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Depression Is Not A Joke Blog #235 May 02, 2022 ***"I am afraid to tell because others might say that I am just overacting"*** ***"I am just a useless person in this world. It's better to be away in this world."*** ***"No one understands my feeling. I am alone in this battle. I am alone and no one is ready to listen."*** These are just a few thoughts of those people who have experienced being depressed. Being in that situation is never been easy and will never be. If no one ever listens to them, they will end up taking their life. Just 6 days ago, as I was browsing my Facebook page, I saw a post from my batchmates saying that they can't believe that "J" (the initial of her name) had committed suicide. While reading the comments, there was someone who said that "J" was still very energetic before the day she ended her life. She also can't believe that it actually happened because they have known "J" as a positive and strong person. These are the post that she had on Facebook before the day she left this world: *****Memories are made to let you remember all the things you have made during your stay here on earth.***** *****Gonna miss those memories with folks, super busy niyo na Kase eh...miss y'all***** *****In God's hands, everything will be fine. Amen.***** Many were saddened at that sudden happening especially those who were dormmates of "J". And many also said that she shouldn't have done that act because she had kids that depended on her. Depression is not easy. Sometimes those who undergo this kind of situation chose not to open up to others because they think that others might judge them. Others might just say that they are overacting but the truth is, there are too many heavy loads in their hearts already. Sometimes they are afraid to open up because they are afraid that no one will listen to their dramas in life. They are afraid that no one will listen to what they are going to say. Sometimes they feel like they are alone in their battles. They feel like no one is there when things go wrong. To those who have been through it right now, please choose to talk to God if you can't open it up to anybody. God will always be willing to listen to you and will never leave you in despair. He will enlighten your mind and heart and He will lead you to the right path. I am advising this because I was once there. I was once in a situation where I almost end up my life because I feel like I am only a burden to my family. During that time, I was so ashamed of my family for the mistake that I did and I thought that ending my life was the only solution but thank God, He didn't let me commit that big sin. He opened my eyes and let me realize that there are many reasons why I shouldn't end my life. He also let me realize that one mistake can't be solved by making another one. Thank God for guiding me that time because if I chose the other way around, I would not be here today and I would not know how beautiful it is to be able to live until today. **In God, everything will be okay.** **Closing Thoughts** *Life is full of trials and hardships but always know that those are not permanent. After those downtimes, you can be able to see the light again so choose to fight. Someday as you look back on that downtimes, you will be prouder of yourself for not giving up. You may experience many depressing times, anxiety, and almost give but when you see that you are still standing firm at the moment, you will say to yourself, that* ***"yes I made it"*** *because you overcome all those.* Thank you to my generous sponsors for the continuous support and to all who leave likes, comments, and upvotes on my daily publish articles, thank you so much. Have a blessed evening you all! https://read.cash/@BCH_LOVER/as-promised-a-token-of-appreciation-9600649a#thank-you-to-my-generous-sponsors-for-the-continuous-support-and-to-all-who-leave-likes-comments-a
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Right depression kills the inner person and destroys all the happiness I still remember when my brother go into depression
*Hope your brother is okay as of the moment... Depression can't be healed right away but if there is always someone who will always be there for them, things will be okay*
Go! sis let's empower those people who have been in this kind of struggle. It's hard but must try than never.
*Yes sis, let's help them to overcome what they have been through. It isn't easy but if they know that there is always someone or other people who will always be willing to help and listen to them, they will be able to overcome it*
Recently just a few weeks ago, a well known football player in my area did suicide and in that evening only I saw him chatting happily with his friends, he had a wife and new born kids. I felt sad as well as angry as those kids lost their only shade of hope. Suicide may kill your problems but it gives rise to problems to your loved ones. I can't imagine the load and suffering her wife is getting now. If anybody ever wants to talk and feel depressed just approach people whom you know 5 will judge you but 3 of them will ignore you but 2 of them will help you. And it's enough help to get back you in track.
*Oh that's saddening...You're right, suicide May have ended ones sufferings but it gives more problems to those who are left behind. I know for sure that right now, the wife have been very down and more problematic about their situation but I hope her family will be there for her so she won't be depressed about the sudden happening in their life. I pray that God will strengthen her heart for her kids.*
Its not an easy thing, kya the prople who sufferef depressio should mot be lef akone
*Tama sis, hindi talaga madali malagay sa ganyang sitwasyon kaya kailangan talaga na May laging mag checheck sa kanila kung ok ba sila*
Kulba kaau ng depression sis mao di jud ka mgpdla sa imo gebati. Thank God na overcome nimo. Never ko ka experience ani sis ky mkapahungaw mn ko sko elder sister sauna plus sko mga amiga pud
*Lagi sis, kung magpadala ana, Luoy kaayo ang mga nahibilin Tawn.. Thank God kay nahayagan pa gyud akong utok that time..Maayo kay daghan ka masultihan sis, malikay ka anang depression*
Hastang luoya jud sis. Younger sis nko nagka depression mna mao kmi tnan damay lagi. Kusog na mka self pity sis ky advance na sila mg isip. Naa rana sa tao sis kung mgpadaug sa gebati.
