All that glitters is not gold.
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Not all charming things which are good looking are gold in our eyes,we shouldn't be fooled by material things which looks charming they can be used to lure us into things that we don't want to involve ourselves in.
I've been a victim of this and all I can say is I've learnt my lesson not to be blinded by it's appearance but check into it carefully before concluding if it's worth it.
False friends are also included in it as most of the friends we have and think that they are our best friends are not literally who they are,they might speak nicely to us face to face but at our back they would tell others your deepest secret and negatively about us,we shouldn't conclude easily that our friends are the best but try to study them and understand them better before taking them as our friend,most of them are "green snakes under the green grass".
People who wear nice clothes win the soul of many people as people fall easily to attractive things,it's not the clothes that determines if one is a good person or not,before making friends with anyone it's best we take our time to study them and know their character if we are OK with it or not.
We shouldn't let ourselves to be fooled by the physical appearance of others and judge them by that,attitude isn't in our mode of dressing it's within us we need to find the inner qualities of others before concluding to make friends with them.
It would difficult for us to find a person with good heart as most everyone is trying to look attractive in the sight of others so it would be difficult to differentiate between those with pure heart and those who are just deceitful.
Our real attitude isn't found in our physical appearance as most people who are neatly dressed might not have a good heart but those who dress poorly might have a good heart it goes both ways,we just need to take our time to find out the qualities of a person before making friends.
Most poor people do get jealous of the lifestyle of the rich,they desire to become rich without literally knowing how they become rich,what they don't understand is that everyone has his/her problems both rich or poor have problems to take care of,being rich doesn't mean all your problems in life is finished,money can't solve all problems in life.
Let me make this more explanatory to us, in the movie industry it takes time for them to come up with a movie,most times it takes months and some takes years while we the watchers of the movie it doesn't take longer than an hour to finish an episode of film,before coming up with the movie the producers and actors would have some slight issues it's bond to happen but still they were able to do it,it wouldn't be included in the movie about what they passed through but they put in a lot of effort in it.
Closing thought.
Don't judge people easily by their physical appearance as clothes are used to cover your real identity,find out a person's true value before concluding to make friends with them.
Don't be tricked by the outer beauty of things as the inside might be bad just try to find out what's inside before concluding if the beauty is worth it.
It's a new month again, time flies so fast I remembered vividly when we wished ourselves to the love month and now here we are marching forward to a new month of victory, best wishes to those having birthday this month, happy new month to you all,have fun and stay blessed.
Happy new month once again to you all,wishing you all the best in this new month.π€π
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I agree. Its just like judging a book by its cover. Or food by it's look