younger Sister".*
*Early in this moring I did try to call my younger sister, to ask about how her day went, I just want to ask some stuff about her condition, because she told me this past few days that she went to a hospital to see a doctor to have her eye check up. But when she answer my call she seems too busy at her work, so I decided to end the call, so she can focus on what she's doing. Then I say goodbye to her. Im just hoping that she will get better soon.*
*After that, I was supposed to exit my messenger app,but something stop me, and check the settings, and here's what I found*
*Look what she did to our Nicknames in messenger, I laugh so hard when I found this.What a silly sister she is. Well I cant deny the fact that she's Pretty, and she is beautiful inside and out. And I am proud of that, is just that sometimes she's too moody.Lol*
*She is the kind of daughter/sister who puts first the needs of a family, before her own. She wants only the best for our family, specially for mama, she always find a way to make mama happy, because as for her, seeing our mom happy,also make her happy and if she only knew,our Mom is super proud of her, we are so proud of her. I know sometimes she felt tired with her work, but she never give up, she's really a hard working person,and she cant easily quit.*
*Im so lucky to have a sister like her, she's the one that I have always able to count on, I remember the time when we still living together in Cebu,if I ask her for some favor she will never say* ***"No"****,specially when it comes to liam which is my son, and if I ask her to go with me to buy some grocery she's always ready, except if she's not feeling well, but most of the time we go out together to buy for our food before. She is a very supportive sister even sometimes we have some fights.*
*I am so happy for her because She can able to buy her own needs and wants, she can also provide the basic needs of our mama and lil' brother, even if it's not her responsibility to do so, but she is a* ***"Selfless"*** *daughter who is willing to do everything just for her family. She is also a* ***God-fearing*** *person. I know someday, she will gonna reach all her dreams.*
And I want to leave you with this quote:
**"A Sister is someone who loves you from the heart. No matter how much you argue you cannot drawn apart. She is a joy that cannot be taken away. Once she enters your life, she is there to stay" -*****Shiva Sharma***
That's all for today! Keep safe everyone.🙏❤️
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I am forever grateful
Nov. 18 Thursday
Hello everyone,hows your day? I hope you are all doing fine.
*I just finish my laundry because it seems like mister sun is showing up again, so I need to hurry before it will rain again like yesterday. And being a mom seeing a* ***"Laundry basket"*** *empty is the best feeling. Lol. Only mother can relate haha.*
*Anyway too much for that, today I want to share something again because it seems like I missed to publish an article this past few days, and I Am so sorry for that. This one was supposed to publish last night,but my partner did not allow me to connect to his internet because it wa so slow ,and it can affect his work, and I have nothing to do with that since I dont have my own internet connection, I dont have load as well to use my data,that is why.*
*Going back to my topic today, I want to tackled about how* ***Grateful and Blessed I am with my Mama.***
*We all know that being a mom is not a joke,and not an easy job to do. It requires a lot of patience and understanding for her child. They always wanted what's best and good for her child,they are the most protective person and willing to do everything just for their child safety. They were called as a mentor, caretaker and best friend of their own child. And that called "****Mother*** *"is the most special person in our life.*
*I remember before when I was a teenager, most of the time me and my mama always have a fight specially when it comes to household chores,because she is like having a favoritism with my siblings, and most of the time I am the one who always do the duties. That is why I always get mad at her. Everytime we argue,I always leave the house without saying anything, imagine how bad daughter I was?*
*Then one day I realize, that all the wrongs & mistakes that I had done to my mama,will surely come back to me,once I become a mother too. I will never forget as well what she said to me before, that the right time will come and I will gonna experience too the same thing I did to her if I already have my own child. So after I heard those words,it come to my senses that she is right and I should not do the things that can hurt her feelings. I regret everything that I have done to my mama,and ask sorry to her. I was so wrong those time, but despite of everything she still forgive,and now that I am already a mom,I know how hard it is to become one.*
*I am so grateful now to have a mother like her,because she never give up on me after everything. She still give me a chance to change my wrong doing before,and help me realized things.*
*I am so happy as well because she's always there when I need her the most,she may not be able to give me a successful life that she dreaming of, but one thing I sure about that she provides everything and taught me a lesson on how to be contented in life*.