*Mao jud sis. Kung magpadaug, Luoy ang mga tawo nga nakadepende pa sa ilaha Tawn...Maayo kay na ok na imo manghod sis.*
Hastang luoya jud sis. Laki rmn iya geproblma sis ui. Sana all lagi mao sagdahan rkn namo kesa mgpadepress depress dw matud pa tatay so prblma na sd.
*Ay Mao? Laki d i problema pero sagde lang, sabton lang kay lisod na ug unsay mahunahunaan na buhaton*
By category diay ning depression sis nho ky sya laki mn jud iya dahilan pirmi mao sagdahan na lng namo kesa mglubog na sd sa hegdaan nga way kaunay lagi.
Aw. Grabe naman yon sis. Nakakaawa naman, di niya kinaya. Kaya maganda kung lagi natin chinicheck mga kaibigan natin. Kung okay ba sila or may problem ganon.
*Kaya nga sis, di niya kinaya kaya napili niyang wakasan yung buhay niya..Tama sis, kailangan talaga nating e check yung mga tao sa paligid natin kasi di natin alam na May pinagdadaanan na pala sila*
Hindi talaga joke sis Kasi Danas ko Yan at talagang Ang hirap laban Ang depression...Sobra ,Lalo na pag sa Isang tao ka na depressed naku Ewan ko nalang kung di ka mangangayayat
*Mahirap talaga sis, yung bigla ka nalang maiiyak tapos di mo alam kung ano ba dapat gawin. Parang sobrang gulo ng isip natin.*
Maximum attention to our mental should be practiced because those overweighing thoughts have the capacity to push to commit. Suicide is never a remedy to depression. We should be strong no matter what, and face the issue. Everything we are passing through today have been encountered by many and they scale through. I feel for the lady that committed suicide leaving her daughter behind, she must have felt alot of pain in her depression wing
*Yeah, suicide is never been a solution to that, but others who can't overcome it, that's the only solution they see to end up their sufferings.. yeah, in her post you could really feel that she had gone through some pains*
Kaluoy c e atu niya sis. Mas maayu gyud nga mag-open tas atung mga problems ngadto sa atung pamilya or friends ba kaha. Dili na lalim uy. And yes, talk to God. Talking to God is best. Nakasuway jud ko ana sis. Kanang iampo nimo nga mawa imong kasakit nga gibati.
*Lage sis mas maayo pero naa jud uban nga Dili maka open kay lagi ingnon lang na obwracting kuno or nagdrama lang para kaluy an...Yes sis, talking to God is the best. Makagaan kaayo na sa gibati niya malamdagan Sab atong Huna-huna*
I got goosebumps po dun sa mga last post niya, parang nagbibigay na po siya ng sign. Kaya dapat po talaga we never label someone as a dramatic or being OA Kase we don't know kung gaano kabigat problema nila. Maybe they are smiling but deep inside, they suffer a lot🥺
*Kaya nga no? Feel ko din na parang namamaalam siya sa post niya...Oo nga, dapat maging open tayo sa mga ganyan kasi di natin alam na May mabigat na pala silang pinagdaanan. Tama ka, kahit nakangiti yan, pero deep inside grabe na pala yung dinadala nilang bigat sa loob*
Yes depression is not really a joke people that are facing depression can do the worst because when the see their selves as nothing or having added any value to the society they might just decide to do a negative thoughts and just end the useless life, but unlike you have said there's always a way out in everything we are going through, we should have in mine that we are never alone, I normally like taking God by his God.
*That's true, it is never been easy but there's always some ways to overcome it and one of the best way is talking to God. In my experience, after talking to God, it can lighten up the heavy feelings that i have felt before*
Depression really is not a joke jud sis. The hardest thing to do kasi is to battle with yourself, and if your depressed, their could be a big chance na matalo ka yan naman kasi mahirap.
*Tinuod jud sis. Di jud lalim ng ingon na kay pwede ta mapildi ana Mao maka Huna-huna ug Dili Maayo*
Yes sis endeed,mahirap kalaban ang depression,mentally at physically affected,napagdaan ko nadin yan thanks god he enlighten me
*Tama ka diyan sis. Thanks God at na overcome natin yung ganyan sis*
We should really reach out to those people or friends that we feel may need our help or a shoulder to rely on. I admit, I am also depressed but I am happy that I have great friends that are there to check on me. Yung mga depressed na to they look like happy and laugh out loud pero deep inside, they are crying and dying to be listened to.
