@BreadChamp
Almost Raped **Thu, Mar 17 ✨** ***Good day, awesome souls!*** Another day, another slay! I had a great sleep last night and now I feel alive and energized! How about you guys, how's your sleep? And for those from another time zone, how's your day going? I hope you're rocking it. Today, I am going to answer questions again. I noticed that I am into joining prompts this entire week and I am loving it! I am grateful to all initiators out there. Thank you for helping me write a topic almost every day. You saved me a lot in times when I can't put my thoughts in words. Three days ago, I stumbled upon @EJ's **"You Ask, I Will Answer"****.** He joined a prompt initiated by @Micontingsabit and I find it interesting so I am here to give it a go. If you wish to join, tap **me**. https://read.cash/@EJ/you-ask-i-will-answer-177e4a15 https://conversationstartersworld.com/questions-for-couples/ **Alright, let's goooooo!**
`What is your ideal way to spend a vacation?` I don't know if it's me alone but I always wanted to spend a vacation anywhere near the beach. I just find it so calm and relaxing, you know. Whether I am alone or with someone or even with a family, I would always enjoy it. `What makes you dislike the person?` I don't like it when a person is making up a story just to destroy someone. Like how can someone be that horrible to make someone look bad in the eyes of other people? Will it benefit them? Grrr! `Are you happy with the people you surround yourself with? Why or why not?` Yes, I am beyond grateful to have them around. My family is my strength and they made me even stronger every single day. I am happy to have them even we are not perfect. My parents fight a lot but I love them so much and I can't imagine living a life without them. And to the people I am living with right now, my housemates, my friends, thank you for making me feel that I am worth keeping.
`When was the last time you cried?` It was yesterday. It was because of the Kdrama I was watching, lol! But you know what, I am happy that I am no longer crying over my life troubles. Thanks, God. `What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?` I never shared this secret with anyone before because I find it embarrassing. But now, I am ready to share it with you. I was almost raped before. I was in second grade at that time. I remember me and my friends were playing hide and seek and I accidentally entered the house of one of my playmates. I went straight to the corner and I suddenly heard weird sounds from the other room. Someone was there and I don't know what he was watching. The chismosa side of me occurred maybe and so I gently sneak a peek inside I was shocked when someone pulled my hand and grabbed my waist. He was watching "bold movie" (like porn), it was something that kids like me aren't allowed to watch at that time. He covered my mouth and was about to pull down my shorts when I managed to shout "Nay, Kuyaaaaaaa!". I was screaming as loud as I could for help. In less than five minutes, my big brother arrived and knocks him down. I was crying when he arrived. He was so mad at him. Who wouldn't? It was traumatizing! My parents punished him ( the person who almost raped me). He was sent away by his parents and we saw each other again ever since.
That's all for today lovely readers. Thank you so much for your time and effort in visiting my post. I appreciate it so much! Will visit your shortly. ***I'll be back!*** ***Saranghae! 💗*** **All photos from Unsplash except for the last one.*
48 comments
Naayy kakulba ba atung almost raped dai. 🤧
Kaaayuuu ate. Maka trauma jud iya gibuhat.
Grabe maamsh maajo nakamao ka nga mosinggit. Grade 2 ps raba ka.
Nakuyawan ko sa iya gibuhat gud mamsh maong nisinggit kog maayu. Hadlok kaau.
That's the bad effect of watching pornography. Kung ano Yung nakikita niya gustong totohanin. Kaya mag ingat Tayo sa mga anak natin na Hindi malolong sa kapapanood ng mga bold movies.
Totoo yan. Nai-influence kasi silang gawin yung napapanood nila.
Luhh baka if ako yun mii, hindi na ako makikisama sa mga lalake. Nakakatrauma kasi talaga.
Sa kanya lang ako nag hate noon bii. Natutunan ko din kalaunan makigsalamuha sa mga boys pero di ako nagtitiwala agad².
Kakulba...
Superrr sis
Relate ako don sa last part,I have that kind of experienced way back year 2000,it's traumatizing jud.Thats the hardest part ng pagiging babae.
Ang hirap maka recover sa ganun sis. Grabe nakaka trauma
Oo,ako namn hindi naman natuloy yong rape pero na trauma ako sa physically,kasi nasaktan ako eh,nagkaroon ako ng galos kasi lumaban ako,it takes siguro 2-3 years bago nakapag adjust sa nangyari sa akin.