*Now I am happy seeing her smiling,and having fun with my son. She spend most of her time playing with my son,she really cared about liam, also cooked us delicious food. I can easily asked her a favor specially when I feel really tired and she never hesitate to help. I am so thankful to God because of that. "****She is my hero without her cape."***
Closing thoughts:
***We should love and respect our parents, because we did not know,that maybe one day we need a help from them. They are the best gift from God, so we should need to treasure every moment with them before its too late.***
That's all for today. Keep safe everyone.🙏❤️
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My problem with them.
Nov.16 Tuesday
Hello everyone,how are you today? I hope you are all doing great.
I just want to say sorry in advance about my article today. I have no one to tell about my problem with my in-laws, that is why I choose to share it here. I hope you consider it, because for me this is the only way to express my feeling right now.
I dont want to say something bad about my in-laws, that is why I just endure the pain as much as I can,because I dont want to create any trouble between me and my in-laws,and I dont want to ruin the relationship between us. But there are really things that I can't handle anymore.
There was no problem with them at first, and they treated me well,also my family. They treated me like their own child, and I can tell that they were kind. I am super close with my mother-in-law, but when I got pregnant some things change.
Their youngest child which is my partner now, was working as a call center agent,so they thought their son's salary is really big, but the truth was that,it was just enough for our needs as a family, since we already have our own family and our baby's needs is kinda expensive specially when it comes to his milk.
My partner did not forget to give his parent a little amount of help or money every month, of course they are the one who sacrifice just to finish him on his study, but sometimes the help we give to them,doesn't seem to be enough, because they are asking for more,and it make me stress to think about our budget.
Its really hard for me to be on that situation especially that I dont have my own income. It gives me a headache sometimes when it comes to my partner salary,because his parent want a bigger share, they didn't care about our own expenses and bills.
They also always interfere when it comes to raising my child, I have my own way on how to raise my child, but they want us to follow their decision,they keep on saying that I am wrong when it comes to my son,but I am old enough and know what is wrong and what is right, beside I dont want my child to be a spoiled brat,because at the end I know that we are the one who will suffer. They also want me to do to my son the same thing the way they raise their child before. It seems like they are getting my right when it come to my son, and that's what I hate the most. They think that all their suggestions and decision is always right, what about us? What about our own decision? That is why I choose not to live with my in-laws.
I am just thankful, that my partner have a stable job, to support our daily needs and no need to stay with my in-laws. It is really true that when it comes to money people will change. Sad reality.
I think that all for now, Im so sorry if I rant in here. I hope you understand my side.I just really want to express my feeling right now because its driving me crazy.
Thank you for your time. Specially to my dearest sponsors who is generous and kind. Thanks also to those who leaves some comment and gives an upvotes to my article.
Keep safe everyone.💪❤️
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"What Should I do?"
Nov. 12, Fri
Hello everyone,How are you today, I hope you are all doing great.
Im just finished washing our clothes today,and I felt really tired,not because of the household chores,is just that there are some things that I am worry about. I am also not feeling well today, one of the reason why I've been inactive for 2 days.I cant focus myself. I cant stop thinking about it as much as I would love to,I cant help myself it makes me feel stress.
What should I do? I keep on asking myself what to do about my hair. It keeps on falling everyday, and sweeping too many long strands of my hair is so concerning. I know hair fall is normal, but mine is not, because I guess it reach for about 120 strand of hair everyday or more than that, to the point that I am afraid to comb my hair.
We all know that hair is what we called a "Crowning glory" most especially to girls/ women. Sometimes hair is the first thing that people notice about us. Having a beautiful hair can also make to boost our confidence. I remember before, when I was in my first year college. There was an event at our school,and because of that said event, I want to change my looks, specially my hair, so I decided to go to salon near our Brgy. just to have a hair make over and that time I want to have a curly hair. Its a long process, and it takes 3 hours if I'm not mistaken, because they need to put some chemical on it on order to make my hair curled. I am satisfy with the result. And after few months coloring the hair of some student at the University where I am studying become a trend. And because of that again, I ask my bestfriend to color my hair, so we went to the nearest store to buy some product that we are going to use and I choose the color "Golden brown" I bought it for around 25-30 pesos only. Gladly the result is not that bad,thank s to my supportive bestfriend that time. Im happy because someone notice my hair and and they are asking if its natural,of course I will say "No" because its made of chemical haha.
Anyway to much for that. Now I have a problem with my hair. Someone told me maybe because of stress, and having a lack of sleep that can cause an extreme hairfall. Then I realize,she is right because this past few months I didn't get too much sleep which is very important to us. I did search for some remedy and even bought a shampoo online, but still no effect.
