Things you don't have to do.

Our reactions to others are quite significant; the way we respond to other people's complaints or situations is crucial in a person's life since it will help them remain calm at that particular time.

Reactions to people's situations when they come to us with a complaint are very important in their lives if the comment we make is a good one.

Let's take a look at five (5) things we don't have to do;

• React to every comments/situation.

• Hold grudges.

• Change yourself to please others.

• Stay perfect 24/7.

• Solve everyone's problem.

1.React to every comments/situation.

When people come to us for help, our reaction is important because the words we say at that time can add to their pain and cause them harm. When someone comes to us with a problem, the best thing we can do is listen carefully before making any comments so we don't add to their problems.

The words we use have a big impact on people's lives; the word is a powerful weapon that may both injure and calm people, so let's strive to use it correctly so we don't add to their troubles.

2.Hold grudges.

Grudges should not be held for extended periods of time; someone may have offended us in the past for anything they did that was unpleasant to us; instead, we should let our minds wander and forget about what happened in the past or present.

Someone may have wronged you in the past, causing you to be angry, but let's relax and not carry grudges; it's pointless to hold grudges.

3.Change yourself to please others.

We should not modify ourselves in order to please others; instead, we should stay true to ourselves and live our lives as we see fit; it is our life, not theirs, so don't waste it trying to please them.

Instead of living your life to impress those who may someday reject you, be yourself and be true to yourself..f..

4.Stay perfect 24/7.

What comes to mind when you hear the phrase "stay perfect"? It has a lot of different meanings, but let me explain the one I'm talking about.

Nobody is perfect, so staying perfect means striving to be the best we can be, even if we aren't. We just need to stay perfect and do our best to live our lives the way we want.

5.Solve everyone's problem.

(We can't cure everyone's problem, but we can always be there for someone), you may read it again to grasp the statement, we can't be there for everyone, but we can always be there for someone.

We don't have to force ourselves to be there for everyone, but we can try our hardest to be there for someone. It's impossible to solve every problem that arises, so the least we can do is solve the ones that we can.

In conclusion.

When individuals come to us for help, we should be careful about the comments we make since they can either exacerbate or alleviate their difficulties.

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