Should We Call It Fake Love?

Hi everyone. I know I've not been active for a few days. I was dealing with a lot and I could not combine it with my article writing. Also, I've learned that a creative person needs full concentration and a complete or focused mind whenever he or she is writing or creating what he or she knows how to do best. So, I decided to pause.

I think I should address a general issue here and I know that for sure, you will reason with me. It's my birthdate today and I'd say a happy birthday to myself. I wish myself long life and prosperity. I'm great and I know I'll be greater. I've got no plans for today😅 all I want to do is, sleep.

Should we call it fake love? I'm sure everyone receives gifts and birthday wishes from different people. Sometimes it's even people that we don't expect. And also, it may sometimes be from people that we expect. And you may think it's normal but I don't think so. Right now, I'm returning the exact level of energy I get from people. I guess I need it to navigate in life😅.

One thing I notice is that those people that are very close to you may not even wish you a happy birthday. You'll be so shocked. I'm the kind of lady that have people in mind. No matter the relationship between us, I'll still say a happy birthday to you. But I realized that I'm not everybody.

And some people don't even see birthdays as a big deal. It's just like a normal day to them. The only difference is that they will clock a new age on that day. I think most guys don't see a birthday as a big deal but I do😅. And I make a cake for my birthday. I so much love cakes😊.

There are a lot of my friends that we've been together with for over a decade, some of them didn't wish me a happy birthday, and I can't do without wishing them well on their birthday. Should we call it fake love?

Some of my friends that I don't even check on, are the ones doing the most. Wishes, gifts, and a lot more. I never knew a lot of people had me in mind. I feel good😊. I know this happens to everyone on their birthday. I don't know if it's normal but I know it happens to everyone.

What could have been their excuse? Are they busy? Didn't they remember? Yeah, I understand that we all have a lot that we deal with so I guess it's very possible to forget. So, with that, I won't blame anyone.

The funniest thing is that we give too much energy and show so much care to these particular people. And maybe that's why they think people can't do without them. Someone proved that to me last night and that's how I realized that some people are feeling like the directors of our lives.

For the love, care, and everything these people have been showing to us, Should we call it fake love?