It's funny when someone says 'her true colours show' only when they see her on her bad day. When she's not being herself. When she stops people from using her. When she started being vocal. When she started to stand for herself. When she started to defend herself. When she started to gather up her strength and build herself better than before.
Do her true colours show when she cursed and being rude? How about when she was nice and kind? Isn't it as well her true colours?
Do her true colours show when she stops helping? How about those times that she didn't think twice and lend a helping hand? And now that she felt abuse of her kindness and it brings her trouble she wants to stop and finally learns how to say "NO". You told her that her true colours show? That what? She's a fake for you want to abuse her kindness and don't want the benefit of friendship to stop?
Her true colours show because she didn't lend you money? How about the money you borrow that you haven't paid yet? How about that moment that you were so meek and humble like a sheep and turns to a tiger when ask when are you going to pay? And you want to borrow again?
Is it my true colours if I you see me getting mad at my children and shouting at them? So those forever that I've been a good loving mother was a fake me?
If I tell you that my husband and I were fighting. Does it mean our love for each other was fake and our true colours were revealed?
We all get tired. We all get sad. We all give up at times. We all got fed up with life. We all have times we cried. We all have problems and sometimes it's just too much for some. And there are just days that we need to be understood that we have that day to face and smiling to it seems impossible.
We all have our good days and bad days. We have our good side and bad side but it doesn't mean that my bad side is my true colour.
I can be nice and kind and there just some days that I can be rude or speak my mind without thinking if I'm gonna hurt somebody with my words. And that's just me. That's a part of me. I don't mean to offend anyone but there are instances that I offended people and I feel bad. I feel bad for saying the truth, for speaking up my mind. But I have to accept to myself that that's me. And that is fine. I wasn't an angel and never in disguise to be one.
It's funny how we eager to judge people only by that one time they did wrong and forget all the good deeds they made in the past. And how that person feels? That's an indescribable feeling of questioning oneself. I can only be good? Should I be only perfect in their eyes? That's why people afraid to be themselves. That's why they only love praises. That's why they're afraid of negative feedback. That's why she can't be her. That's why you can't be you.
Show your true colours. Reveal your identity to the world. Don't be scared to be told that your " true colours show". Embrace it. We all have different colours and we have dark and colourful ones. Even crayons got black. You are a good person. You're a person of colours.
It's really funny how many of us define the true color of a person. Siguro kasi yun ang kinalakihan natin at nakikita sa mga nakakatanda then napasa sa mga sumunod na generation. pag masama pinakita yung yung totoong ikaw pero pag puro kabaitan plastic daw. mga tao talaga lalo mga kababayan natin. hehe