I really dont know what to do, or maybe its better for me now to go and visit a Doctor.
Im sorry for this article of mine,I just want to share it to you,and express my feeling.
That's it for today.Thank you for your time.Keep safe everyone.🙏
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Missing you
Nov. 9,Tuesday
Hello everyone How's your day? I hope you are all doing great.
"If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him. I play a song that would never ever end ,how I love to dance with my father again. Every night I fall asleep, this is all I ever dream."
This is a chorus from a song ***(Dance with my father)*** by **Luther Vendross**. Everytime I hear this song, I suddenly miss my papa, I cant help but to cry.
14 years to be exact. My papa need to go abroad sa paniniwalang baka maka ahon kami sa kahirapan, at mabigyan nya kami ng magandang buhay.
2007 Nung nakipagsapalaran siya mangibang bansa, tandang-tanda ko pa,nilalagnat ako noon at iyak ng iyak dahil ayoko pa na umalis siya,pero wala akong magawa sapagkat kailangan. I know how hard was that for him leaving us, hindi rin namin alam kung maka babalik pa ba siya. Super risky mangibang bansa, and I can say na swerte-swerte lang talaga.
At his first year in abroad, Papa can able to send us enough money for our basic needs and for our study as well, and everytime we get sick he is just like " one call away" and he can send directly some money to my mom, so my mother can buy medicine,for us to be get better again.
I can still remember the time na naglalakad kaming tatlo ng isa ko pang kapatid na babae,patungo sa tindahan para bumili ng lugaw para sa agahan namin,hawak namin yung magkabilang kamay ni papa,sabay kwento ng. "*Pa pag nakapag abroad ka na, wish ko sa debut ko makapag suot ako ng gown like Cinderela"*
Yun ang lagi kong sinasabi sa kanya, because I'm a papa's girl. But many years had passed,everything also gradually change. All of a sudden Papa disappear, No communication at all, even how many times we try to call him,but no one answering our call, we did send him thousand of messages but no reply. We dont have any updates from him, maybe something wrong happened, masama na yung kutob namin, at akala namin na wala na siya.
Lagi kong nakikita si mama na umiiyak habang nagdadasal, at sobra akong nasasaktan kasi she's hoping na baka isang araw magparamdam ulit si Papa,pero wala. Sobra kaming nahirapan nung mga araw na yun kasi tatlo kaming magkakapatid na nag aaral, dalawa kami sa college at isa sa highschool,so mabigat para kay mama ang pangangailangan namin, wala akong choice but to stop ,and I need to sacrifice everything for my two siblings so they can continue and finish their study, of course that hurt me so much because I also want to finish my study and hold a degree pero hindi pinalad. Maybe God has a better plan for me that is why.
I blame my papa for what had happened and hated him so much that time, because he promise me that I can finish my study in college,but none of his promises happened. I send him a lot of messages and even cursed him. Napaka hirap, sobrang hirap, na wala siya sa mga panahon kailangan namin ng isang ama. Pero kinalaunan ay nasanay nalang kami.
And then one day, we receive a call from him, oo tumawag siya, hindi namin alam ang sasabihin,hindi namin alam kung paano sisimulan ang usapan , madaming tanong sa isip ko,gusto ko siyang sigawan,gusto ko siyang murahin gusto ko siyang sumbatan,pero hindi ako makapagsalita. Hindi namin alam kung ano talaga ang nangyari sa kanyang pagkawala, hanggang sa umiiyak na siya habang pilit na binigkas yung pangalan namin,nahihirapan siyang magsalita at nakaupo lang sa wheelchair, yun pala na stroke siya, hindi nya lang pinaalam sa amin,hanggang sa hindi ko na namalayan yung luha ko tumutulo na pala, I feel so guilty for all the bad things that I've said towards him,I hate myself for being so rude without knowing the real reason why he didn't contact us for a very long time. Nag iiyakan na kami noon,at mas lalo akong napaluha nung sabihin nya si mama na "Ayaw na akong makita ni ate,sabi nya sana namatay nalang ako" he is referring to me,at hindi ko makakalimutan yung mukha nya habang nahihirapan sa pagsasalita dahil pinipilit nyang magpaliwanag sa amin. Iyak ako ng iyak, naisip ko kung paano siya nka survive sa sitwasyon niya,wala kami nung nahihirapan siya, wala kami noong kailangan nya ng kasama,wala kami noong kailangan nya ng mag aalaga sa kanya. Lahat ng sama ng loob at galit ko sa kanya bigla nalang naglaho, at awa ang nangibabaw.
