Be Heavy On Yourself!

My topic may sound weird to a lot of people so I'll explain. As we all know, a lot of people came into our lives and they've left us. Also, we have a lot of people present in our lives and I'm sure they will leave. Also, a lot more are coming into our lives and it's likely for them to go. Nothing is permanent in life. Even our lives are temporary.

The first instance I'll give is love life. A lot of people are in relationships while a lot are single. It sounds weird to some people when they see someone who is single because they believe that everyone should be in a relationship while a relationship doesn't work out well for everyone.

It's cool to allow a new partner in your life. It's cool to love them unconditionally that you can't go a day without talking to them. It's cool to love them for whom they are even though they have their flaws too.

Remember, your mental health is important. If you're dating someone that seems not to be peaceful, I would advise you to sit that person down and talk about what's going on. If he or she doesn't change and you feel like you cannot cope, please leave!!!!. You should care about yourself first because you're the one for yourself. Remember, nothing lasts forever. And remember that you're doing it to save your mental health and also to make you happy.

I have always heard that it's worse to leave relationships when you're married. Especially when you've given birth. I know it's sad. It's a very sad experience. But, you need to remember how you were living before that person came into your life. Slowly replace them or take them outta your life. Let your so-called partner know that you're heavy on yourself and you're enough to make yourself happy.

Also, if you are working somewhere and the work is affecting your mental health, take a break. I won't tell you to stop because I can't feed you. I'll only tell you to take a break and analyze how you'll do the work so that it won't affect you. If it's not working out well, look for a new job that you can cope with before leaving the previous one. Don't think of what people will say. It's your life and you only know what you're going through. Be so heavy on yourself that what people say or think doesn't get to you.

Be heavy on yourself so that you won't let anything affect your mental health.

Be heavy on yourself that you never stop smiling.

Be heavy on yourself that you only seek things that bring peace to you.

Be heavy on yourself that even when your favorite person says goodbye to you, it won't affect you very much.

Be heavy on yourself that all you want is a soft life.

Be heavy on yourself that you can be alone all night long and still be happy.

Be heavy on yourself so that you won't place your happiness in people's hands.

Be heavy on yourself that you'll always want to be better than you were before.

Be heavy on yourself that you're your only competition. You don't need to compare yourself to anyone.

Be heavy on yourself that you always want to improve day by day.

Be heavy on yourself that you always want to look good for yourself only.

Be heavy on yourself that even though others are doing better than you, it won't make you sad.

Be heavy on yourself that you're you and you're not faking anything for anyone.

Be heavily on yourself that you're not living to impress anyone.

Be heavy on yourself that you don't wish to be in someone's shoes because they are doing than you.

Be heavy on yourself that only your opinion matters to you.

Remember, you're all for yourself.