"It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It!"

Tama naman sis. Parang husband ko Lang lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya na he can say it in another way na hindi siya nakakasakit ng feelings ng iba.

Dahil sa article na ito pumasok na naman sa isipan ko ang nangyari sa lola at anak niya na binaril ng isang pulis sa ulo, naging viral ang video nito na kinuha ng kamag-anak nila at naipost sa social media.

Kumulo 'din ang dugo ko sa bidyong iyon, Isa sa mga tumatak sa mga nakakita sa bidyo ay ang pagsabi ng batang anak na kasama ng suspek na my father is a policeman -- *criminal.

Isa 'din yung halimbawa ng mga tao na may superiority complex at feeling ay nakakaangat at mas maotoridad sa kapwa niya.

Hindi ko talaga alam kung bakit may ganyang tao sa bayan natin gayong iisa uri lang naman tayo. Ah siguro, kasi ang alam ko ay bahagi tayo sa kingdom animalia, pinapairal ng mga taong yan ang pagka asal hay*p. Hindi ba yung mga katulad ng leon sa kagubatan eh mabangis at siga sa mga kapwa niyang hayop na mas mahina sa kanya.

Nakakalungkot lang talaga dahil wala din naman tayong magagawa sa iba. Kung meron man ay iyong nasa malapit lang sa atin, turuan ng maaayos na asal at mabuting modelo sa kanila pero sa iba talagang wala na tayo magagawa sa likas na pngit nilang ugali... 😕

Nakakainit talaga ng ulo yung mga ganyan. Dami ko ng pinatay sa utak ko na mga ahole. Lalo sa amin mga nasa food industry grabe kung paano kami tratuhin ng iba na kala mo mga wala kaming pinag-aralan. Nakakahighblood

Actually there are just people who thought they are privileged enough to act like that and its irritating, its annoying. And there are people no matter how you remind them to have courtesy or respect with other people they just don't follow and those are the kind of people that i want to put 6th feet below the ground without saying a word LOL

Yup "It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It!".it is not important what u say. Important is how u communicate you

I do think that most privileged people grew up to be ruder so i wonder what their parents must've taught them while growing up

Those in the service industry do screw up. And you can snap at them, when warranted. But you can do that without shaming them in front of everyone else. However, when you need something, it s imperative to be polite, say please, and especially thank you. Yes, it is how you say it that has the most impact rather than what you say, so be careful when you open your mouth.

We have a saying in Spanish. "Lo cortés no quita lo valiente" (Being courteous, doesn't take away brave). It reminds us good manners are not a weakness. Lovely day for you, my dear!

Tama ka talaga, it's not the word, it's the manner that you said that word, pasigaw, pa demanding.I can remember one experience, bago lang namatay si mama non, kakapanganak ko pa lang din.

Sumakay ako ng tricycle, 100 yong pera ko, pagbaba ko, sabi ng driver, wala akong barya, ba't hindi ka ngsabi na 100 pala pero mo. So yon, pumunta ako sa malapit na bakeshop, nanghiram ako ng pera. Nang inabot ko na, galit si driver, aburido sya kasi matagal, bat di sinabi. Ako may pinagdadaanan, as in umiyak talaga ako. Bumalik ako sa bakeshop, umiyak, sabi ng tindera"ok ka lang mam". Sabi ko, ok lng, hanggang sa kumalma ako.

Sana always nating piliin yong kindness kasi di natin alam na may pinagdadaanan pala yong tao tapos ang rude ng way ng pagkasabi natin.

You see, it's not WHAT you say that matters, but HOW you say it. As the late Maya Angelou said, “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” That's exactly the case here.

may away? may away? may away? san???

"Before that, he was wandering around his table, shot me a couple of hard glares down his nose at me." --> this I don't like. naghahanap na sha talaga ng gulo.. insecure much si kuya may hanash ..

Its inevitable to encounter persons like this that will try our temper talaga. Pero kung below the belt naman na eh ibang usapan na.kailangan na turuan ng leksyon. Its ok to be kind to all but not all the time especially when they are being abussive na.😊

Eyy. Baka kung ako po yan, napagsalitaan ko na at hindi na ako nakapagpigil haha. Nakakainis bakit may mga ganyang tao na akala mo kailangan lahat sasambahin siya. Tssssk. Sabi nga if you want to be respected by others, learn to respect too! Sarap jombagin nyan.

Nkakairita talaga mga taong ganyan noh, no manners, umasta parang nagmamay-ari sa mundo. Ewan ko ano issue nila, hindi marunong mahiya..

The saying “Customers are always right” is not always not applicable. If the customer is degrading someone esp a crew, then i think, respect should not be served also. 🥺

"What comes around goes around. If you want respect then you should give it first." If I were in your shoes I would feel the same. Even reading this article made my blood boil. It too harsh, inhumane and indecency. People like that would end up killed (lol evil thought, if imagination could kill I've already killed him)

Sometimes din po talaga, iba iba interpretations nang tao sa sinasabi niya or natin. Madalas na mi.misinterpret natin, especially yung tone or the way niya sinasabi ang gusto niyang sabihin.