How to train up our children.

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As it implies children are the ones we look after so that when we grow old they would take proper care of us.we need to train up our children in a good way right from their birth so that when they grow old they won't depart from it.

We all know children learns fast and grow fast so what you teach them right from birth would follow them until they grow old, let's try to teach them the good way so they won't be lazy or regret that they weren't taught.

Some parents don't allow their children to do some house chores when they are young so why do such parent think the child would actually learn it when he/she grows old,we need to show them the good way and also extract them from doing the wrong thing.

Parents shouldn't let their children go out to hawk or start planning at a younger age it would affect their thinking faculty since they would know money at a younger age and it would actually disturb them while in school.

There are so many cases of parents throwing their children out to hawk and make them suffer what they also suffered from when they were young,this isn't a good thinking from the parent,if eventually the child becomes rich he might not remember his parents, that's why we need to show them love and also provide the necessities they need.

Whenever we see that our child goes astray,we shouldn't hesitate to spare the rod on such child so he/she would know that the act they did last time wasn't a good thing he/she wouldn't do that next time,but if we continue to pamper them such child would think what all he/she is doing is right.

Let me take you to a real life story that once happened..

There was a woman who had a child,she was a mother who never cared about her son,she just let him be to face his fear in life,the child started stealing chicken and brought it home,the mother was happy about it and didn't even ask her son where she got it,they cooked it and ate it together,the child continue stealing chicken and so later advanced to goat which the mother also kept quiet and didn't bother to ask where her son was getting those animals,she just know her son brings back some animals whenever he goes out,which unknown to her he was stealing it.

The boy advanced to robbery and also the mother kept quiet until a certain day when the thief would steal and be caught at the scene came,the boy was caught and was about to be killed by the officers who caught him in one of his robbery operation,the officers brought him to a public scene and called his parents to show forth,the boy called his mom to come forward that she want to tell her something,as her mother brought her ear closer to him,he bite her mom's ear off and the woman was left in pains,but when they asked the child why he did that,he told them his mother didn't warn him when he started stealing chicken but are it happily instead of asking the child where he got it from.

Did you think what the child did was right?

Moral lesson: Let's train up our child in a good way so that when they grow old they won't depart from it,we shouldn't also hesitate to raise the rod whenever our children goes astray.

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Comments

I have also heard that story about the boy that steals Chicken. In a way I will also blame the mother for the way the son ended up, she was the one that was encouraging him to steal more. Even if she didn't tell him directly to keep stealing, her silence signifies approval

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2 years ago

You are right she didn't question her son that where was he getting those chickens from,so it was like her mother supported him

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2 years ago

I'm sorry the boy knows to chew his Mom's ears because she did not teach him but he himself does not know not to steal?? lol i see blame game.. But I agree, you need to train them young

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2 years ago

Yea we need to train them while they are young so they won't depart from it neither.. thanks for coming by.

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2 years ago

I feel sad for the boy, his mom didn't even show any care for him . As a mom it is really important to educate our children about good deeds and bad, so they won't get into trouble.

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2 years ago

You're right,his mother is the one at fault,she didn't bother to ask about where he's seeing all those things his bringing she just cooked them and ate with him, let's always teach our child to follow the good path and always question them whenever we see anything in their hand.

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2 years ago

Training one's child or children and also putting them in the right track is very important.

The mother should indeed be blamed for not asking and correcting her son. Once your child start bringing things home, engage and ask such child or children

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2 years ago

You got the point there...we should always question our child whenever we find out he brings something new home

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2 years ago

Children needs to be guided, most of all they they are innocent about things. Children should be monitored and guided by their guardian or parents.

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2 years ago

You are right...they need to be guided since they are still young and don't know anything.

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2 years ago

Definitely My Friend.

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2 years ago

I agree that a child should be asked where he/she gets the things he/she brings home.

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2 years ago

Yea parents need to ask questions whenever they see their children bringing some things into the house.

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2 years ago

Some parents do not just throw their children to go and hawk. Situation or Condition of the family may make them send their children to hawk because that is the only way they can survive but it is left for children to decide which way to go. Whether the right or wrong way.

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2 years ago

That's the point, it's the situation of the family but children on their end have to choose which way to follow.

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2 years ago

On my perspective, the way you raise a child doesn't mean the child will follow the way, some has just made up their mind to be what they want to be.

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2 years ago

Yea I understand that but the parents need to train them well and spare the rod on them so they can follow the right path.

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2 years ago

Yeah. You still right though

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2 years ago

Parents should be the first educators to their children. The attitudes and understanding will reflect to both parents.

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2 years ago

You're right buddy, parents are the first teachers in the life of a child,they need to teach them the good way and spare the rod on the child whenever he goes astray.

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2 years ago

Yeah tompak ganern friend

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2 years ago

I don't think whether or not what the child did matters, what matters is that the mother failed him into death. While it's the parents responsibility to raise a child right, at some point we become responsible for ourselves and who we are. We ought to straighten our lives out by then

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2 years ago

You are right, it's the parent responsibility to raise thier child in a good way so that they wouldn't depart from it,but the mother in the story failed to do so.

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2 years ago

This is the right thing to do as parents. Parents need to train up their children in the right way to avoid them from being destroyed. Also not to regret their future

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2 years ago

You're right we need to train them in a good way and spare the rod whenever they want to go astray.

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2 years ago

Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” β€œAll your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children.”

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2 years ago

You're right buddy,we need to train up our child the way we want them to be in future.

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2 years ago

Parents are the first teachers of the kids. Their attitude depends on how they have been trained by their parents.

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2 years ago

You're right,being a parent has so many responsibility we need to take so we can make our child's life better than...thanks for coming by.

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2 years ago

So sad to hear such story. As a parent we should teach our child and train them with good manner. Parent has a big part in molding child's behavior because we are the first teacher of our kids. Parent also should provide the needs of our children and send them to school.

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2 years ago

You're right, parents have a big role to play in taking care of their children, Thanks for coming by.

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2 years ago

You're welcome my friend

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2 years ago