If only the punishment were done by the law and not by the families, so that he would not have such intentions against anyone again. If there is a crime in the middle, it should definitely be punished!
My parents wanted to put him behind bars at that time but he was not yet at the legal age. If only we can punish him for what he deserves, we could have done it that way.
I would happily cut off his powerline. How dare he! Such rubbish people are damaging our society. Sorry about you dear.
He is evil and I can't forget the trauma he caused me. :(
Kakulba ato sis. 🥺 Maka trauma gayud to sis. Mayo kay naka shagit ka sis. Grabe man to siya sis. 🥺 Gusto ko din beach sis di ka lang marerelax kundi mag eenjoy ka din. Anong kdrama yang iniyakan mo sis?
Grabeenggg trauma nako atu sis. Naglisud kog move on atu. I agree, the beach is the best place to chill. Yung Twenty Five Twenty One yung iniyakan ko sis.
Shemay nakaka trauma yan sis ang bata mo pa nyan. Naalala ko naman nung nasa jeep ako highschool na ko non tapos ung katabi kong lalaki hinimas ung boobs ko ng matagal. di ako makababa ng jeep kasi nakatusok ung something na parang ung matulis sa nailcutter ba un,...
Gabi² ko talaga yun naiisip noon. Thank God I recovered. Juskooo naka walang hiya nung nanghimas sayo sis.
Nao trauma nga yan sis beter ask for a therapy at ibang usapan na yan lalo na mental. sa akin naman sis grabe din un naaalala ko din itsura pulang pula talaga kaa mo naka droga na sumakay sa jeep.
The beach is a haven to spend a vacation with... play with the waves or simply sit by the shore and appreciate life :) And oh my, glad you shouted for help... grabe din yon.
I agree ate. Iba talaga yung feeling kapag sa beach nagchill. Thank God I was able to shout and was saved by my brother .
That was God's hands and mercy, thank God ate nakahingi ka ng tulong.
Yes, God saved me. 💗
Woah ingat ka palagi ma'am☹️ Basta nandito lagi si god para satin, Saka nakakainis yung mga GANYANg tao sarap patayin na lang bigla jusko.
Salamat kaibigan. Di talaga tayo papabayaan ng panginoon.
Nakakatakot naman yun, grabe. Nakakatraumatize ha. Buti na lang dumating ang kuya mo agad. It is not destined to happen to you and no one is deserve of this such things
Nakaka trauma talaga sis grabe. True, no one deserves to go through that horrible scene.
Sis buti na lang talaga dumating si kuya mo. Wala na talagang safe sa mundo.
This kind of people is so much harmful for our society. How much bad they are!Thank GOD you can shout my friend and brother came to save you.
Yes, you are right my friend. Thank God I was saved.
It happens every day in today's society. So bad.
True. And it's indeed a sad reality.
kashock naman yung bata nayun ..nako.. bata pa pero ano na . buti nalang nakasigaw ka.. near the beach din sakin kasi gusto ko talaga yung sunset sa dagat.
Manyakis talaga yun huhu. May fault din ako kasi pumasok ako sa bahay na yun.
Oh my god, buti na lang nakaligtas ka! Anyways, I'm saving this article to remind me to write something about this. :")
Thankful ako sa Kuya ko talaga na dali daling pumunta sa kinaroroonan ko.
It must have been so hard on you. But thanks to God you could escape him through your brother's aid.
Yes, it was. But now, thanks to God I recovered from that horrible trauma.
These are good sets of questions to answer para ma save ako from my writer's block moments sis haha. Thanks for this. Anyways, just like you, I'd like to spend my vacation near the beached.
Saw your post already sis hihi napa late yung mga reply ko
Syempre un agad binasa ko. Buti na lang nasave ka.
Thankful talaga ako na dumating agad yung Kuya ko Kuya Lee.
Buti nalang sis nasave ka at hindi nangyari. Masakit lang isipin na may mga ganyan talagang tao.
Mabuti nalang talaga at nakasigaw ako sis. May mga ganyan talagang tao, di nawawala sa mundo.
Buti nalang talaga sis. Kailan kaya sila mawawala?