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1 year ago

July 10, 2022

Its been how many weeks that my family is going through a rough day, I feel so sad on whats happening but I dont know what to do, I know its a family matter but I just want to open up or share here a lil to lighten up the burden that I am carrying, I can ignore all this matter coz I am far from them but I can't coz they are my family and the issue is our mother..so I dont know where to put myself now. I feel like even they are just neighbors there but there are hearts are miles part kaya nakakalungkot talaga..hayssst!

Ung pmangkin kasi namin na kami mother namin nagpalaki is may boyfriend na and I think she loves the guy so much that nagagawa nya magsinungaling at make excuses just to meet the guy and un kinakagalit ni mother, and ayun nga pinaglitan and harsh words alam mo na kapag galit, then one of my siblings naman is somewhat kinakampihan si pamangkin pabayaan na daw at dalaga na, I get the point but what my mothes get angry is ung pagiging sinungaling nya, then ung ang ending my mom and my sibling is ndi nag-uusap, and it gets worst pa daw kasi even my niece is living with our youngest sibling si mother minomomitor pa din ito at pinapagalitan at minumura, so my others siblings are affected na din coz of our mothers attitude daw.

Then my mother is chatting me naman what happened and I am telling her that keep off her attention na sa niece namin dahil kung ndi na tlga masaway bayaan na, to avoid issues kaso she is still looking after on the actitivites of our niece. So now they are in cold war.

As much as I want to be an itruder, but I dont know how to approach my siblings ung tipong ndi ako lalabas na may kinakampihan dahil ayoko tlga gusto ko maging masaya sila uli dun gaya dati kahit mlayo ako, then I want to explain to them to have a long patience with our mother dahil matanda na ito, at marami na din nararamdaman sa sarili, pero ndi ko alam paano ko gagawin ang bigat sa dibdib na kagalit nila si mother namin at they are telling harsh words na din kay mother.

I know our mother is too strict tlga I experience it during my elementary days that even I had the most unforgetable experience with her and makes me feel cold to her way back, and during high school days I was nakawala from her kasi I studied in manila then after my high school days nagwork na ako, so we never had too much time together tlga, maybe my siblings suffers from her too much kaya nakakapagsalita sila ng ganun, but my point is matanda na sya para patagalin pa nila ung samaan ng loob nila, why not let her enjoy her days on earth.

If my mother is chatting me, she keeps telling me that if they dont want to talk to me fine, dont ever talk to me until I die and I dont want that to happened naman, kaya ung puso ko ang bigat tlga, but I dont know what to do lalo at malayo ako, alam naman natin minsan sa chat iba ang understanding ntin sa gustong iparating ng kachat natin and vice versa. Hayssst life!

Sorry for my rants guys, just want to open up this issue baka sakaling gumaan ang pakiramdam ko! Bukas ko na share ung gala namin today.

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Ganyan po talaga ang mga nakakatanda di namn sa pagiging strict pero we know na they are just doing it for our own good, at di talaga maiiwasan ang conflict na ganito kasi between our oldies and us we are growing up on a different generation and comparison still present there.

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1 year ago

Kya nga sis kaso medyo lumalalim ang gulo nila😌

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1 year ago

I think its a normal reaction from a mother. Your sibs should know that. Pero if kung ikakasama nila yong concern ng Mama nyo sa kanila then mas maigi oa nga atang mag cold war nalang sila. May mali din u g bata naman kasi, ay awan baga. Kapag ganitong issue naku naku. Dati galit na galit ako kina mommy kasi di ako pinag jujuwa. Pero now Im thankful na diko ginawa ung mga ganyan bagay.

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1 year ago

Kya nga madam, malaki tlga kasalanan nung pamangkin namin, kasi ung pagiging sinungaling at nagmukhang tanga ung taong nag-alaga at nagpalaki sa knya, pero sobra naman daw ung mga salita ni mother, kya ewan ndi ko alam kung anong move ang gagawin ko para maging ok uli sila dun😌

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1 year ago

Kahit sinong magulang na concern magagawa talaga un ee. Pero hay naku, sana lang okay mama nyo. Sana ay di na nya masamain.

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1 year ago

Kya nga madam, naawa nga ako sa knya, sabi ko nga dun na lng muna sya sa province nmin kaso solo nga lng sya kawawa din

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1 year ago

Take note: mothers knows best.. Kung galit siya pabayaan nalang natin hehe.. Kasi in the future mapapagod din yan magsuway.. Hehe

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1 year ago

Mahirap talaga maipit sa conflict ng mga mahal mo sa buhay sis. Hirap din magsalita unless kaharap mo both parties para malinawan at maexplain ng bawat isa ang kanilang saloobin. Sabi mo nga minsan hindi sapat yung chat kasi may chance na mamis interpret yung mensahe dahil di natin nakikita yung expression ng nagsasalita. Maaayos din yan sis. Yung mga siblings mo muna siguro ang kausapin mo baka nga masyado na sila nasasaktan din all these years.

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1 year ago

Sana nga maayos na din very soon🙏

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1 year ago

Grabe nan, umabot talaga sa point na di nila kinakausap mama mo.

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1 year ago

Oo madam, kya nakakalungkot tlga😌

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1 year ago

Ang hirap nmn nyan sis, ako rin ayoko rin mga alitan sa pamilya. Kaso paano na si mader mo, parang determined sya not to make amends with them.

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1 year ago

Ang hirap nga doc, ewan ba ba sana maayos pa soon

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1 year ago

Sana lumambot ang puso ng mga sibling mo at mag initiate ng pag uusap. Kasi yun parents natin Di naman natin maka kasama yan habang buhay. Baka nga malalim na yun samaan NG loob nila pero wag na sanang patagalin

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1 year ago

Un nga din ang point ko sis matamda na din pati, halos lagi na nga patay ang sinasabi😌

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1 year ago

Wag naman ganun, kahit ano pa yun parents natin satin, naku pag nawala sila, isa yan sa pinakamasakit na mangyayari sa buhay natin. Sana wag naman

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1 year ago

Kaya nga sis mas nalulungkot ako kapag naiisip ko un, alam ko naman maiksi na buhay nun, kaya dapat tlga intindihin na lng😌

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1 year ago

Pagdasal natin sila pareho sis, kasi decisions na nila yan eh, di natin macontrol na.

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1 year ago

Don't worry you will be fine...🥲

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1 year ago

Thank dear😘

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