After namin malaman yung totoo. I made a call almost everyday to him,and by seeing his grandchild makes him feel so happy. Hindi man namin maibabalik yung dati, atleast masaya na kami ngayon, at thankful kami kay God dahil hindi siya pinabayaan kasama ng kanyang mga kaibigan. And now the least thing that I can do is to pray for him thay God will always keep him healthy and safe. I am hoping that someday we will met again.
That's it for now, Im sorry for being emotional this time Thank you for your time. And keep safe everyone.
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"A day well spent"
***"****The love of a family is Life's greatest blessing"-* *Eva Burrows*
Nov 8, Monday
Hello everyone, How's your day went? I hope you are all doing fine.
I was not be able to publish an article yesterday because there is no internet connection in my in-laws house, and we are all busy as well preparing everything for our outing.
Our family is the one who we can tell anything,we can share to them our problems, we can be happy with them and laugh out loud until our stomach hurts. For me Family is one of the most important gifts our life. We feel secure everytime they were around us, and they are the one that we can always count on,and they are always there through our ups and down. They give us so much joy and comfort,they can give us also some advices when it come to some difficulties.
Since I am taking about Family,let me share to you the quality time we spend yesterday. It was a sunny sunday, we decided to go to beach because of the good weather that is perfect time for is to have fun together. And because of that we prepare some food like; pancit bihon, lumpia, spaghetti, and adobo.
Most of us know that adobo is the best and very popular in the Philippines. Its our favorite dish as well. After cooking for our food, I also prepare all the suff for my baby that Im going to bring at the beach,my son also is a beach lover. And when everything was all set, we go directly to the beach that is few walks away only from my in-laws house. And when we arrive there, my partner and his brother set up the tent where we can stay for whole day. We prepare as well all the food because we feel so hungry that time and its already lunchtime. While eating,we share some stories and experiences we have,taking about some silly stuff and making some jokes.It was really fun.
My niece and nephews really having fun, and they enjoy so much swimming at the beach.we also play some games. It's indeed a wonderful day we spent. And before we go home we take some pictures,that is worth to remember. That was another memories to be treasured as well.
And before its get dark we clean up all the thing we brought at the beach including our belongings to make sure that nothing left behind. So when we arrived home,each of us also take a bath, before we can take our dinner.
Sitting down together while eating is the best moment to open up some discussion and asking each family member about some interesting topics. And when we finish eating we plan to watch some movies. Since we felt so tired,after watching movie we all decided to go to sleep to take some rest. And that how we spent our day.
Not everyone of us having a perfect family. Most of them are families living with some difficulties,that is why if you have a good family,even how busy you are,try to make some time with them. Still, its more beautiful that we spend time to our family,because no amount of money can take the place of time we spent with them together.
According to **Jim Butcher**
***" When everything goes to hell,the people who stand by you without flinching,they are your Family"***
That's all for today. Keep safe everyone.
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"Its Too late, but I give it a Try"
Nov. 6, Saturday
Hello everyone. How's your day went? I hope you are all doing great.
We are supposed to go to visit my in-laws today,but for some reason it didn't happen,so we just plan to make it on Sunday, we did just inform them why we cant come to their home. We told them that my partner will be having a Mobile Legend Tournament and he also need some rest because this past few days he had a lack of sleep, because of his graveyard shift.
But then there are few things that is happened today. My cousin came and visited me, she ask to stay for a while because she had something to do that is related to her work, and while doing her job, we share some chika's in life,in regards to our baby,and their achievement as a toddler's, and there is so much more aside from that, because after couple of years we see each other again. We also share some of our personal experiences. And after some hour,she needs to go home because her baby is waiting for her and it seems like the weather is getting bad,and will going to rain, that is why she need to hurry.
After she leave, I did some household chores and spending my time with my son,we paly some of his toys and sing his favorite nursery rhymes. I was supposed to write new article as well that time, but sad to say I wasn't able to do so.
I felt a little bit worry because I may not be able to publish new article again, that is why I doubled my time so I could finish the housework earlier and do all my stuff.
