6-12-2021
Monday
12:30 pm
#67With the time I've spent in this world, life has thought me a lot of lessons.
Man, as I will be using throughout this article is representing both males and females.
Here are some of the lessons life has thought me.
Do not put your trust in a man
This is not new to us that humans can't be trusted. Trust me, Trust me is all they would say, and in the end, they will still disappoint you.
Do not put all your hope in a man's promise.
The "I promise to love you till the end of the world"
Before marriage, they would promise you the world. I would never leave you, I would always take care of you and other sweet words. After marriage, once they've achieved their aim, they'll forget all their promises. They'll start maltreating their partner.
As we have fake love promises, we also have those that promised true love and they never failed. These people are rare nowadays.
All we have to do is to pray to God for true love. Because the world is full of liars and untrue love.
The "I promise not to tell anyone".
Tell them a secret, they'll promise not to tell anyone. They've turned it to a normal rhyme Tell a secret-i won't tell anyone. Whereas they won't just tell one person, hundreds of people will hear of your secret.
It is difficult to find someone who can hold secret. Except for family, once you find a true friend who can keep your secret, hold until the person and never let go.
The audio promises
They would promise to buy or give you something. My brother/sister don't put all your hope into it. Have a mindset that it is going to be 50/50. Either they disappoint or not you won't feel pained
Some of them make the promises publicly so the world would know, but in the end, they would fail. Life has thought me not to depend on man's promises all the time. If you do put all hope in them, and set aside all alternatives, you would end up being heartbroken.
Life has thought me to be Silent in some arguments
There's no point arguing with someone who is not ready to learn. They argue blindly without giving points to prove their argument.
Keeping mute in an argument means a lot. Though the other person will feel he/she won, deep down in them, they will feel pained. It's tested and trusted.
Like I said in some arguments. There are some arguments that you need to justify yourself and make the person know you understand what you are saying. But most times silence is the best answer.
Life has thought me to keep moving and never give up
Life has thought me not to ever give up something that still has the prospect of coming true. When you are chasing something and different challenges are coming your way. Normally we are humans, we would get tired, but giving up is not the solution.
There is time for everything, it might be that time you gave up the thing that was supposed to favor you. Life has thought me to always continue the race and never relent.
I'm sure everyone would have learnt some life lessons before now.
How did you treat those challenges?
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They make false promises and they never fulfill. Like you said, never put your trust in man.