Are We Always Right?

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2 years ago

Something happened to me not quite long and I thought of writing about this. I've noticed this and I think almost everyone does it especially the African parents 😁😁. Let me start with talking about the African parents. Why is it that our parents always think that they are right all the time?. Imagine that you're with your mother in the kitchen and she mistakenly broke a plate, she may not even admit her mistake. She can as well blame you for not grabbing the plate when it's about to fall πŸ˜…. Funny yeah? I know it is😁😁. That's how African mothers areπŸ˜…. Let's leave our African mothers and talk about ourselves 😁.

I've noticed that whenever we're not the ones in a particular situation, we tend to be wise. You don't understand me? Let me explain. I'm streaming the African Magic Awards live and I'm seeing a lot of dresses. The beautiful ones and the beautiful ones again 😁. So, I took to my WhatsApp to check some people's status and a lot of them made different complaints. Complaints like, if I were her, I'd have made a long gown, if I were him, I'd have added colour red to make it radiant. Oh really? Now let me ask you, if you were in that person's shoe, will you do better? Be honest here. Can you ever do better than what they've done? Some people cannot even spend much money on the cloth like those celebrities have done and the only thing they could say is, "her dress is bad" "his cloth isn't even lovely" this and that. Honestly, it's not fair πŸ˜“.

We shouldn't expect people to do things right all the time and we shouldn't always think that we are wiser simply because we're not in their shoes. Let's appreciate the little things and we should not always think we are wiser than the person in that situation because we don't know what he or she went through to be able to make whatever decision he made. Let's always learn to appreciate things and we shouldn't always find mistakes in everything. Yeah, there may be mistakes but there are polite ways to tell someone about his or her mistake instead of saying it in an offensive way.

Do not judge people because you're not in their shoes.

Don't think you're wise when it comes to someone else's situation because you're not the one in that situation.

Remember, do not always think that you are right.

Have a nice day😊

Thanks for reading ❀️❀️

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LoL. People have differences an m opinion or preference may be different from someone else's. Also, a lot of those celebrities didn't design those clothes themselves, the designer does the work and perhaps show them. While some are merely showcasing, like advertising for the designer.

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2 years ago

Honestly, I totally understand what you're talking about but I think we should be able to appreciate their works. Most of us do not know even know how to appreciate we only find faults

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2 years ago

We should not always believe we are right all the time; most of the time, we must accept our errors and learn from them in order to improve.

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2 years ago

You're veryy right. But the moment we actually realize you can never satisfy everybody, you'll just do your thing and forget about other opinions as long as you do not negatively affect anybody

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2 years ago

Yupppp. Negative opinions shouldn't be entertained in one's life because it may bring one down

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2 years ago

Thia doesn't only happened in Africa, even here in Philippines, it does happen, I remember while doing my house job, some group of folks were always there to complain. I wish I was the one doing it.. I would have done it better...

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2 years ago

Wow. Sorry about that. And I'm sure that they cannot find someone like you again. People don't know how to appreciate things

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2 years ago

Before I tried to find out why some people hate me so much and I used to make solution and considered those were my mistakes but it wasn't..we can't make everyone happy and satisfied

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2 years ago

Yes. No matter what you do in life just have it in your mind that there is someone somewhere that is not satisfied

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2 years ago

Omo, πŸ˜‚ African parents are so funny sometimes, well for me, I don't start claiming that I am right if I am sure of what I say.

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2 years ago