It was exactly 10:00 PM when I finally free myself on doing some other thing, and I also put my baby to sleep as well. And after that I grab my pen and paper and I start writing a new content for my article that really needs to be publish this day. While writing I found myself so sleepy and I have no choice but to strive harder for my goals. So I motivate myself to do the things that is need to be done,because I cannot bring back the time when its over, and I dont want to regret it.
I really thought that I cant make it, but I believe myself instead of doubting.
And because of that I want to share some quotes to you:
***"It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you did not stop" -Confucius***
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That's all for now. Thank you for your time reading my article,I appreciate it much. Keep safe everyone❤️
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In just 4 Days
November 5, Friday
Hello everyone, it's another day,another blog to tell. How's your day went? I hope you are all doing great.
I am here again to share something.
My partner is working at a BPO Industry,and being a CCA (short for Call Center Agent) is not easy,because they are dealing with a customer who have different kind of attitude. Some of the customer have a pleasing personality,and others are rude,some of them as well are too racist,but most of the time they are dealing with irate customer.
And because of this pandemic, 50% of the employee where my partner working, assigned to Work from Home,luckily he's one of them,so he need to have a presentable work place. He badly need a good and sturdy office table,but since we are not able to bring his table that we bought when we are living in Cebu,we just need to borrow a table to my mom just for the meantime so he have something to use. Unfortunately the table is too short and small for his computer, and for him as well,that he can't even stretch his legs under it.
Because of his poor set up, he always complaining most of the time that he's having a muscle pain, but we dont have a choice,instead he need to endure the pain and I feel pity on him and that time there is nothing I can do,as much as I would love to help him,by buying a new table but the Mall from our town is too far and we need to travel for atleast 1 hour before we can get there.
And then the next day is his rest day,so he decided to go to the mall to buy a new one,but sad to say no table is available. And when he came home I can see a long face of him and I know how disappointed he is that time. So since Im a shopeeholic,I know SHOPEE will find a way, so I grab right away my phone and open my shopee app and look for some office table, then finally I found one after reading some reviews from the shop, then I place my order even the delivery fee is kinda bit expensive. I was just felt a little sad after knowing that the delivery time will take 14 days,so I told him about it that we need to wait for 2 weeks before it arrive. Then after waiting for 4 days we didn't expect that someone will call us about the delivery saying that the parcel as already arrived and is out for delivery. So I was in shock because it only takes 4 days,Im so thankful that the shipment was that fast, and he no need to suffer anymore in using a very cute table. Im so happy for him as well that he is so excited to use it.
We all know that "work" is hard, but if you are working in a cozy area, you will feel comfortable,and the more comfortable you are, the more happier you can feel, and you can be able to do your job and become productive despite of a very stressful work you have.
And buying him a new table is the least I can do to make him feel relax while working. It's a muscle pain no more for him. Thanks to Shopee. Haha.
I bet that's it for today.
Im not a good writer,and still working on it, so if you have any suggestion,feel free to leave a comment below and that would be a very big help for me, to improve my writing skills.
Thank you for your time and to my kind and generous sponsor as well @Janz and @BreadChamp thank you so much.
Keep safe always guys.
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"Friendship Over"
November 4,2021
*Hello everyone,its another day,another blog to tell. I hope you are all doing great.*
*I felt so sad yesterday because I wasn't able to publish an article,due to very slow and not stable internet connection we have, maybe because of the wind and rain*.