*Maganda yan sis na May mga kaibigan kang masasabihan para kung ano man yung bigat na dinadala mo, mailabas mo sa kanila at May magpapayo sa iyo kung ano dapat mong gawin..Totoo yan sis, naka-smile o tumawa man yan sila pero sa loob nila, grabe na pala yung bigat na pinagdadaanan nila*
Kasi pag nagoopen-up sila usually sinasabihan na "ang drama mo" or "think positive"..Mahirap kaya mag think positive palagi. Mahirap yung sis lalo na pag di masyadong madasalin ang tao kahit di madasalin, basta marunong magmeditate at di sya takot harapin ang sarili nya makakayanan nya ang depression.
Minsan nag popost din ako ng ganun about my depression na kaya ko pa naman but deep inside sobra hindi na talaga kaya. Mahirap kalaban ang depression lalo na kung mahina ka kaya saludo ako sa mga taong nakaranas ng depression na nakaya nilang labanan:)
*Hirap talaga niyan sis, yung kahit sabihin mong okay ka pero deep inside, di na pala. Yung minsan bigla na lang tutulo ang luha dahil sa di mapigilang emosyon. Magulo yung isip at hindi maka isip ng tama*
Ako sis never ata akong nagisip na patayin self ko kahit na feeling ko is pagod na pagod ako may times na naiiyak nalang ako sa tabi pero yung isipin na patayin ang sarili ki naiisip ko kung ano magiging itsura ko. Ang weird noh? Noon yunv parang nadepress ako,iyak ako ng iyak tapos parang naisip ko na yun mawlaa nalang tapos nung naisip ko anong aggamitin kong para mawala sa mundo biglang nag sink in sakin kung ano magiging itsura ko kapag ginawa ko yun.😂😅 Kaya every time na pakiramdam ko ang bigat ng pakiramdam ko nanonood nalang ako ng drama tapos hahayaan ko na umagos luha ko. Ayun kahit papano naiibsan yunh bigat na nararamdaman ko. Kawawa naman siya maybe wala talaga siyang makausap kaya mas pinili nalang niya kitlin sarili niya. Kawawa naman mga naiwan niya sis😢
Depression and hopelessness have many faces. Being stuck in bed is not always a sign. This world is full of criticism and judgement, which destroys innocent lives.
When you are in depression you can can-do anything, but is only GOD that helps us,in God all things are possible, the only way we can over come depression, anxiety is by prayer, prayer kill anxiety and depression.
Depression is really deadly. The least we can do is pay attention to others and try to impact on them positively. Say no to depression today
Depression is very real and it doesn't just come once. It's a buildup. It grows gradually till the person is unable to hold it up.
Sis ang depression sa buhay ay hindi birong pagdaanan. Huwag paghinaan ng loob upang ang depression na pingdadaaban ay masolutionan.
Mostly bitaw na karun sa mga naay mag suicide dae kay naa silay mga sign nga e post sa Facebook dayun unya nalang ma realized sa mga friends or relatives kung wala na. Huh ka looy sad nagpadala man siya sa pagka depress pray lang gyud unta para ang devil mopalayu.
Depression is truly not an easy thing ma'am .. I battled it for so long and I'm so glad I came across a post talking about same thing.. I think I will even write about my depression experience
Mahirap talaga kalabanin ang depression sis. And mostly, pag hindi na kaya talagang suicide ang siyang palaging nasaisip. But all I can say is that, once na makaranas ka ng depression mas mabuti pang eshare sa kaibigan or sa taong malapit sayo. Lahat ng problema may solution at higit sa lahat, have faith in God because through to Him nothing is impossible 🙏
Yes depression is not a joke but we do not take it serious. I don't know why.in this condition i will recommend that we should listen to that person or if we are facing it we should share.recently a university student commit suside he was intelligent and talented.but after his death they found a last letter written by that guy. Actually he was suffering from depression he wrote i am looser i can't do anything i have no one to listen me in this world i am going to my mom.as her mom was died.it was too awefull to read his writing.
Indeed depression is not a joke. Sa isa ka article NAKO sis tong Fast Talk To Confession niabot jud ko sa point sa akoang life nga pila ko katimes ga attempt lisod kaayo oy. Pero padayon japon sa life. Salamat sa mga taong nakapalibot maski usahay sila pud ang dahilan hehe
Ang problem kasi dito sa Pinas pag sinabing depress ka usually sasabihin nila it is just a phase. It is hard to be mentally ill because we do not know which part of our body is aching.
Tama di talaga biro ang depression. I feel sad that 'J' already ended her life 😥
I feel sad to "J", life is unpredictable. Indeed depression got the idea of suicide. Infact other people who have depression doesn't fair with death. They embrace it cause it's a solution but it's not the right hope everything will be fine.
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