Be Ready to Listen To What Your Friends Have Gone Through

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Blog #357

September 14, 2022

Everyone of us had different struggles face at the moment but not everyone has a brave heart to conquer those.

As I was reading some articles, I had come to my friend's article where she stated what she had gone through at the past months. She battled with her depression but good thing that there's someone who was ready to listen to her. Someone who let her express what she had felt. Someone who encourage her to fight not only for herself but also for her little princess. After expressing all those, she felt lighter and her mind was enlighted on what to do.

In battling with depression, it's really important to have someone who is there ready to listen to what we felt. It's good to know that there are few people who will not judge us for what we felt, instead they are their to support, encourage and uplift us when we needed someone to understand our feelings.

In times like this, a person who have experience depression can't think properly on what to do. His or her mind are clouded with so many negative thoughts that sometimes could lead them to end their life. I must say, it's not easy to be in this situation because I was once there. I had battled with depression after I gave birth to twins. When I had experienced it, no one was there for me. No one knew what I really felt inside. No one knew because I was always the one left at home. My other companions were so busy minding their own life that they didn't bother to check on me.

But despite being alone in that battle, I am thankful that I am able to conquer that undesirable feeling. I'm thankful that in those times I have God who strengthen my heart and mind. Honestly, when I was in depressed state, I had been thinking with some suicidal thoughts but God is so good that He didn't let me be defeated to it. He enlightened my mind on what's the right thing to do. He let me open my eyes to see that there are still more reasons to fight for my life.

Closing thoughts

Post-Partum Depression is not a joke, not acting either, it is REAL and one who had gone through it must not be judged instead show your support and be ready to listen to them. Having someone ready to listen and understand them is already a big thing.

To all moms who had been through depression, know that you are not alone in that battle. Find someone whom you can talk to and pray always to God to strengthen your heart and mind to be able to fight and win against it.

To all husbands who have a wife who have gone through this, please show your love, care, support, and understanding to them. That's what they really need to feel that there's someone who will always be there for them, especially in that trying times in their life.

To someone who have friends that experience this, be ready to open your ears to what they are going to say. Your understanding and words of encouragement will matter to them. You might be someone who will be able to save them in that situation.

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I have been battling depression to, sobrang daming negative, morbid thoughts but I am glad that God kept me sane. I do pray that He will always keep my sanity intact. And I am thankful that I have friends in my personal life and my great friends here too.

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2 years ago

Pray lang lagi tayo kay God sis na palakasin lagi yung loob natin. Di biro ang maging depressed pero kakayanin nating labanan yan sa tulong ng ating mga kaibigan o pamilya at ng Panginoon.

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2 years ago

Ako talaga sis ahhhh madaldal akong tao pagdating sa nararamdaman ko, kaso nga biglang nagbago kasi wala akong mapagsabihan ng sama ng loob kaya siguro masyadp akong nag overthink ngayun na buntis ako hasyt

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2 years ago

Ayaw kaayo pag overthink sis kay basin maapektuhan nya ang baby nimo. Pangita ug mga kabusyhan nimo nga butang para healthy mo duha ni baby mentally, emotionally and physically.

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2 years ago

Nabasahan nko na iya article sis ug dati naga chat mi ana kdtong active pa sya dri ug wa ko mg expect nga ingon ana sya ky naa mna sya mga friends nga silingan lng nya. Sabagay pg mg inusara na sya bsin pud mgpadala sya iya gebati ug mg self pity bya ta diba. Di jud lalim muagi ug post-partum nho nya ang ubn murag c knsa nga mao pay abtik modjudged.

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2 years ago

Wa sad jud pud ko mag expect sis nga ingon ana na d i iyang naagian. Mao sad lagi sis, lakas maka self pity kung naa nay depression Mao need jud nga naa'y laing tawo nga need maminaw sa Iyaha ug andam musabot sa sitwasyon. Dili kay e judge kesyo nagdrama or nagpaluoy² lang. Di ra ba lalim ng ingon Ana.

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2 years ago

Mao Ng mgkdrma na lng ug mgtiktok para di cge kaguol then malimtan usa mga prblma ba. Dpat naa jud kapahungawan sa tanan gedala dala sa life ky lisod na pero ako dedmahon nmn lng nko sis. Mglinagw lingaw rkog akoa till mkalimot ko.

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2 years ago

Ako kay Tiktok ug KDrama ra sad sis or duwa ug games sa cellphone para madedma ng gibati. Di jud ta magpapeldi Ana kay naa pa ra ba mga bata magsalig sa atoa.

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2 years ago

your article is very interesting i enjoyed reading it write articles like this so that we are teachers by reading .

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2 years ago

Thanks you so much and thanks for this wonderful comment of yours.

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2 years ago

Having someone to listen to your feelings makes everything lighter. Kaya people need to be more open and understanding about these things.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis. Kailangan talaga ng may taong makakaunawa at handang makinig sa mga ganitong pinagdadaanan ng isang tao.

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2 years ago

It's nice to have some people around you whom you can talk and share your problems with. It also helps when one has a lot of stuff to do so that she'll get busy and won't be able to entertain negative thoughts.

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2 years ago

That's true sis. Having some people whom we can talk and express what we truly felt inside can lessen the unwanted feelings we have inside.

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2 years ago

Being a woman I can understand it. A woman always wants and seeks love, care, some respect, support, and understanding nothing else, and when she suffer through depression... She need a bit more care

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2 years ago

That's true. We women are emotional and when we are hit by depression, what we want from our family or loved ones is care and understanding.

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2 years ago

That is very much true.... Thankyou for understanding. Good day my friend

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2 years ago

You're welcome my friend. Good night! 🧡

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2 years ago

Uff, it's good that you leave such a great message, depression is not just anything and many cannot understand it, many judge and think that it is wanting to attract attention.

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2 years ago

That's the sad reality. Others think that when someone had been through it, they are just acting up just to let other people pity them.

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2 years ago

Dili gayud lalim ng postpartum depression sis. Daghan gayud nag suicide tungod ana. Malooy nalang gayud ko. Maong kailangan gayud nila naay tawo na naa permi sa side nila.

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2 years ago

Di gyud lalim sis Mao kinahanglan jud nga naay tawo nga andam Musuporta ug musabot sa feelings na'to.

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2 years ago

Mao gayud sis. Dapat naay muagakay nila permi sis. Need nila pag ayo. Dili lalim ang depression.

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2 years ago

Tinuod jud na sis. Mas madali ang pag heal sa ilang depression kung naay tawong muagapay nila.

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2 years ago

Mao gayud sis. Maong dapat naay muagakay nila permi especially yung mga love ones nila.

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2 years ago

Ako dae kay permi ra man jud ko mag inusara unya naa gyud time as in empty jud ko dayun sige naman jud ko kabasa about ani nga feelings lage mao to maningkamot jud ko nga ibaling nako akong attention sa lain kay need jud nako magpaka strong dili ko pwede magpadaug sa kahuyang og syempre ubanan jud nato sa pag ampo. So mao nga unta sa uban nga maka feel og depressed maningkamut jud nga unta dili magpadaug og unta tanan tawo aware about aning depression thing.

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2 years ago

Mas maayo na dae nga ibaling sa ubang butang kay para makalimtan ng mga negatibong gibati. Sa mga tawong pareho nato na walay ma storyahan, mas nindot jud ng naa Tay laing pagkaabalahan like mag Tan aw ug mga dramas or mga videos na makatabang para malimtan ang lain na feelings nga atong gibati. Unta, sa mga nakaagi ani, mas lig onon nila ang ilang dughan ug connection sa Ginoo para ilang maconquer ng depression.

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