*So please allow me today to use Taglish for this article,because I feel like I'll be having a brain hemorrhage,hehe*
*Maybe you are wondering about my title, so here is the story behind that.*
*Alam naman nating lahat na sa panahon ngayon mahirap na makahanap ng totoong kaibigan. Yung tipong kaya kang damayan sa hirap at ginhawa, yung kaibigan na nandyan para sayo sa panahon na kailangan mo ng karamay, hindi yung kaibigan na nandiyan lang kasi may kailangan sila. Tulad nalang ng nangyari samin ng partner ko. May kaibigan kaming babae na nakilala nya sa work,in short teammate sila, but we're not that close to her. And then there was onetime bigla nalang siya nag message and we thought its work related but not, because she was asking for some help,that maybe she can borrow 200 pesos from us,just to buy food for their breakfast,kasi walang wala na daw silang magamit, so ayun nag send kami through G-cash, and she said that she will gonna pay us on their Payday, and because we are friends,confident naman kami na mababayaran nya yun.*
*But there's a rumor about her,specially when it comes to money, some said that she is not a good-payer, pero binalewala lang namin yun na baka issue lang, at besides we trust her and she also made a promise to us. At yun na nga dumating yung araw na sweldo na nila, we try to message her regarding the said amount, but reply lang niya "Sorry kulang yung sahod ko" at may deduction pa daw siya because of her loan. So kami naman ok lang,not a big deal kasi baka nga kulang talaga.*
*Nag hintay nalang kami for their next payday, and sad to say may palusot nanaman siya, so nag doubt na kami, seryoso ba talaga to? Napasabi nalang kami na baka totoo talaga ang issue about sa kanya na di na siya marunong magbayad after niya manghiram. And again deadma nanaman kami, we give her another chance,di na kami nag message sa kanya, nakiramdam nalang kami kung magkukusa ba siya, baka sakaling maalala niya hehe. Hanggang sa nag one month nalang yung 200 pesos, wala parin kaming natanggap na hi/hello man lang, in fact kayang-kaya nya naman bayaran yun,because she's working as a call center agent, and far as we know may mamahalin siyang aso, tapos naka aircon pa, tapos mga branded pa mga gamit nya, so for me its impossible na di nya afford yung ganong amount.*
*And because of her excuses, di na kami naniwala sa kanya, it proves lang talaga na totoo yung issue. Hindi naman sa pagmumukhang pera or anu-man, pero yung amount kasi na yun pinaghirapan at pinag-paguran yun at hindi lang basta napulot sa kung saan-saan, higit sa lahat yung tiwala mo para sa isang tao, kasi yung pera makikita pa yan,pwede pang magawan ng paraan pero yung pagdating sa tiwala,mahirap nang maibalik pa. All of a sudden nag message sa samin last week,saying that she will gonna pay us this coming 15th of November, kasi nawalan daw siya ng work tapos first pay nila is sa 15 pa, pero it's over na, she fooled us dahil lang sa maliit na halaga,nasira pa yung samahan at tiwala namin sa kanya. Tapos minsan ikaw na nga ang naka tulong, ikaw pa ang nagiging masama para sa kanila.*
That is why I truly believe in this saying:
***"Friendship is like a paper. It will never be the same once crumpled"***
I bet that's all for now. Thank you for your time reading this.
Have a great day and Keep safe everyone.♥️
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Finally
*Tuesday, November 2,2021*
*Hello amazing pipz and read.cash fam. I hope you are all doing great today.*
*Its rainy tuesday morning and we all know that today is All Soul's Day,in which we celebrate every year to remember our love ones who passed away, its our tradition to visit their graves, we bring them some flower for decoration,candles and specially we offer a prayer for them. Unfortunately here in our Province we are not allowed to go to cemetery,so what we just did is to offer a prayer ,in Bisaya its called " Pa Misa".*
*Anyway I feel bored today, I dont know why, maybe because of the cold weather. So to divert this feeling I grab my pen and paper so that I can make a new content,instead of wasting my time for nothing. Time is gold and clock is ticking so I need to be productive today.*
*As what I have published on my first article,it stated there the reason why I have been inactive in read.cash for 2 months. And because of the said reason me and my partner decided to go back home in province for good, because we was traumatized by our past experience.*
*So after 2 years and a half of being a prisoner of this pandemic,we finally made our dream come true, and that is to be with our family again who is living in the province,and after the incident we always wanted to go back to our hometown. But going home is not easy as eating peanut,because that time there's a lot of protocols that we need to be follow and both of the port boarders are super strict when it comes to traveling.*
*So inorder for us to pass and enter the port we need to complete all the travel requirements needed. And because of our excitement we process straight away all the paper works,like the negative swab result,LOA, and QR code. Luckily we made it,despite of some minor problems that we encounter upon the process.*
*We choose to get back home and live in province because we know that we are more safe here than living in the city during this very challenging times,besides we dont want to happen again what we experience before,that was a nightmare that we cannot forget. We choose the best for our baby because he deserve a healthy and happy life,and we always wanted him to experience our childhood days,and for us as a parent the best solution is to go back home,not just for him but for the 3 of us.*
*Its really nice to feel that we made a good decision and for me its a big success,that after everything happened to us while living in the city during the pandemic,we can now able to see again our family and make a memories with them without any fear, yet we still need to be very extra careful.*
*I can't say that we are 100% safe here in province ,but living here give us a peace of mind from any stressful things. Aside from that we can now also breath some fresh air, we can enjoy the natural sceneries around us. Its indeed relaxing,that we are now away from noise and air pollution, as well as the crowded area. And the cute things about living here in province is we can also plant a lot of crops, that we can use for our everyday meal, so we can save extra money for foods.*
*Im gonna miss living in the city,but for now I think this is the best for us,and what important is the health and safety of my family.*
*That's it for today.*
*Thank you for your time reading up to this part. And if you have some suggestion regarding my writing skills feel free to leave a comment down below, and I know,that can help me a lot to improve it.*
*Keep safe always guys.Have a good day*♥️
**Lead image from Google**
Our Covid-19 Journey
Monday, November 1
Hello to all of the writers here in read.cash. My name is Mj but I choose to use a codename "Mommy" because I alaready have a baby. Acctually I have an account before, but sad to say I cannot log-in to it anymore because I forgot my credentials, that is why now I need to create a new one, so I can continue sharing my stories here and have an interaction with you guys. I hope I am still welcome here eventhough I am not a good writer.
