Questions and Answers

26 47
Avatar for Aimure
Written by
2 years ago

Today has been quite the day, it had started with me waking up early to run errands for my mum. I noticed that the irritation in my throat which started last Thursday is back again. Although, it relieved me at the start of the weekend, it came back again Sunday evening. I suspect it might be a throat infection, and not the cough symptom I had initially suspected it to be. I am not sure though, so, I plan to give it a day or two to observe how it goes.

While I was going through my notifications earlier, I read an article by Ruffa How do you cope with stressful situations? And decided to make my own version by answering the series of questions and making it today's article even though I have about three drafts I am yet to complete. Well, here goes;

If you were given three things to make you happy, what would these be?

This is a tough one, because it requires me encompassing everything I want into three things I'd want. But presently, if I were to ask for three things, I'd pick money. At the moment, money would solve about 82% of my problems, and I am not kidding at all. Next, I'll pick love. Now, this simply encompasses any form of love, be it friends or family, having people around you who genuinely love you brings lots of happiness. Lastly, I'll say liberty to travel anywhere anytime. I like to travel, and one of my life gooas is travelling the world, but travelling is expensive, and can be complex too. I'd love for an easy pass in my adventure round the globe.

What task would you really fail at doing?

Really not sure what this task will be, but It could be singing or dancing. I am terrible at both, so I would fail at doing either. Only problem is that my constant attempt to sing has always ended in failure, but I never allow that stop me. 🤣🤣🤣

Do you listen to other people’s advice, or do you prefer figuring things out yourself?

I really like when I figure things out on my own, but that doesn't mean that I do not seek people's advice or opinion every now and then. You see, it is always good to view things from other people's point of view, before making any decisions. It helps to put things in perspective.

How do you cope with stressful situations?

If I have time, I just sleep. Sleep really does help me a lot. And it is practically how I effectively cope with stress, as it is my reset button. Nothing beats a good rest after a stressful event.

Which would you prefer in a romantic partner: a dreamer or an achiever?

This is tricky. Aren't dreamers achievers, and aren't achievers dreamers? I mean, what else would an achiever be achieving? Someone else's dreams? And what would a dreamer dream, someone else's achievements? Well, let me leave my logical analysis aside and just got with a dreamer. The reason for this is simply because of one of my favorite quotes by Albert Einstein which I'll leave you with:

"Logic will take you from A to B, Imagination will take you everywhere"

How important is trust in a relationship?

This is basically like asking how important is the roots of a tree to its growth. Relationships are built on trust, and any other thing I believe would cause a problem. Recently, things in my relationship(s) that has made me second guess the relationship itself. It took me weeks of churning thoughts in my head, and it always came down to one question: can I trust this person? If it were a matter of this and that, what would this person choose, even if my life depended on it. The honest truth I learnt is that you should never overestimate your importance in people's life, and you might not be their number one choice when push comes to shove, irrespective of the relationship you may share, someone can top you in the heirarchy of preference even if it was a choice between your needs and their want.

In conclusion, this is my version, and I have @Ruffa to thank for it. You can make yours too if you fancy answering the questions too.

Thank You For Reading 🖤🖤

12
$ 2.53
$ 2.01 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.05 from @Jane
$ 0.05 from @Ruffa
+ 11
Sponsors of Aimure
empty
empty
empty
Avatar for Aimure
Written by
2 years ago

Comments

Hahaha i am a dancer but not a perfect singer but i can sing little bit, your all answers are good and with positive thinking, Stay blessed and happy

$ 0.02
2 years ago

At least you're good at dancing. Thanks Aliya

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I think I will prefer to be the one who dreams and puts into practice in line with his dreams.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

You are welcome to do that. Dream and chase them

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I think there are those who dream but don't act on it :)

I hope you feel better soon.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Yeah, you are right, there are those knod of people. Thanks ARTicLEE

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Very honest and straight answers especially the part where you mentioned where one might think that they are the most important in someone else's life. ....Maybe I might write about mine soon.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Oh, I look forward to reading yours, bring it on

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Another question and answer challenge, you guys should keep bringing out things like this, it's a good way to get out of writer's block 😩 As for the three things that will make you money, I just knew money will be number one coz that's what you need right now to get a new phone 😆

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Hahaha. I am looking for one for tonight's article sef. I will complete the others on my draft later as I am not feeling too well

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I suggest you better see a doctor, before your throat gets worse, sis! Might try this question and answer too. Hmmmm.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

You are very welcome to try yours too. The throat itch has now become cough. I have taken a syrup though. Thank you

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I cope stressful days with eating food together with my friends. It makes me feel ease cause they have sense of humor. It my preference of choosing to flee stress. We have different unique solutions to cope with stress.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

You are right, we all have our different ways with which we cope with stress

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Yes, that's true we have ways in coping our stress. I appreciate those people who transcended there stress. They don't allow it to ruin their life.

$ 0.00
2 years ago

As do I. It takes a certain sense of orderliness and focus to not let stress affect your life

$ 0.00
2 years ago

In terms of coping up with a stressful situation is indeed challenging. Stress won't let me sleep and so I'd prefer to listen my favourite music and think for a good reason why should I have to stay positive. Life is tough and so we should be brave enough to face all the obstacles that made us stress. Anyway in choosing a partner, I think I'm gonna choose the achiever. As at some point there are also some people who are really good in dreaming and yet very lazy to make a move😅. Anyway that's just my own opinion.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Your opinion is very much appreciated, and never think it's not welcome, even if it is criticism. Music is a good way to deal with stress, but over the years, my listening to music has declined. True about a dreamer being lazy, buy we're together and should push each other to chase our dreams.

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Trust is like the foundation of a home, no relationship can exist without mutual trust

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Very true Lara, and I agree. Thanks for stopping by

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I replied it in her post too. I prefer loud music & screams. It heals.

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Hehehe. That's cool. I hope you're alright Luci?

$ 0.00
2 years ago

So where's the 3rd things that can make you happy? Gosh, why I didn't think of money. That can also solve all of m problem, I am so inlove with money that I am grinding hard here. Guess my love for it is still not enough coz I forgot it hahahaha. Same with dancing ang singing my gosh, I only have my concert in yhe bathroom, how about you? Hahahaha

$ 0.02
2 years ago

Hahaha. Thanks for pointing that out, as I was drafting, I said I'll come back and complete it. Let me do that now. Like you, I have concert in the bathroom too 🤣🤣🤣

$ 0.00
2 years ago

I might gonna try this too

$ 0.02
2 years ago

I'd like to read your version, please do 😁

$ 0.00
2 years ago