About childhood boredom

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"Mom, I'm bored," my five-year-old son complains as he walks into my room. I'm having deja vu. I've heard it before. In fact, my child of that age came to me with the same statement: "Mom, I'm bored." I used to think he didn't know what to do, so I suggested a dozen options. It never worked. Upon leaving, the child seemed dissatisfied with my suggestions. I shook off the resulting discomfort by remembering what I had read in popular psychology magazines about how boredom is healthy.

As the years go by, our homeschooled children get over this phase. And we never hear them complain about boredom. They seem to have found an inexhaustible inner source of creativity that fills them with endless curiosity. Yes, they will come to you, but more often to ask questions like "What is a black hole?" or "What's the difference between government and parliament?" or "Why does a car have a gearbox?"

Having studied the approach through some psychology books, I found words for many things I knew intuitively, and got confirmation of things I wasn't entirely sure of. But I never really understood what it meant to say, "Mom, I'm bored," until I came across this advice.

Armed with this knowledge, I even rejoiced when my five-year-old came to me with the statement, "Mom, I'm bored." I caught his look and asked: "Really bored?" He nodded. I patted myself on the knees and said: "Come on my lap."

He reluctantly walks over and sits down. But as soon as he sits down, something begins to change. After a minute, I feel him relax in my presence. I make sure he is comfortable. Then we watch something together on the computer or tablet or talk about something. Sometimes I just keep working while my son sits on my lap. After a few minutes, I can feel his strength returning to him. Soon he says smiling: "I've figured out what to do!" - and walks away.

Now I realize that childhood boredom usually has nothing to do with a lack of activities or even a lack of interesting activities!!!! It arises from a lack of energy due to a lack of affection. A child who lacks affection often becomes obsessed with it. The phrase "I'm bored" really means "I don't have the energy to do anything. I need to be hugged, held on my lap, or talked to by those to whom I am attached, such as Mom, Dad, or Grandma." When a child's need for affection is met, a reserve reserve of energy (inner energy) opens up, and the child sees for himself or herself many possibilities of what to do.

In today's busy lives, it is often not obvious what is behind our children's difficulties and behavior. Lack of contact with those to whom they are attached is the cause of many problems. We need to nurture our children's attachment to us, no matter what they do, because it gives them the energy to grow, mature, and learn.

We don't pay much attention to our children...

But they share their childhood secrets with us in the hope that we parents are their "best friends and will never leave them. And a higher happiness than ironing your child's hair your baby's hair when he's crawling all over you, trying to get a better to get a better fit,

There's no higher happiness. That's what life... real, beautiful, bright... Only ours and our children. If you don't have time at all or are very tired! Then choose the time to walk on your day off. You don't just have to, you just have to!!!! Make time for YOUR child!!!! We are the ones who shape and organize their childhood.

This article is dedicated to all parents who are very busy with everyday life.

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