Can We Try Harder?

I went through someone's article and the person spoke about you not forcing yourself on someone. Honestly, I cannot remember the author of the article but the person was like if he or she tries to gain someone's attention once or twice and the person is not giving him a positive answer or not showing in a positive interest that it is going to back off. Why? He said he knows his worth😊. So wonderful 😌😌. I am sure this is what maturity of us feel. I know everybody knows their worth and everybody value themselves and it is not really advisable to lose yourself to anybody. Right? Oh yes!!. But what is this perception is wrong? Or let me not say that it is wrong, let me just say that it shouldn't be accepted in some kinds of relationship. It may be friendship, family or even a romantic relationship. Whatever relationship it could be.

I know it's not actually good to force yourself on someone both what if this person that you think is ignoring you is battling with some real issues on life that you don't know. And there are some issues that you face and you gotta face it alone, you need no distraction. Though, if you try harder to keep that relationship between you and such person, it may make you feel like a fool. Such person may chase you away, but trust me, he or she will come back to say thank you. A lot of people out there are depressed and they really need help. Honestly, I'm not telling you to live for such people or do things to impress them. But, can you stay with them? I don't know if you understand me. So, I'll give you another example.

I really do not know what we take romantic relationship for these days. I've seen a lot of romantic relationship that did not last simply because of communication. The lady in the relationship will claim right that she knows her worth and she can't beg her man to pick her calles because a better person may come. The so called boyfriend will say this too and this is how the relationship will begin to sink. The love in the relationship whenever you are not talking to your partner everyday or you are ignoring your partner because he or she hasn't called you. For adults here, you can do it!!! It depends on the way that you have defined your relationship. There is some relationship that it is the man that calls. Also,there are some relationships that the woman does the calls and see is vice versa. But the most important thing is that whenever you're in a tight corner, your partner should check on you.

Imagine you are in a relationship and you're waiting for your man to call or you're waiting for your woman to call, how won't it sink? And I'm sure that you'll keep doing it in your next relationships. You see, the little things matter💯 and it piles up. That person you're with today may not know your worth but something keeps telling me that if you try harder, his heart will melt, her heart will melt. The morning calls, the prayers, the gifts, the outings, the career support that you show your partner is everything. Trust me, one day they'll come to think over it and realize that you're worth everything they could ever think of.

Though, some people get wrong partners. Some people are so unkind that no matter what you do to them, they wouldn't appreciate it. If you're in such relationship, please run from that your partner. I beg to you. I pray we do not fall in the hands of wicked partners and I know that one day, all the little sacrifices that we've made for love will surely count.

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