She lost her confidence!

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I hope you all are well and doing great!

Today i want to share a real life story of a girl with all of my readers. So let's run to the topic:

There's a girl, confident, bold , sweet with everyone and also she tries to bring smile on everyone's face but she had one issue that is she really face difficulty while speaking, means she was stammering, unable to speak fluently like a normal person.

When she was child, everything was okay, she was really confident and bold she used ro take good marks and she was a top position holder in her class but when she was in grade 4th she suddenly started stammering while speaking words, and the issue was really severe that even she was not able to convey her message and thoughts to others.

Her class fellow's and friends started bullying her and she was really heartfelt even though she started to speak less and spend time alone with herself, being a child it was difficult for her to face these Bulley, and one day she asked her father that she want to change her school as it was difficult for her to face all this ,but he completely refused, he asked her to not focus on anything and just continue your studies here as i have admitted you in really good school so by anyways you have to study here till your ssc, she can do nothing she used to go to school everyday and everyday she had worst experience as some teachers also taunted her cos private schools have much name but no quality in some places, she never shared anything with even a single person then one day she told each and everything to her grandmother, she used to cry by hugging her for even hours.

When every student and her classmates noticed that she scared and a little bit frustrated they started teasing and bullying her even more when teacher asked to read anything she was really unable to speak and whole class was making fun of it. Slowly as the time passed she was completely changed even though some peoples asked her why are you soo much changed? You doesn't seemed like as you were before!

She lost her confident, and she was really sad that why is he not able to talk properly? Why suddenly all this happened with her. Even though she stopped talking in front of crowd, she was afraid to talk in public, yeah she was the same girl who used to participate in many activities, she won some speech competition but now she was not even able to talk with a single person.

One day it was a pack up time in her school, she was sitting still in the class and wandering in her thoughts that she doesn't payed attention that all students left the class, she quickly stood up and and ran towards the door but what's that? The door was locked. Her classmates locked her in an empty room she wasn't matured, she was frightened that what will happen now, qhole school was closed nobody knew that she was inside, she kept sitting there being scared, her family memebers were searching for her every one was thinking that she will not be in the school as the school is closed, but when she heard magrib azan she started crying in helplessness, the darkness of night was spreading everywhere, she thought that nobody will come for her but after some time the door was opened, she widely opened her eyes, it was her father thank god, her eyes were swollen.Actually her father has a good friends with VP of school and he requested him to once check whole of the school.

She again asked her father that she doesn't want to continue studies here but when her fathers decides something it was final.

Then her grandmother used to take her a different doctor every other day, she took some medicines some said she has severe stammering issue and she has to live with her maybe it will be cured or maybe not. She used to practice speaking perfectly for hours when she failed she used to cry and scream.

She was living her life in silence, her personality was changes still she was a hard working girl getting good grades but losing confident is her biggest loose, she used to speak less and unable to speak in front of many peoples.

Suddenly she started recovering, her stammering issue was lessened as the time is passing and when she was in grade 11th she was able to speak fluently, back to her original position, she was really happy that she is recovering but still she is not able to talk confidently, she face difficulty to speak face to face with peoples, still her confidence is not back, she is still not even a 1% confident as she used to be when she was child!

Still now when she is frustrated, hearted or angry sometimes she started stammering a little but she is trying best to not stammer in front of anyone. I hope th older version of her will come back one day!

She suffered many things, suffering this is not a little thing, it's very difficult to cope with such peoples and environment they never understand the others situation, if you can't do anything good just stay away even don't do such things don't hurt anyone so badly that(s)he needs to completely change his/her personality

Although it was not that big problem but she was tortured mentally, she was suffering loneliness and depression although she is a much loving girl she used to gave more and more love and importance to every person in her life.

We should help someone if we can, otherwise we have no right to bulley others, no right to Bulley anyone who is helpless, who has no control over any thing that is happening.

There's a difference between joking and bullying!

Never ever bulley someone, although try to treat such peoples with more love and care as they are really fighting a fight with their own self !

There are many things that some peoples are hiding perfectly behind their smile, so try to spread love.

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It is a truly tragic situation in our society that people criticize a person's natural defect and try to humiliate him. Instead of supporting the innocent girl, people teased her. I wish people would check their personal behavior to see what they are doing. We must not forget that our attitude is the identity of our family. I hope that girl will answer everyone with confidence in the future.

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2 years ago

Yes it's really a disturbing and painful situation instead of supporting someone peoples started to criticise them, maybe i hope she'll be able to gain her confidence back.

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2 years ago

Our society is too much cruel if someone facing some kind of issue then instead of helping him/her they start torture her and make the person mentally ill

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2 years ago

Yes it's the bitter truth of our society 😔

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2 years ago

Honestly speaking, bullying and taunts make people lose their confidence, and this girl here did. I have once being in a similar situation. Thank goodness she later started returning to get normal self. Nice to meet you. Enjoy your stay

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2 years ago

I can feel your pain , yeah I am also glad that she is a normal person now but she is not confident even 1%, and confidence is the main power be successful, its more nice meeting your, thanks for your precious compliment.

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2 years ago

Bullies we always find In schools and I wonder why schools are not putting sanction in place to contain those student. Their attitudes can send emotionally weak students to unnecessary emotional torture.

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2 years ago

Yes i agree with you suffering torture, mental torture and all that is really hard, schools should take strict actions for such students.

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2 years ago

It's too bad to bully anyone. We shouldn't do this at all. My younger cousin of age 6 or 7 have this speaking problem but we always listen to him with concentration and carefully so that he got confidence that he is speaking good.

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2 years ago

Yeah that's right i am really feeling happy that you guyz are supporting him, listening him carefullinstead of acting as like you are fed up, shouting on him to speak properly these things are not in the hands of sufferer and some people still think that bullying is not a big deal it's really a big issue one can suffer a lot from thia behaviour.

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2 years ago