I have been inactive for 2 months because of some reason, and I want to share it to you.
I did not expect that there was something bad happened to us. I dont really have an idea why its happened, because everytime I have to go outside for some important matter and to buy some groceries I always make sure to follow the protocols, I distanced myself into many people, always bring my alcohol, and wear a double facemask so that I can avoid the virus. I need to be very careful because I have a 2 year old baby, that is why eveytime I went to market I disenfect all the stuff I bought outside and after that I take a shower to make sure were safe.
So way back August 13,2021 my partner feel unwell, he experience body chill, fever and headache which it the main symptoms for covid19 virus. So we call immediately to his pocket doctor and after the consultation the doctor advices us to undergo swabtest to know if it is really a covid. And yes we did, we call to our Brgy. Officials and health workers, we seek some help from them, gladly they response. They send some health workers to our home to conduct a swabtest and we just need to wait for 24-48 hours. After waiting for 2 days, we received the result and it indicated that the 3 of us positive for covid-19 virus. I was shocked that time and can't really believed,I was just crying that whole day because I feel scared for our baby who is too young to experience the said virus.
And when the Brgy.knows about our situation,they send us some relief good because we are not allowed to go outside, and they do some interviews. I can see how they care about us specially to our baby.
After that, another group of officials came to conduct a survey and they were the EOC of cebu. They told us that we need to transfer as soon as possible to isolation facility, but then some of our friends who's been positive, told us that the facility is very dirty and we might get other disease, and become more ill. So we ask them a favor that if maybe we can just do a home isolation, but they did not allow us because they just following the protocol and we understand. They just offer us some option that if we dont like to stay in some isolation facility we can stay in hotel, so for the safety of our baby we choose to stay in the said hotel,even if its a bit expensive, but its for our safety and comfort as well.
So the moment we arrive in hotel the staff and nurses did and immediate check up,and I can say that the area is very clean and comfortable because they always disenfect it. After they checked our oxygen rate and heartbeat they send us some antibiotic and other medications, we also buy some vitamins and fruits through ***grab.pabili.***
But then my partner who is the most affected by the virus and seriously ill, really need some medical attention, to the point that he wanted to bring him to hospital because of having a hard time breathing and he need an oxygen support, but the staff did not allow him to go to hospital because they know what will happen if he do, instead they encourage my partner and help him to lessen his anxiety and they keep on monitoring us just to make sure that we're fine.
Being positive for covid virus is the toughest thing that ever happened to us. It is really scary, its hard to experienced the loss of taste and smell, having a high fever,body pain and vomitting. We also almost lost our hope that time, but we fight for our life. We thank God because he never leave us and he gave us a second chance to live in this beautiful world. Now I can say thay we are one of the Covid-19 survivor, we conquer the one of the challenging moment of our life by the help of our family even they are miles apart from us, they show their support and love so we can easily recover. And after a week of staying in hotel we can finally go home. A big thanks to all the staff and frontliner who taking good care to us even if its so very risky to them,they help us to get better little by little.
So guys,please take care always everytime you go outside because covid is not a joke, protect yourself from the virus and do not forget to practice good hygiene, always wash your hands and bring alcohol with you, avoid close contact with others most specially when you are at the public places where you will gonna encounter other people. We can't see our enemy that is why we need to be very careful.
That's it for today,and I hope you have fun reading my very fisrt article. Stay safe evryone.
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